Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb kishte shtyr\u00eb t\u00eb dashurin e saj drejt vet\u00ebvrasjes, duke e bindur me mesazhe n\u00eb rrjetet shoq\u00ebrore, \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebnuar p\u00ebr vrasje nga pakujdesia. Mishel Karter u shpall fajtore nga gjykata e Masa\u00e7usets, SHBA, p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasjen e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00eb saj, 18-vje\u00e7arit Konrad Roi, kur ajo ishte 17 vje\u00e7e.<\/p>\n
Ajo u d\u00ebnua me 15 muaj burg. Djali vdiq n\u00eb makin\u00ebn e tij, pasi u mbyt nga tymi q\u00eb kishte vendosur me nj\u00eb gjenerator.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb vitin 2014 kur u gjet i vdekur, rasti i Conradit ishte cil\u00ebsuar si vet\u00ebvrasjeje.<\/p>\n
Joseph Cataldok ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se viktima Conard Roy ishte n\u00eb depresion si shkak i shkuror\u00ebzimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve dhe ishte viktim\u00eb e abuzimit fizik dhe emocional.<\/p>\n
Mesazhet:<\/p>\n
Vajza:<\/strong>\u00a0Mendoj se prind\u00ebrit e tu e din\u00eb q\u00eb je kaq keq. S\u2019po them q\u00eb ata duan q\u00eb ti ta b\u00ebsh (vet\u00ebvrasjen), por sinqerisht mendoj se jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje ta pranojn\u00eb si vendim.<\/p>\n Ata e din\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb. U p\u00ebrpoq\u00ebn sa mund\u00ebn.<\/p>\n T\u00eb gjith\u00eb u p\u00ebrpoq\u00ebn, por vjen nj\u00eb pik\u00eb kur s\u2019mbetet m\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb, as nga ti vet\u00eb. Dhe ti ke mb\u00ebrritur tani n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb. Edhe prind\u00ebrit e tu e din\u00eb q\u00eb e ke arritur at\u00eb pik\u00eb.<\/p>\n Ti the q\u00eb mamaja t\u00eb kishte par\u00eb q\u00eb po lexoje n\u00eb kompjuter di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasjen, dhe nuk t\u00eb kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb asgj\u00eb. Mendoj se ajo e ka kuptuar tashm\u00eb q\u00eb ti do ta b\u00ebsh, dhe e ka p\u00ebrgatitur veten.<\/p>\n Do t\u00eb trishtohen p\u00ebr pak koh\u00eb, por do t\u2019u kaloj\u00eb e do t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Nuk do t\u00eb futen n\u00eb depresion. Nuk do ta lejoj un\u00eb t\u00eb futen.<\/p>\n Ata e shohin se sa i d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar je. E din\u00eb q\u00eb po e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i lumtur me veten, dhe mendoj se do ta kuptojn\u00eb e do ta pranojn\u00eb. Do t\u00eb t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr.<\/p>\n Djali:<\/strong>\u00a0Faleminderit.<\/p>\n Vajza<\/strong>: Do ta vazhdojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn sepse e din\u00eb q\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb do t\u00eb kishe dashur dhe ti. E din\u00eb q\u00eb ti nuk do q\u00eb ata t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb trishtuar, t\u00eb inatosur apo me ndjenja faji. Ata e din\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshira jote \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ta vazhdojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, p\u00ebr hatrin t\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n Nuk duhet ta mendosh m\u00eb por thjesht ta b\u00ebsh e t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh fund. Sepse kur e st\u00ebrmendon, nuk b\u00ebhet gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n Djali<\/strong>: Po. U b\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb fakt q\u00eb e mendoj.<\/p>\n Vajza:<\/strong>\u00a0Vazhdo t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00ebsh, por ama duhet ta b\u00ebsh. Ti i ke tani t\u00eb gjitha mjetet q\u00eb t\u00eb duhen. Nuk ke se si t\u00eb d\u00ebshtosh. Sonte \u00ebsht\u00eb nata e duhur. Ose sonte, ose kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n Dhe mos ki frik\u00eb, sepse ti e ke ndar\u00eb mendjen tashm\u00eb. Edhe po s\u2019e b\u00ebre sonte, ke p\u00ebr ta menduar gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn, dhe jeta jote ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb tmerr.