Sa e sa her\u00eb, duke folur me mikeshat tuaja, keni biseduar p\u00ebr tradh\u00ebtin\u00eb, terrori absolut i \u00e7do \u00e7ifti, madje edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00ebt? Sa her\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfimi p\u00ebr frik\u00ebn e tradhtimit, ato jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur: \u201cN\u00ebse do e b\u00ebnte me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ik, sepse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjest as i respektuesh\u00ebm, as i zgjuar\u201d.<\/p>\n
Me sa duket e kishim nuhatur tashm\u00eb, por Satoshi Kanazava, nj\u00eb specialist i psikologjis\u00eb evolucionare n\u00eb Shkoll\u00ebn Ekonomike t\u00eb Londr\u00ebs, e ka konfirmuar shkenc\u00ebrisht. Pabesia mashkullore varet pik\u00ebrisht nga IQ e mashkullit dhe, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, nj\u00eb IQ e ul\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Studimi i ekspert\u00ebve p\u00ebrfshinte nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb popullsis\u00eb mashkullore, duke analizuar moshat e ndryshme, kushtet sociale dhe arsimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb krahasuar sjelljet e ndryshme.<\/p>\n
Studimi i tij sigurisht q\u00eb ka v\u00ebn\u00eb theksin tek faktori IQ, por n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb ka konfirmuar gjithashtu faktor\u00ebt mjedisor\u00eb, psikologjik\u00eb dhe fizik\u00eb q\u00eb, t\u00eb kombinuar, mund t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb burrin drejt nj\u00eb gjesti t\u00eb pabesis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb studimi i par\u00eb i kryer n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. Edhe Shtetet e Bashkuara kan\u00eb punuar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb analizuar se \u00e7far\u00eb dallonte nj\u00eb person besnik nga nj\u00eb person jo-besnik, duke p\u00ebrfunduar me nj\u00eb lloj \u201charte\u201d t\u00eb ndjenjave t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb dhe lumturis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Gjetjet e ekspert\u00ebve treguan se pabesia \u00ebsht\u00eb tipike p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk e strukturojn\u00eb dhe e rip\u00ebrpilojn\u00eb standardin e veprimit deri n\u00eb pik\u00ebn e marrjes s\u00eb tjetrit si referenc\u00eb dhe duke e konsideruar at\u00eb si nj\u00eb qenie q\u00eb duhet trajtuar, nj\u00eb privilegj. Prandaj, jobesnik\u00ebt preferojn\u00eb kursim t\u00eb energjis\u00eb n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb emocioneve dhe intelektit, duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb angazhohen sa m\u00eb pak t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur dhe duke preferuar sjelljet q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb aq t\u00eb virtytshme, si t\u00eb ken\u00eb partner\u00eb t\u00eb shum\u00ebfisht\u00eb dhe histori t\u00eb ndryshme, madje nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n
Shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt thon\u00eb se nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e q\u00ebndrueshme mund t\u00eb jap\u00eb nj\u00eb furnizim t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm t\u00eb energjis\u00eb, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe pak dyshime, faktor\u00eb t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur edhe me jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 asaj sentimentale.<\/p>\n
Prandaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm faji i gjysm\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7iftit, n\u00ebse burri vendos t\u00eb tradhtoj\u00eb, sepse ky q\u00ebndrim tashm\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i brendsh\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Nuk ka pyetje p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb motor\u00ebt e k\u00ebrkimit dhe nuk ka p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb sakta ose t\u00eb gabuara q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jepen n\u00eb k\u00ebto momente shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n
Shum\u00eb her\u00eb duket m\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb justifikojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj sjelljeje p\u00ebrmes shkenc\u00ebs, por \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb analizohen t\u00eb gjith\u00eb faktor\u00ebt q\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb loj\u00eb me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, teksa ne jetojm\u00eb dhe me t\u00eb famshmet \u201cperiudha t\u00eb kriz\u00ebs\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sa e sa her\u00eb, duke folur me mikeshat tuaja, keni biseduar p\u00ebr tradh\u00ebtin\u00eb, terrori absolut i \u00e7do \u00e7ifti, madje edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00ebt? Sa her\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfimi p\u00ebr frik\u00ebn e tradhtimit, ato jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur: \u201cN\u00ebse do e b\u00ebnte me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ik, sepse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjest as i respektuesh\u00ebm, as i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1654,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n