Flutura ne stomak, rrahje zemre\u2026 Dashuria eshte vertet nje stuhi kimike<\/p>\n
Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e dim\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb: ndihemi euforik\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb me frym\u00ebmarrje, nj\u00eb rrahje zemre dhe ndjenja e t\u00eb pasurit fluturat n\u00eb stomak. Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb stuhi e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb na mbulon n\u00eb mendje dhe shpirt, por edhe n\u00eb trup: n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, natyra nuk l\u00eb asnj\u00eb gur t\u00eb pal\u00ebvizur, duke pasur parasysh se nga kjo ndjenj\u00eb dhe nga aktet q\u00eb do t\u00eb pasojn\u00eb n\u00eb takimin e par\u00eb, mbijetesa e specieve tona \u00ebsht\u00eb e lidhur. M\u00eb posht\u00eb shpjegojm\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel kimik, \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh kur t\u00eb godet \u201cshk\u00ebndija fatale\u201d.<\/p>\n
TURBIN\u00cb HORMONESH \u2013 Studime t\u00eb shumta kan\u00eb treguar se, kur bie n\u00eb dashuri, disa zona p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse p\u00ebr prodhimin e hormoneve t\u00eb caktuara hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb loj\u00eb n\u00eb trurin ton\u00eb, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb dopamin\u00ebn, adrenalin\u00ebn dhe oksitocin\u00ebn, p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb ndjesish t\u00eb forta. P\u00ebr shembull, dopamina \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb mekanizmin e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe na shtyn t\u00eb vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb af\u00ebrsin\u00eb me partnerin.<\/p>\n
Adrenalina futet n\u00eb loj\u00eb n\u00eb situata t\u00eb rrezikshme dhe na b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet tona ndaj stimujve t\u00eb jasht\u00ebm: \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cfaji\u201d i saj, madje edhe me ndihm\u00ebn e substancave t\u00eb tjera emocionuese si feniletilamine ose norepinefrina, p\u00ebr ndjenj\u00ebn e vazhdueshme t\u00eb ankthit q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashurit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Oksitocina, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb hormoni i dashuris\u00eb dhe na shtyn t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb kontakt fizik; ajo gjithashtu ka efektin q\u00eb na b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb guximsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb pa penguar, pak si kur marrim alkool ose drog\u00eb. Ne biem n\u00eb dashuri, p\u00ebr shkak se feniletilamina ndez d\u00ebshir\u00ebn, dopamina shkakton ndjenj\u00ebn e eksitimit t\u00eb etheve t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb dhe oksitocina nxit lidhjen, p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar koh\u00ebzgjatjen e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies.<\/p>\n
DASHUROJME ME TRU- Kur bie n\u00eb dashuri, disa zona kortikale t\u00eb trurit hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb veprim, por gjithashtu edhe zona m\u00eb t\u00eb lashta subkortike nga pik\u00ebpamja evolucionare: n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, pasi dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e lidhur me riprodhimin, \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e sfer\u00ebs ataviste t\u00eb specieve tona. Studimet kan\u00eb treguar se n\u00eb p\u00ebrvojat e dashuris\u00eb aktivizohen fushat e trurit t\u00eb lidhura me sistemin e shp\u00ebrblimit, t\u00eb cilat zgjojn\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje emocionale dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb \u201c\u00e7aktivizojn\u00eb\u201d disa rajone t\u00eb lidhura me gjykimin shoq\u00ebror dhe vler\u00ebsimet e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse dashuria nuk njeh pengesa dhe nuk p\u00ebrkulet para konventave shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n
\u00c7FAR\u00cb NDODH ME TRUPIN? N\u00eb mesin e shum\u00eb \u201csimptomave\u201d kur bie n\u00eb dashuri, m\u00eb e dukshme \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja e vazhdueshme e rrahjeve t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs q\u00eb shoq\u00ebron duart e ftohta dhe t\u00eb djersitura dhe ndjesia goj\u00ebs s\u00eb that\u00eb, sepse mungon p\u00ebshtyma. K\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb faji i kortizolit, hormonit t\u00eb stresit t\u00eb sekretuar nga gj\u00ebndrat e veshkave n\u00eb kushte t\u00eb rrezikut t\u00eb mundsh\u00ebm. Kortizoli nd\u00ebrvepron me adrenalin\u00ebn dhe shkakton t\u00eb gjitha ato ndjenja, jo gjithmon\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme, q\u00eb nj\u00eb i dashuruar i di mir\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb fazat e hershme t\u00eb \u201cvardisjes\u201d. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, k\u00ebto \u201csimptoma\u201d, t\u00eb cilat me sa duket tentojn\u00eb t\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn ton\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa do t\u00eb donim, nuk kan\u00eb nj\u00eb ila\u00e7: gjuha e trupit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn kontrollin ton\u00eb dhe, ndryshe nga ajo verbale, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebnjesh.<\/p>\n
KUR KOHA KALON\u2026 \u2013 Pas disa muajsh, kimia e r\u00ebnies n\u00eb dashuri tenton t\u00eb transformohet: organizmi njer\u00ebzor thjesht nuk mund t\u00eb toleroj\u00eb pabarazit\u00eb dhe teprimet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb rivendos\u00eb nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia gjithashtu ndryshon l\u00ebkur\u00ebn. Por kini kujdes: fakti q\u00eb shakullimi neurobiologjik i dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb par\u00eb zvog\u00eblohet nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se dashuria ose marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia ka mbaruar. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb hyjm\u00eb n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e q\u00ebndrueshme t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn fushat e trurit n\u00eb veprim nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb eksitimit, por ato t\u00eb emocioneve. Esht\u00eb nj\u00eb transformim hormonal normal q\u00eb dob\u00ebson vet\u00ebm efektin \u201cdoping\u201d t\u00eb hormoneve. I takon \u00e7iftit, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, ndoshta m\u00eb paq\u00ebsore, por sigurisht m\u00eb t\u00eb balancuar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Flutura ne stomak, rrahje zemre\u2026 Dashuria eshte vertet nje stuhi kimike Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e dim\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb: ndihemi euforik\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb me frym\u00ebmarrje, nj\u00eb rrahje zemre dhe ndjenja e t\u00eb pasurit fluturat n\u00eb stomak. Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb stuhi e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb na mbulon n\u00eb mendje dhe shpirt, por edhe n\u00eb trup: n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, natyra […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6685,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n