Sa her\u00eb kemi d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet fjala besim? Ai nuk mund t\u00eb arrihet dot, n\u00ebse nuk kalon p\u00ebrmes guximit. Pra, nevojitet guximi p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar besimin. Duke pasur guxim, besim, ti mund t\u00eb arrish t\u00eb kesh mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb shumta p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur dhe do t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh gj\u00ebrat e duhura.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb kam pasur probleme me shkrimin dhe leximin. Nuk mund t\u2019i b\u00ebja dot. E kisha t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsoja shkronjat dhe akoma m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i shkruaja apo t\u2019i lexoja vet\u00eb ato. Kam lindur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje ku t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ishin lexues t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit dhe tri motrat e mia lexonin \u00e7do nat\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb mami im kalonte mjaft koh\u00eb me mua duke m\u00eb nxitur t\u00eb lexoja, sepse sipas saj vet\u00ebm ashtu kisha p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar m\u00eb shpejt. Por nuk po funksiononte asgj\u00eb, sepse un\u00eb nuk e kisha kuptuar vler\u00ebn e edukimit. Kur un\u00eb e kuptova at\u00eb, fillova t\u00eb zhvilloja kurajo brenda vetes. Kjo kurajo m\u00eb \u00e7oi n\u00eb besimin n\u00eb vete dhe t\u00eb dyja bashk\u00eb m\u00eb soll\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00eb gjith\u00eb mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jep edukimi.<\/p>\n
Kaluan vite dhe t\u00eb tri \u00e7el\u00ebsat e suksesit m\u00eb ndihmuan q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb ecja p\u00ebrpara n\u00eb jet\u00eb. M\u00eb pranuan n\u00eb Harvard. E besoni dot apo jo? Un\u00eb q\u00eb dikur nuk dija t\u00eb shkruaja e t\u00eb lexoja, do t\u00eb studioja n\u00eb Harvard. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb mora nj\u00eb lajm t\u00eb till\u00eb, telefonova mamin dhe i thash\u00eb: \u201cMa, m\u00eb pranuan n\u00eb Harvard\u201d. \u201cV\u00ebrtet? BRAVOOO!\u201d d\u00ebgjova maman\u00eb time t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiste e lumtur n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb telefonit.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb produkt i dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje. 10 vjet me dhun\u00eb n\u00eb familje. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrballesha me t\u00eb, u diplomova n\u00eb Harvard n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e biznesit. U b\u00ebra mjaft e njohur n\u00eb karrier\u00ebn time. Pori shin 10 vjet me dhun\u00eb n\u00eb familje. Kur ju m\u00eb shihni tani, shihni tek un\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjuar, t\u00eb suksesshme, t\u00eb fort\u00eb, por un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb 10 vjet e dhunuar. Dua t\u2019ju them di\u00e7ka pik\u00ebrisht nga gjith\u00eb rruga q\u00eb kam ndjekur n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk e kisha guximin t\u00eb largohesha nga ajo familje e shkat\u00ebrruar. Vet\u00ebm kur un\u00eb u b\u00ebra me f\u00ebmij\u00eb, arrita t\u00eb kuptoja v\u00ebrtet vler\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs. E kuptova se n\u00ebse nuk largohesha nga ajo sht\u00ebpi, edhe f\u00ebmija im do t\u00eb kishte t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin fat si un\u00eb. Do t\u00eb dhunohej fizikisht.<\/p>\n
Ishte nj\u00eb vendim i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por q\u00eb nga momenti q\u00eb e mora at\u00eb vendim, gjith\u00e7ka m\u2019u duk tep\u00ebr e leht\u00eb. Guximi m\u00eb b\u00ebri mua t\u00eb besoja dhe t\u00eb largohesha nga ajo sht\u00ebpi, dhe t\u00eb dy m\u00eb ndihmuan t\u00eb shihja mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb reja n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Mendoni p\u00ebr \u00e7do her\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni dik\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmend\u00eb fjal\u00ebn frik\u00eb. Mendo p\u00ebr \u00e7do her\u00eb q\u00eb ti e ke p\u00ebrdorur fjal\u00ebn frik\u00eb. Tani mendo pak p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb ke humbur, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb guxoje. Mendo p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb telefonatat q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebje, por nuk i ke b\u00ebr\u00eb nga frika. Mendo p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb bisedat q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebje, por nuk i b\u00ebre nga frika. Tani mendo pak se ku do ta gjesh ti guximin nga tani e tutje p\u00ebr t\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ke frik\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se nga vet\u00eb frika jote? Guxo duke dal\u00eb mbi frik\u00ebrat e tua.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse un\u00eb jam sot k\u00ebtu ku jam, \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe sepse jam larguar nga disa njer\u00ebz duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cTi v\u00ebrtet do t\u00eb m\u00eb kesh pran\u00eb, por un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb t\u00eb pres ty. Ti po ec\u00ebn shum\u00eb ngadal\u00eb drejt suksesit\u201d. Shqiponjat fluturojn\u00eb t\u00eb vetme. Ndaj, gjeje guximin p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00ebrritur atje ku do t\u00eb mb\u00ebrrish.<\/p>\n
Gloria Mayfield Banks<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \/bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sa her\u00eb kemi d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet fjala besim? Ai nuk mund t\u00eb arrihet dot, n\u00ebse nuk kalon p\u00ebrmes guximit. Pra, nevojitet guximi p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar besimin. Duke pasur guxim, besim, ti mund t\u00eb arrish t\u00eb kesh mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb shumta p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur dhe do t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh gj\u00ebrat e duhura. Un\u00eb kam pasur probleme me shkrimin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9441,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n