\u00c7far\u00eb e \u00e7on njeriun drejt suksesit? Gjenetika e ka zbuluar k\u00ebt\u00eb tani. Dhe ajo dikton rregullat p\u00ebr t\u00eb pushtuar bot\u00ebn<\/p>\n
nga Paola Emilia Cicerone<\/p>\n
Ambicia ime e vetme, shkruante shkrimtari Charles Buko\u00ebsky, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jem askushi. Nj\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje interesante, por jo e ndar\u00eb nga nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb shp\u00ebrblen, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebsisht, suksesin dhe aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb krye, pavar\u00ebsisht nga kostoja. Dhe presioni \u00ebsht\u00eb i till\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb lind\u00eb nj\u00eb shkenc\u00eb e ambicies.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar se \u00e7far\u00eb, p\u00ebr humoristin amerikan Jerome K. Jerome, ishte thjesht \u201cvaniteti i ngritur n\u00eb nivel m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Antropolog\u00ebt bien dakord: ambicia \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tipar evolucionar i specieve tona dhe, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb nga Eduard Loue Soka, n\u00eb \u00e7do komunitet ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb e ndjekin at\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb agresive dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00eb jo.<\/p>\n
\u00c7far\u00eb na b\u00ebn t\u2019i p\u00ebrkasim nj\u00eb grupi tjet\u00ebr njer\u00ebzor? A \u00ebsht\u00eb njeriu ambicioz i lindur? A ka nj\u00eb gjen ambicie, a jemi programuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb sfiduar bot\u00ebn apo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi q\u00eb ne zbulojm\u00eb p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs? Nj\u00eb studim amerikan i kryer n\u00eb Universitetin e Uashingtonit n\u00eb St. Louis, Misuri, tregon se student\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb talentuar q\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulin, d.m.th kan\u00eb kapacitetin, lidhur ngusht\u00eb me ambicien, angazhohen p\u00ebr arritjen e nj\u00eb q\u00ebllimi, kan\u00eb aktivizimin shum\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb zone t\u00eb caktuar t\u00eb trurit, e quajtur \u2018zona lombare\u2019, e lidhur ngusht\u00eb me p\u00ebrpunimin e emocioneve. Studiuesit kan\u00eb regjistruar nj\u00eb grup student\u00ebsh dhe kan\u00eb d\u00ebrguar nj\u00eb pyet\u00ebsor t\u00eb caktuar posa\u00e7\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos aktivizuar inteligjenc\u00ebn, kultur\u00ebn ose aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb tjera, por vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nivelin e p\u00ebrcaktimit t\u00eb subjekteve. M\u00eb pas ata fotografuan trurin e student\u00ebve n\u00eb veprim dhe pan\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, se aktivizohej nj\u00eb zon\u00eb specifike e trurit. \u201cNga studimet e binjak\u00ebve t\u00eb b\u00ebra n\u00eb SHBA, por edhe n\u00eb Australi, ne e dim\u00eb se ambicia \u00ebsht\u00eb e trash\u00ebguar n\u00eb 50 p\u00ebr qind\u201d, thot\u00eb nj\u00eb nga udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsit e studimit, psikiatri Robert Cloninger, autor i \u201cFeeling Good\u201d. \u201cE pra, gjysma e ambicies s\u00eb nj\u00eb personi vjen nga p\u00ebrb\u00ebrjen gjenetike, dhe pjesa e mbetur nga p\u00ebrvojat e tij jet\u00ebsore\u201d.<\/p>\n
Por K\u00ebmb\u00ebngulja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjitha: \u201cAmbicia mund t\u00eb ndahet n\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn tre elemente\u201d, thot\u00eb Dean Simonton, nj\u00eb psikolog n\u00eb Universitetin e Kalifornis\u00eb, \u201cP\u00ebrve\u00e7 aft\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar ndaj pengesave dhe t\u2019i rezistojm\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjimit, \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur nj\u00eb status m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb socio-ekonomik sesa ai i tanish\u00ebm, dhe nj\u00eb nivel i lart\u00eb i energjis\u00eb q\u00eb synon arritjen e k\u00ebtij q\u00ebllimi\u201d.<\/p>\n
Shtoi k\u00ebsaj edhe nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar t\u00eb vet\u00eb-besimit, edhe pse kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb absolutisht e nevojshme, dhe as nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb inteligjenca: \u201cN\u00ebse q\u00ebllimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar nj\u00eb \u00e7mim Nobel,\u201d b\u00ebn shaka Simonton \u201cinteligjenca mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur ambicie t\u00eb caktuara, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb komponent thelb\u00ebsor i ambicies, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur stimulin e duhur\u201d. K\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb dy individ\u00eb ambicioz\u00eb si Steve Jobs dhe Steve Vozniak, themeluesit e Apple, kan\u00eb marr\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, edhe pse kan\u00eb filluar nga e nj\u00ebjta pik\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm gjenetika?<\/p>\n