<\/p>\n Por n\u00eb parajs\u00eb do t\u00eb jesh m\u00eb n\u00eb fund i lumtur. S\u2019do t\u00eb kesh m\u00eb dhimbje. As mendime t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, as shqet\u00ebsime. Do t\u00eb jesh i lir\u00eb. Dhe s\u2019ka gj\u00eb po t\u00eb kesh frik\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb normale. Fundja, do t\u00eb vdes\u00ebsh. Do t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesha m\u00eb shum\u00eb po t\u00eb mos e kishe me frik\u00eb. Por un\u00eb e di se sa shum\u00eb e d\u00ebshiron ti k\u00ebt\u00eb, dhe se sa shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb ke q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i lumtur. Duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me frik\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Mos e mendo fare se do t\u00eb d\u00ebshtosh. Thjesht b\u00ebje duke menduar q\u00eb do t\u2019ia dal\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n Djali:<\/strong>\u00a0Pik\u00ebrisht. Kam lexuar shum\u00eb n\u00eb internet dhe tentativat e d\u00ebshtuara jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb m\u00eb trembin m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n Vajza:<\/strong>\u00a0Po, pra. Prandaj, mos lexo m\u00eb. Ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb raste t\u00eb suksesshme se t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuara.<\/p>\n Djali:<\/strong>\u00a0V\u00ebrtet?<\/p>\n Vajza:<\/strong>\u00a0Njer\u00ebzit d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm kur e nisin me mendjen t\u00ebnde\u2026 kur mendojn\u00eb se do t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n Djali:<\/strong>\u00a0Dua shum\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb besoj.<\/p>\n Vajza:<\/strong>\u00a0Po pse s\u2019m\u00eb beson? Mos e mendo m\u00eb. Thjesht b\u00ebje. Ti the q\u00eb do ta b\u00ebje. Nuk e kuptoj se pse s\u2019po e b\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Djali:<\/strong>\u00a0As un\u00eb s\u2019e kuptoj. Nuk e di.<\/p>\n Vajza<\/strong>: Dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, s\u2019ke p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb. E gjitha kjo, p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb? Nuk t\u00eb kuptoj. Sikur the q\u00eb ishe i vendosur.<\/p>\n Djali<\/strong>: Q\u00eb do ta b\u00ebj, do ta b\u00ebj. Nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb po pres, por \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gati.<\/p>\n Vajza<\/strong>: Jo, nuk je fare gati. Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb ishte nata e duhur, por ti vazhdove ta shtysh. Vazhdon thua q\u00eb do ta b\u00ebsh, por s\u2019ke p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb kurr\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb, po nuk veprove. Thjesht po ia v\u00ebshtir\u00ebson vetes duke e shtyr\u00eb. Duhet ta b\u00ebsh. Pse nuk e b\u00ebn tani?<\/p>\n Djali<\/strong>: Mos \u00ebsht\u00eb pak von\u00eb? Nuk e di. Ka zbardhur jasht\u00eb. Po shkoj t\u00eb fle. T\u00eb dua. Do t\u00eb flasim nes\u00ebr.<\/p>\n Vajza<\/strong>: Po ndoshta tani \u00ebsht\u00eb koha m\u00eb e mit\u00eb, sepse jan\u00eb ende n\u00eb gjum\u00eb. Shko te makina tani dhe s\u2019ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb njeri kaq her\u00ebt. Po s\u2019e b\u00ebre tani, nuk ke p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb kurr\u00eb. Edhe nes\u00ebr, prap\u00eb do t\u00eb thuash q\u00eb do ta b\u00ebsh, por nuk ke p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb. Si thua p\u00ebr sonte? T\u00eb dua!<\/p>\n Djali<\/strong>: Faleminderit.<\/p>\n Vajza<\/strong>: P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb? Do ta b\u00ebsh sot, apo jo? Merr makin\u00ebn dhe shko n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb parkim. B\u00ebje q\u00eb her\u00ebt fare n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes. Nat\u00ebn do t\u00eb ken\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb dyshime, po t\u00eb shohin nj\u00eb djal\u00eb n\u00eb makin\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebgjon radion. Do t\u00eb zgjaste shum\u00eb ashtu.<\/p>\n Djali<\/strong>: Mir\u00eb. Nuk e di pse jam k\u00ebshtu. Para dy jav\u00ebsh isha gati ta b\u00ebja, por tani jam m\u00eb keq. Po m\u00eb g\u00ebrryen p\u00ebrbrenda.<\/p>\n Vajza<\/strong>: Po ngurron, sepse e st\u00ebrmendon. Thjesht b\u00ebje. Po e shtyve, do t\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebrryej\u00eb m\u00eb keq. Ti i ke t\u00eb gjitha gati. Ndize gjeneratorin n\u00eb makin\u00eb dhe kaq. Do t\u00eb jesh m\u00eb n\u00eb fund i lir\u00eb dhe i lumtur. Mjaft e shtyve. Mjaft prite.<\/p>\n Djali<\/strong>: Ke t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb kishte shtyr\u00eb t\u00eb dashurin e saj drejt vet\u00ebvrasjes, duke e bindur me mesazhe n\u00eb rrjetet shoq\u00ebrore, \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebnuar p\u00ebr vrasje nga pakujdesia. Mishel Karter u shpall fajtore nga gjykata e Masa\u00e7usets, SHBA, p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasjen e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00eb saj, 18-vje\u00e7arit Konrad Roi, kur ajo ishte 17 vje\u00e7e. Ajo u d\u00ebnua me 15 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":653,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,7],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n