Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb duash nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb, sidomos sepse ajo mbron opinionet, parimet dhe bindjet e saj. Mund t\u00eb nevrikoset dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzis\u00eb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, edhe pse mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb kok\u00ebfort\u00eb, nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e till\u00eb do t\u00eb gjendet p\u00ebrher\u00eb pran\u00eb personit q\u00eb do kur ai t\u00eb ket\u00eb nevoj\u00eb, edhe pa i th\u00ebn\u00eb gj\u00eb fare. Ndaj, n\u00ebse je mashkulli me fat q\u00eb ke njohur nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb, ja \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dish p\u00ebr t\u00eb:
\nNj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb e di \u00e7far\u00eb do dhe b\u00ebn gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr ta arritur. Mund t\u2019i l\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb ndjenjat p\u00ebr objektivat q\u00eb i vendos vetes, por p\u00ebr personin q\u00eb do, ajo b\u00ebn gjith\u00e7ka. Ajo do t\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh mes jush.<\/p>\n
Femrat jan\u00eb krijesa t\u00eb ndjeshme dhe nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb n\u00eb sinkron me emocionet e tua. Ajo e di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb emocionon dhe b\u00ebn gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur. T\u00eb jesh kok\u00ebfort\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb edhe t\u00eb jesh e ndjeshme.<\/p>\n
Ajo t\u00eb njeh m\u00eb mir\u00eb se veten dhe do t\u00eb luftoj\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e t\u00eb dyve n\u00eb sh\u00ebndet, siguri apo lumturi. Nuk do t\u00eb largohet n\u00ebse t\u00eb sheh duke d\u00ebshtuar, por do t\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb se t\u00eb do dhe t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet dhe do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb dy t\u2019ia dilni mban\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb energjike. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb kok\u00ebfort\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arsye. Ndoshta sepse nuk ka marr\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb ato \u00e7far\u00eb ka merituar, apo sepse ka kaluar n\u00ebp\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e saj. Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe mundohet t\u2019i arrij\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb do. Kjo jo vet\u00ebm do t\u00eb t\u00eb frym\u00ebzoj\u00eb edhe ty, por do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe at\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr fantastike n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tu si partner i saj.<\/p>\n
Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb reale. Nuk t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb frik\u00ebs, m\u00ebshir\u00ebs apo dob\u00ebsis\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dakord me ty, ta thot\u00eb hapur. Kjo gj\u00eb do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb do t\u00eb ta b\u00ebj\u00eb jet\u00ebn m\u00eb interesante. Fundja, kush do t\u00eb donte nj\u00eb lidhje me dik\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb dakord me ty? Duhet dikush q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb, pasi k\u00ebshtu edhe vet\u00ebp\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohesh. Kok\u00ebfort\u00ebsia e saj do t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira vendimet e tua, por kjo gj\u00eb do t\u2019i jap\u00eb dinamik\u00eb lidhjes suaj dhe do e \u00e7oj\u00eb at\u00eb drejt p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e sigurt. T\u00eb jesh kok\u00ebfort\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh besnike e asaj q\u00eb beson dhe femra t\u00eb tilla jan\u00eb padyshim shum\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse.<\/p>\n
Do t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebrher\u00eb p\u00ebr ty. Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e kujdesshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb re m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si t\u00eb trajtojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ajo do t\u00eb listoj\u00eb n\u00eb krye t\u00eb list\u00ebs s\u00eb prioriteteve t\u00eb saj dhe do t\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb, edhe kur t\u00eb jet\u00eb e nevrikosur.<\/p>\n
Do t\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7mend\u00eb, n\u00eb kuptimin e mir\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb do t\u00eb luaj\u00eb me nervat e tua. Ajo nuk do t\u00eb bjer\u00eb dakord me ty n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, por do t\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb deri n\u00eb fund t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar n\u00eb gjetjen e dikujt q\u00eb t\u00eb acaron nga nervat, por q\u00eb m\u00eb pas t\u00eb tregon me vepra se sa t\u00eb do.<\/p>\n
Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje ta thot\u00eb hapur mendimin e saj. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe do t\u00eb debatoni. Kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pashmangshme. Mir\u00ebpo nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e till\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb sjell argument t\u00eb logjiksh\u00ebm, shkran bota.al. Fal\u00eb kok\u00ebfort\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb saj, ajo do ta dij\u00eb se cilat fakte do t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin m\u00eb mir\u00eb opinionin e saj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb duash nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr kok\u00ebfort\u00eb, sidomos sepse ajo mbron opinionet, parimet dhe bindjet e saj. Mund t\u00eb nevrikoset dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzis\u00eb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, edhe pse mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb kok\u00ebfort\u00eb, nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e till\u00eb do t\u00eb gjendet p\u00ebrher\u00eb pran\u00eb personit q\u00eb do kur ai t\u00eb ket\u00eb nevoj\u00eb, edhe pa […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9458,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n