Reagon Gian Vittorio Caprara, Profesor i Psikologjis\u00eb s\u00eb Personalitetit, Universiteti i Rom\u00ebs \u201cLa Sapienza\u201d: \u201cMe origjin\u00eb gjenetike \u00ebsht\u00eb energjia, makina e suksesit, n\u00eb afat t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr, si l\u00ebnd\u00eb e par\u00eb q\u00eb ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar q\u00ebllimet.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAmbicia ka nj\u00eb rol t\u00eb caktuar n\u00eb evolucion, sepse kontribuon n\u00eb mbijetes\u00ebn e m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00ebve, n\u00eb p\u00ebrhapjen e gjeneve m\u00eb efikase\u201d, shpjegon Simonton. Edhe n\u00eb mesin e kafsh\u00ebve ekzistojn\u00eb n\u00eb fakt lider\u00ebt e lindur: n\u00eb mes t\u00eb ujq\u00ebrve, meshkujt alfa mund t\u00eb njihen q\u00eb nga lindja p\u00ebr kureshtjen me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ata eksplorojn\u00eb mjedisin dhe luftojn\u00eb p\u00ebr ushqimin dhe v\u00ebmendjen e n\u00ebn\u00ebs, dhe mbeten k\u00ebshtu deri n\u00eb 10-11 vjet, kur vdesin duke l\u00ebn\u00eb prapa nj\u00eb pasardh\u00ebs t\u00eb madh, nd\u00ebrsa ndihmesat ose vart\u00ebsit riprodhohen m\u00eb rrall\u00eb dhe zakonisht nuk arrijn\u00eb mosh\u00ebn kat\u00ebrvje\u00e7are.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, n\u00eb familjet njer\u00ebzore ka fitues dhe humb\u00ebs, dhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb duken t\u00eb paarritsh\u00ebm nga zjarri i ambicieve. \u00c7far\u00eb p\u00ebrcakton fatin e tyre? Dhe deri n\u00eb \u00e7\u2019mas\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtohet nj\u00eb fitues? Psikolog\u00ebt besojn\u00eb se mjedisi ideal \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb p\u00ebrcakton objektiva ambicioz\u00eb por realist\u00eb, duke theksuar sukseset, pa pasur humbje dramatike: \u201cNjer\u00ebzit m\u00ebsojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim, n\u00ebse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb bindur se p\u00ebrpjekjet e tyre do t\u00eb shp\u00ebrblehen: mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb vendosin synime q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar vet\u00ebbesim\u201d, v\u00ebren Cloninger.
\n\u201cN\u00eb nj\u00eb kultur\u00eb var\u00ebsie ambicia mund t\u00eb vler\u00ebsohet negativisht, nd\u00ebrsa, n\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, nj\u00eb tepric\u00eb aventurizmi mund t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb lart\u00ebsimin n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jokritike\u201d.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb rriturit n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb pasur mund t\u00eb trash\u00ebgojn\u00eb mjete t\u00eb dobishme, ose nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim n\u00eb plog\u00ebshti aristokratike, nd\u00ebrsa origjina modeste mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shtys\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb pafuqis\u00eb inerte. Sipas antropolog\u00ebve, njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb ambicioz\u00eb i p\u00ebrkasin klas\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme, familjet q\u00eb kan\u00eb arritur tashm\u00eb disa q\u00ebllime, por ata nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje q\u00eb ta ruajn\u00eb pushtetin.<\/p>\n
Dhe k\u00ebtu fillon problemi: \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh kur ke ambicie, shpesh n\u00ebn shtys\u00ebn e presionit social, dhe ajo kthehet n\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim? \u201cNj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn shumica e vajzave duan \u00e7ar\u00e7af\u00eb e veshje m\u00ebndafshi, dhe pa nj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb vlefshme, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pashmangshme do t\u00eb gjeneroj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim\u201d, thot\u00eb Caprara.<\/p>\n
\u201cD\u00ebshtimi dhe zhg\u00ebnjimi lindin kur ambicia \u00ebsht\u00eb e pabalancuar n\u00eb krahasim me potencialin. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e dobishme q\u00eb t\u00eb dekurajohen ambiciet e gabuara, ose t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjeruar gam\u00ebn e opsioneve t\u00eb mundshme, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb sfidat e paraqitura nga mjedisi t\u00eb mos kthehen n\u00eb kurthe\u201d.\/bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c7far\u00eb e \u00e7on njeriun drejt suksesit? Gjenetika e ka zbuluar k\u00ebt\u00eb tani. Dhe ajo dikton rregullat p\u00ebr t\u00eb pushtuar bot\u00ebn nga Paola Emilia Cicerone Ambicia ime e vetme, shkruante shkrimtari Charles Buko\u00ebsky, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jem askushi. Nj\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje interesante, por jo e ndar\u00eb nga nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb shp\u00ebrblen, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebsisht, suksesin dhe aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6535,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,21],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n