{"id":8502,"date":"2019-04-12T21:04:41","date_gmt":"2019-04-12T19:04:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=8502"},"modified":"2019-04-12T21:04:41","modified_gmt":"2019-04-12T19:04:41","slug":"si-te-njohesh-nje-person-fallso-4-sinjale-te-padiskutueshme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=8502","title":{"rendered":"Si t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb person fallso: 4 sinjale t\u00eb padiskutueshme"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb person t\u00eb rrem\u00eb duke i kushtuar v\u00ebmendje 4 shenjave t\u00eb pagabueshme<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb jet\u00eb takojm\u00eb nj\u00eb num\u00ebr t\u00eb madh njer\u00ebzish dhe nuk thuhet se mund te shohim natyr\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb person t\u00eb rrem\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb. Shoq\u00ebria e tanishme, frenetike dhe shum\u00eb e nd\u00ebrlidhur, shum\u00ebfishon n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb dramatike takimet, por nuk ekziston gjithmone koha e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur njer\u00ebzit jo real\u00eb. Ky ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb rezulton t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb avantazh, p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk duan t\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb karakterin e tyre t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe mund t\u00eb veshin me leht\u00ebsi mask\u00ebn q\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatet m\u00eb s\u00eb miri, pa rrezikun e zbulimit. N\u00eb fakt, ka shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb autentik\u00eb dhe q\u00ebllimisht t\u00eb rrem\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq i ndeshim n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, ka m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb thjeshta dhe efektive p\u00ebr t\u2019i ekspozuar ata shum\u00eb shpejt: thjesht kushtojini v\u00ebmendje karakteristikave t\u00eb pagabueshme q\u00eb zbulojm\u00eb m\u00eb posht\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>MURI<\/p>\n<p>Individ\u00ebt e rrem\u00eb jan\u00eb simulator\u00eb kronik\u00eb. Ata nuk buz\u00ebqeshin n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb autentike. Buz\u00ebqeshja \u00ebsht\u00eb e ngurt\u00eb dhe e zymt\u00eb. Nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme kur shtrihet edhe n\u00eb sy, duke theksuar nj\u00eb shprehje k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie.<\/p>\n<p>EGOCENTRIK\u00cb<\/p>\n<p>Simulator\u00ebt kronik\u00eb duan t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb \u00e7do fush\u00eb, edhe n\u00ebse nuk kan\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u2019u konsideruar si t\u00eb till\u00eb. V\u00ebshtir\u00eb se nj\u00eb person i rrem\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i interesuar t\u00eb dij\u00eb se si \u00ebsht\u00eb personi tjet\u00ebr: Q\u00ebllimi i tij i vet\u00ebm do t\u00eb jet\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohet gjith\u00eb v\u00ebmendja tek ai. Nj\u00eb person autentik, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, nuk do t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb nevoj\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes, karakteri dhe sjellja e tij do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb natyrshme n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ai b\u00ebn. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb mbajn\u00eb mask\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb miq, por vet\u00ebm bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor\u00ebt dhe rival\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrve\u00e7se gjithmon\u00eb kan\u00eb justifikime, b\u00ebjn\u00eb thashetheme, faj\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe gjykojn\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit e rrem\u00eb shpesh i fillojn\u00eb fjalit\u00eb e tyre me \u201csinqerisht\u201d, \u201ct\u00eb jem i sinqert\u00eb\u201d; por edhe \u201cn\u00ebse ju them di\u00e7ka at\u00ebher\u00eb ju zem\u00ebroheni\u201d. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebnyrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se synojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen tek vetja.<\/p>\n<p>SHP\u00cbRBLIME<\/p>\n<p>Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr shkak se q\u00ebllimi i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb p\u00ebrfitime dhe p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi, simulator\u00ebt kronik\u00eb e din\u00eb se ata duhet t\u00eb njihen me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb pushtetsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar simpatin\u00eb dhe v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz mundohen t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb. Mos harroni se nuk behet\u00a0 fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr komplimente t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, por p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb ekspozimit dhe shfaqjes s\u00eb vetes. Natyrisht secili person \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndrysh\u00ebm nga tjetri, dhe po k\u00ebshtu jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rrem\u00eb. K\u00ebshilla \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb gradualisht t\u2019i largojm\u00eb k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz, pasi ata jan\u00eb potencialisht t\u00eb d\u00ebmsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn tuaj. Disa mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht t\u00eb zot\u00eb n\u00eb artin e shpifjes, dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteten n\u00eb sinjale t\u00eb tjera: a njihni t\u00eb till\u00eb?\/bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb person t\u00eb rrem\u00eb duke i kushtuar v\u00ebmendje 4 shenjave t\u00eb pagabueshme N\u00eb jet\u00eb takojm\u00eb nj\u00eb num\u00ebr t\u00eb madh njer\u00ebzish dhe nuk thuhet se mund te shohim natyr\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb person t\u00eb rrem\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb. 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