Shum\u00eb i konsiderojn\u00eb si miqt\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kemi, sepse na q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pran\u00eb n\u00eb momentet tona t\u00eb mira dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, duke mos patur asnj\u00eb interes n\u00eb raportin q\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb me ne, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur. Por \u00e7far\u00eb na lidh kaq shum\u00eb me kafsh\u00ebt sht\u00ebpiake?<\/p>\n
Sipas psikiatrit Sigmund Freud, ne arrijm\u00eb t\u2019i kuptojm\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb miri arsyet se pse i duam kaq shum\u00eb k\u00ebto kafsh\u00eb, vet\u00ebm kur kemi kuptuar se ndjenjat q\u00eb kafsh\u00ebt kan\u00eb p\u00ebr ne jan\u00eb t\u00eb pastra, pa interes. Raporti q\u00eb kemi me to nuk njeh drama apo pozita shoq\u00ebrore. Hakmarrja apo e keqja nuk ekzistojn\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tyre, ekziston thjesht dashuria dhe besnik\u00ebria.<\/p>\n
Jeta e tyre e shkurt\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhimbje e madhe n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Jeta mesatare e kafsh\u00ebve sht\u00ebpiake \u00ebsht\u00eb 12 vite dhe kur arrin momenti q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndahemi p\u00ebrfundimisht me to, zemrat tona vuajn\u00eb, pasi nuk mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat pa shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre. Gjith\u00eb koha q\u00eb kemi kaluar me to nuk na duhet e mjaftueshme, pasi dashuria e tyre pa kushte, empatia dhe kujdesi i tyre na e sh\u00ebrojn\u00eb shpirtin dhe na sjellin m\u00eb tep\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi n\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00eb \u00e7do shikim t\u00eb tyre, na duket sikur zemrat e tyre jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura me tonat n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mundemi dot ta shpjegojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Shpesh na duket edhe sikur kafsh\u00ebt tona sht\u00ebpiake zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb superfuqi, sepse mund t\u00eb na kuptojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se mjaft persona dhe t\u00eb na g\u00ebzojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim. Jan\u00eb d\u00ebgjuesit tan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkushtimi i tyre p\u00ebr mir\u00ebqenien dhe lumturin\u00eb ton\u00eb nuk njeh kufij. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe motivi se pse themi q\u00eb, deri n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb nuk duam nj\u00eb kafsh\u00eb sht\u00ebpiake, nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e shpirtit ton\u00eb q\u00ebndron n\u00eb gjum\u00eb. Ekziston nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb brenda nesh q\u00eb i p\u00ebrket k\u00ebtyre qenieve, t\u00eb cilat kan\u00eb fuqin\u00eb t\u00eb sjellin drit\u00eb dhe shpres\u00eb n\u00eb zemrat e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve ne, pasi kafsh\u00ebt sht\u00ebpiake mund t\u00eb na m\u00ebsojn\u00eb shum\u00eb se si t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi persona m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Shum\u00eb i konsiderojn\u00eb si miqt\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kemi, sepse na q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pran\u00eb n\u00eb momentet tona t\u00eb mira dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, duke mos patur asnj\u00eb interes n\u00eb raportin q\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb me ne, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur. Por \u00e7far\u00eb na lidh kaq shum\u00eb me kafsh\u00ebt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n