Nga Taylor Lorenz<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr disa muaj, Kara punoi p\u00ebr t\u00eb pastruar ato q\u00eb n\u00ebna e saj kishte hedhur n\u00eb Instagramin e vet.<\/p>\n
Jo shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, 11-vje\u00e7arja, q\u00eb ashtu si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb histori, p\u00ebrmendet me nj\u00eb pseudonim, zbuloi se n\u00ebna e saj kishte postuar n\u00eb rrjetet sociale shum\u00eb fotografi t\u00eb saj, pa miratimin e saj paraprak, p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n
\u201cUn\u00eb i kam th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u2019i vendos\u00eb aty. \u00cbsht\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme ta shoh veten aty, dhe nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ka foto ku nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen vetja\u201d-tha ajo. Ashtu si shumica e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb modern\u00eb, Kara u rrit e zhytur n\u00eb mediat sociale. Facebook, T\u00ebitter dhe YouTube, lind\u00ebn t\u00eb gjitha para se ajo t\u00eb lindte; Instagram doli kur ajo ishte ende nj\u00eb foshnj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nd\u00ebrsa shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb ende nj\u00eb llogari t\u00eb vet\u00ebn, prind\u00ebrit, shkollat, ekipet sportive dhe organizatat e tyre, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb prani t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb internet q\u00eb nga lindja. Tronditja nga vet\u00ebdija se detajet rreth jet\u00ebs suaj, ose n\u00eb disa raste, historia e gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb ndar\u00eb n\u00eb internet pa p\u00eblqimin apo dijenin\u00eb tuaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e shum\u00eb adoleshent\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Koh\u00ebt e fundit nj\u00eb blogere mbi prind\u00ebrimin, shkroi n\u00eb nj\u00eb ese n\u00eb \u201cThe Washington Post\u201d, se pavar\u00ebsisht tmerrit t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb saj 14-vje\u00e7are, kur zbuloi se n\u00ebna e saj kishte ndar\u00eb nd\u00ebr vite\u00a0 shum\u00eb histori personale dhe informacione rreth saj n\u00eb internet, ajo thjesht nuk mundi t\u00eb ndalonte postimin n\u00eb blogun e saj dhe n\u00eb mediat sociale.<\/p>\n
Shkrimtari pohoi se premtimi ndaj vajz\u00ebs, se do t\u00eb ndalonte publikimin e fotove rreth saj n\u00eb internet, \u201cdo t\u00eb thot\u00eb fshehjen e nj\u00eb pjese jetike t\u00eb vetes, e cila nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u201d. N\u00eb vitin 2016, nj\u00eb austriake 18-vje\u00e7are, i paditi n\u00eb gjykat\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e saj p\u00ebr vendosjen e 500 imazheve t\u00eb saj n\u00eb Facebook gjat\u00eb viteve, pa p\u00eblqimin e saj.<\/p>\n
\u201cAta nuk njihnin turp dhe asnj\u00eb kufizim. Nuk u shqet\u00ebsuan asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, n\u00ebse ishte nj\u00eb foto e imja e ulur n\u00eb banj\u00eb, apo e shtrir\u00eb lakuriq n\u00eb shtratin tim. \u00c7do faz\u00eb e jet\u00ebs time u fotografua dhe u b\u00eb publike\u201d- u shpreh ajo p\u00ebr mediat lokale. Por nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm mamat\u00eb blogere, ato q\u00eb krijojn\u00eb identitetin online t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb, b\u00ebjne edhe shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr t\u00eb zakonsh\u00ebm. Madje p\u00ebr ta, ka edhe nj\u00eb term t\u00eb posa\u00e7\u00ebm:sharenting. Gati nj\u00eb e kat\u00ebrta e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, e fillojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre dixhitale, q\u00eb kur prind\u00ebrit hedhin n\u00eb internet imazhet e ekove p\u00ebrpara lindjes, sipas nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb kryer nga kompania AVG, q\u00eb merret me sigurin\u00eb n\u00eb internet.<\/p>\n
Studimi, zbuloi nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb se 92 p\u00ebr qind e t\u00eb vegj\u00eblve n\u00ebn mosh\u00ebn 2 vje\u00e7, kan\u00eb tashm\u00eb identitetin e tyre unik dixhital. \u201cPrind\u00ebrit formojn\u00eb tani identitetin dixhital t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, shum\u00eb koh\u00eb para se k\u00ebta t\u00eb rinj t\u00eb hapin vet\u00eb e-mailin e tyre t\u00eb par\u00eb. Publikimet q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit b\u00ebjn\u00eb n\u00eb internet, me siguri q\u00eb do t\u2019i ndjekin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre n\u00eb mosh\u00eb madhore\u201d- deklaron nj\u00eb raport nga Universiteti i Florid\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
\u201cK\u00ebta prind\u00ebr, veprojn\u00eb si dy portier\u00eb t\u00eb informacionit personal t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, dhe si transmetues t\u00eb historive personale t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre\u201d. Institucionet parashkollore, \u200b\u200bdhe shkollat \u200b\u200bfillore, kan\u00eb blogje ose ngarkojn\u00eb fotografi t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb llogarit\u00eb e tyre zyrtare n\u00eb Instagram dhe Facebook, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb punojn\u00eb, t\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndihen si nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e dit\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
