F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e llastuar dhe zgjidhjet: ka shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr q\u00eb nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb sillen kur f\u00ebmija i tyre nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u2019u jap\u00eb fund tekave. T\u00eb jesh prind \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga pun\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira n\u00eb bot\u00eb, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se me pak qet\u00ebsi nuk mund t\u00eb zbus\u00ebsh edhe gjendjet e zem\u00ebrimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve m\u00eb t\u00eb zjarrt\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithashtu e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e natyr\u00ebs dhe rrjedhimisht disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb jan\u00eb nga temperamenti, m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye \u00ebsht\u00eb e preferueshme t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr metodat e duhura q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtaten n\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb tilla, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb transmetojm\u00eb disiplin\u00ebn e duhur tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, nj\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d e thjesht\u00eb e n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe babait \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur ankesat e pafundme nga f\u00ebmija juaj. Qet\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb baza kryesore p\u00ebr dh\u00ebnien fund t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj rutine negative. Prandaj duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00ebsisht q\u00ebndrimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs ton\u00eb, duke adoptuar strategji t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb thjeshta. Psikoterapistja amerikane Richard Bromfield k\u00ebshillon t\u00eb m\u00ebshojm\u00eb fort n\u00eb edukimin, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rrisim pjekurin\u00eb dhe ndjenj\u00ebn e p\u00ebrshtatjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Natyrisht, disa dit\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb mjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbatuar k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebsim, por mund t\u00eb duhen shum\u00eb koh\u00eb. Para s\u00eb gjithash duhet t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb me q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri dhe p\u00ebrkushtim, sidomos gjat\u00eb periudh\u00ebs kohore nga dy deri n\u00eb dymb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7 t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, pasi kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb faza kryesore e formimit t\u00eb karakterit t\u00eb tij, nga e cila do t\u00eb varet pjekuria e tij. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, kur shfaqen lot dhe kapri\u00e7o, \u00ebsht\u00eb e k\u00ebshillueshme q\u00eb t\u00eb reagoni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pazakont\u00eb, t\u00eb papritur dhe pothuajse t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, duke hequr nga ai at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb, qoft\u00eb nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr ose nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim baleti.<\/p>\n
Edhe n\u00ebse pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia e tij mund t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb disa dit\u00eb, ky gjest do ta ndihmoj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb m\u00ebsimin. \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithashtu thelb\u00ebsore q\u00eb t\u00eb vendosen rregulla q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb respektohen, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillohet nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e vet\u00ebkontrollit tek f\u00ebmija, q\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e dobishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb piqet m\u00eb shpejt. P\u00ebr t\u00eb edukuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e llastuar, mjetet e dobishme p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb gjithashtu veprimin me autoritet t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm dhe duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb ata t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb kur \u00ebsht\u00eb radha e tyre, duke i penguar ata q\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb zakonin e keq p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur pretendime t\u00eb padurueshme. P\u00ebrfundimisht, kurr\u00eb mos e negocioni ose justifikoni veten, pasi f\u00ebmija mund ta perceptoj\u00eb at\u00eb si nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb dob\u00ebsie dhe t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb m\u00ebsim t\u00eb gabuar t\u00eb rregullave.\/bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e llastuar dhe zgjidhjet: ka shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr q\u00eb nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb sillen kur f\u00ebmija i tyre nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u2019u jap\u00eb fund tekave. T\u00eb jesh prind \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga pun\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira n\u00eb bot\u00eb, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se me pak qet\u00ebsi nuk mund t\u00eb zbus\u00ebsh edhe gjendjet e zem\u00ebrimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6541,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n