{"id":6436,"date":"2019-03-28T08:11:34","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T07:11:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=6436"},"modified":"2019-03-28T08:11:34","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T07:11:34","slug":"psikologji-maskat-qe-ia-veshim-vetes-sone-per-tu-mbrojtur-nga-bota","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=6436","title":{"rendered":"PSIKOLOGJI \/ Maskat q\u00eb ia veshim vetes son\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbrojtur nga bota"},"content":{"rendered":"

Maska, n\u00eb psikologji, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson mekanizmin e mbrojtjes, nj\u00eb instinkt q\u00eb nxitet si pasoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhimbjeje, q\u00eb ka krijuar nj\u00eb plag\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb emotive jete, shpesh q\u00eb nga mosha e vog\u00ebl.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledhur, maska, \u00ebsht\u00eb pjesa strukturore e personalitetit, pjesa m\u00eb e jashtme e si e till\u00eb, p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga m\u00ebnyra e t\u00eb menduarit, veprimit, ndjerjes, shikimit, t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave.<\/p>\n

Sipas psikoanalist\u00ebve mund t\u00eb ve\u00e7ohen pes\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb maskat p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse:<\/p>\n

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  1. Plaga e braktisjes dhe maska p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse e arratisjes<\/li>\n
  2. Plaga e braktisjes dhe maska e var\u00ebsis\u00eb<\/li>\n
  3. Plaga e ofendimit dhe maska e mazokistit<\/li>\n
  4. Plaga e tradhtis\u00eb dhe maska e kontrollit<\/li>\n
  5. Plaga e padrejt\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe maska e ngurt\u00ebsis\u00eb<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    K\u00ebto plag\u00eb na shkaktohen nga njer\u00ebz shum\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt, shpesh nga prind\u00ebrit, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme, shum\u00eb shpesh ata vet\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb viktima t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj dinamike n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre, por duke mos e pas par\u00eb at\u00eb dhe modifikuar, e ripropozojn\u00eb automatikisht, pa e ditur.<\/p>\n

    Maska propozon nj\u00eb personazh, me m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb menduari, t\u00eb foluri, t\u00eb prezantuari trupin, t\u00eb ecuri, t\u00eb marri frym\u00eb etj. Pik\u00ebrisht, diagnoza b\u00ebhet pik\u00ebrisht nga observimi i t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebtyre varianteve: trupit, gjuh\u00ebs, mendimit, efektivitetit.<\/p>\n

    Maska \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigja q\u00eb f\u00ebmija ka gjetur me koh\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb ndaj nj\u00eb plage, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm mbrojt\u00ebs, nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rigjetur nj\u00eb rol lidh\u00ebs aktiv dhe kontrollin ndaj nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb p\u00ebsuar, jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb dhimbshme.<\/p>\n

    P.sh kush p\u00ebson braktisjen ( n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi nga prindi i seksit tjet\u00ebr), do t\u00eb vesh\u00eb mask\u00ebn e t\u00eb arratisurit, si nj\u00eb tentativ\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rivendosur pushtetin e tij dhe d\u00ebshirat. Do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb trup t\u00eb holl\u00eb e t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, me pak pesh\u00eb dhe trash\u00ebsi, do t\u00eb flas\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jo theksuese, p\u00ebr t\u00eb shfaqur jo-pranin\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb marr\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb iniciativ\u00ebn, do t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00eb terma dhe m\u00ebnyra q\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptohet q\u00eb prania e tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e garantuar.<\/p>\n

    Secili nga ne mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb shum\u00eb maska, edhe pse n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi ka nj\u00eb prej tyre q\u00eb rezulton t\u00eb jet\u00eb mbizot\u00ebruese n\u00eb krahasim me t\u00eb tjerat. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, plaga kryesore, ajo m\u00eb e thella, \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo m\u00eb pak n\u00eb dukje, fshihet n\u00ebn plag\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore. Si rrjedhim ekzistojn\u00eb pes\u00eb tipologjit\u00eb e maskave mbrojt\u00ebse.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Maska, n\u00eb psikologji, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson mekanizmin e mbrojtjes, nj\u00eb instinkt q\u00eb nxitet si pasoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhimbjeje, q\u00eb ka krijuar nj\u00eb plag\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb emotive jete, shpesh q\u00eb nga mosha e vog\u00ebl. 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