Rezultatet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb aktivitetet sportive, hidhen n\u00eb internet. Kur Elen, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 11-vje\u00e7are, vendosi t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb vet\u00eb n\u00eb Google, ajo nuk priste t\u00eb gjente ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb, pasi ende nuk kishte llogarin\u00eb e saj n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb media sociale. Ajo u habit kur zbuloi n\u00eb internet, notat e viteve shkollore dhe statistikat e loj\u00ebrave t\u00eb saj sportive.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb rrjet ajo gjeti edhe nj\u00eb histori personale, q\u00eb e kishte shkruar kur ishte n\u00eb klas\u00ebn e tret\u00eb. Ajo ishte publikuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb uebsajt t\u00eb klas\u00ebs me emrin e saj bashkangjitur. \u201cNuk mendova se do t\u00eb gjej gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla n\u00eb internet\u201d- tha ajo. Elen tha se nd\u00ebrsa nuk kishte gjetur ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb shum\u00eb intime apo personale, ajo ishte e frustruar nga fakti q\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha informatat n\u00eb lidhje me veten, ishin postuar n\u00eb internet pa p\u00eblqimin e saj.<\/p>\n
\u201cPavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebni, ato jan\u00eb atje dhe mund t\u00eb shihen nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit. Edhe n\u00ebse je thjesht duke notuar, pjesa tjet\u00ebr e bot\u00ebs do ta dij\u00eb. T\u00eb dh\u00ebnat e mia t\u00eb mbledhura jan\u00eb atje; tani njer\u00ebzit e din\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb notare. Interneti tregon se ku jan\u00eb zhvilluar t\u00eb gjitha garat e mia t\u00eb notit, dhe ndoshta do t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb edhe shkoll\u00ebn time. Pjes\u00eb t\u00eb historis\u00eb sime n\u00eb internet, ishin n\u00eb spanjisht. Tani njer\u00ebzit e din\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb flas spanjisht\u201d.<\/p>\n
Por jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt reagojn\u00eb keq, kur zbulojn\u00eb se kan\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb internet edhe pa dijenin\u00eb e tyre. Disa jan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur. N\u00eb klas\u00ebn e kat\u00ebrt, Nejt kontrolloi emrin e tij n\u00eb Google dhe zbuloi se ishte p\u00ebrmendur n\u00eb nj\u00eb artikull n\u00eb lidhje me klas\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb tret\u00eb, q\u00eb kishte gatuar nj\u00eb burrito gjigante.<\/p>\n
\u201cIsha v\u00ebrtet i befasuar. M\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb ndjehesha i famsh\u00ebm. Njoftova miqt\u00eb e mij duke u th\u00ebn\u00eb \u2018Jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb gazet\u00eb online\u201d- tha ai. Q\u00eb nga ajo koh\u00eb, ai k\u00ebrkon p\u00ebr veten disa her\u00eb n\u00eb Google, duke shpresuar t\u00eb gjej\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera. Natali, aktualisht 13 vje\u00e7e, tha se n\u00eb klas\u00ebn e pest\u00eb ajo dhe miqt\u00eb e saj konkurronin me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin mbi sasin\u00eb e informacionit n\u00eb lidhje me veten n\u00eb internet.<\/p>\n
\u201cMenduam se ishte aq mir\u00eb t\u00eb kishim sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb fotot t\u00eb vetes ton\u00eb n\u00eb internet. Ne do t\u00eb mburreshim\u201d- thot\u00eb ajo. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e Natali, jan\u00eb t\u00eb rrept\u00eb duke mos lejuar postimin e t\u00eb gjitha fotove t\u00eb saj n\u00eb mediat sociale, ndaj aty ndodhet vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e fotografive, edhe pse ajo d\u00ebshiron p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u201cUn\u00eb nuk dua t\u00eb jetoj si e fshehur, dhe kam vet\u00ebm pak foto n\u00eb internet. Un\u00eb dua t\u00eb jem nj\u00eb person i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Dua q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb din\u00eb se kush jam\u201d- shprehet ajo. Kara dhe miqt\u00eb e saj, thon\u00eb se shpresojn\u00eb t\u00eb vendosin rregulla baz\u00eb p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e tyre. Kara d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb n\u00ebna e saj t\u2019i tregoj\u00eb her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb ajo do t\u00eb postoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka rreth saj, dhe 11-vje\u00e7arja do t\u00eb donte t\u00eb jepte miratimin ose jo p\u00ebr \u00e7do foto p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb publikohet.<\/p>\n
Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb n\u00eb SHBA dhe Evrop\u00eb, po miratohen ligje q\u00eb po e disiplinojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb aspekt. N\u00eb vitin 2014, Gjykata Evropiane e t\u00eb Drejtave t\u00eb Njeriut, vendosi q\u00eb ofruesit e internetit t\u2019i japin p\u00ebrdoruesve \u201ct\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u harruar\u201d. Dhe n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, sipas ligjeve t\u00eb ashpra t\u00eb privat\u00ebsis\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt mund t\u00eb padisin prind\u00ebrit e tyre, p\u00ebr publikimin e detajeve intime ose private t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre pa p\u00eblqimin e tyre.<\/p>\n
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Nga Taylor Lorenz P\u00ebr disa muaj, Kara punoi p\u00ebr t\u00eb pastruar ato q\u00eb n\u00ebna e saj kishte hedhur n\u00eb Instagramin e vet. Jo shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, 11-vje\u00e7arja, q\u00eb ashtu si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb histori, p\u00ebrmendet me nj\u00eb pseudonim, zbuloi se n\u00ebna e saj kishte postuar n\u00eb rrjetet sociale shum\u00eb fotografi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6380,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,4],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n