Pse e krahasojm\u00eb veten me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt?<\/p>\n
Nga Karen Holl<\/p>\n
Ami sapo u ngrit n\u00eb deytr\u00eb, Xhill do t\u00eb shokj\u00eb n\u00eb Europ\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb muaj,\u00a0 dhe Leri ka r\u00ebn\u00eb 10 kile e tani duket \u00a0kaq n\u00eb form\u00eb, si t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb sportist.<\/p>\n
Kur shikon se si po p\u00ebrparojn\u00eb me jet\u00ebn shok\u00ebt e tu, a i uron ata me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr dhe a ndihesh me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb? Apo i p\u00ebrdor lajmet e tyre t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr tu ndjer\u00eb keq me veten? Krahasimet shoq\u00ebrore jan\u00eb \u00a0m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm dhe emocional\u00eb, p\u00ebr tu vet\u00ebgjykuar negativisht dhe p\u00ebr tu futur n\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje paniku.<\/p>\n
Jeta juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb unike.<\/p>\n
Gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb \u00e7mon, vler\u00ebson, dhe \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00a0t\u00eb lumtur, t\u00eb p\u00ebrkasin vet\u00ebm ty, dhe askujt tjet\u00ebr. Krahasimi i vetes m\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb rruga e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar se sa af\u00ebr apo larg \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta juaj aktuale nga ajo idealja e d\u00ebshiruar. E keni kapur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb veten duke xhelozuar dik\u00eb p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju as nuk do ta donit?<\/p>\n
Gjithashtu, ju as q\u00eb nuk e dini me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb si \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta e dikujt tjet\u00ebr. Keni ndjer\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb xhelozi ndaj dikujt q\u00eb ka bler\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb re, nj\u00eb makin\u00eb luksoze dhe m\u00eb von\u00eb keni mar\u00eb vesh se ka falimentuar ose ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb borxh e tani nuk mund t\u00eb paguaj\u00eb as faturat e tyre?<\/p>\n
Kur vet\u00eb-krahasoheni, ju me siguri vini p\u00ebrball\u00eb dob\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja me pikat e tyre m\u00eb t\u00eb forta. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra perfekte p\u00ebr t\u00eb sabotuar besimin n\u00eb vetvete. Edhe n\u00ebse \u00a0krahasoni pikat tuaja t\u00eb forta me ato t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, gjithmon\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb arritur m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ju dhe nga ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb arritur m\u00eb pak.<\/p>\n
Se ku dhe se si e rankoni ju veten n\u00eb piramid\u00ebn e suksesit nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb aspak me jet\u00ebn q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb ju t\u00eb lumtur.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse nuk je m\u00eb i mir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo q\u00eb nuk duhet\u00a0 t\u00eb mereni fare me t\u00eb? Askush p\u00ebrve\u00e7 kampion\u00ebve nuk duhet luaj\u00eb futboll? N\u00ebse t\u00eb krahasuarit me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh dor\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb ju po humbni shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Krahasimi shoq\u00ebror krijon pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi.\u00a0 N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebzoheni p\u00ebr familjar\u00ebt apo shok\u00ebt tuaj, ju ndjeheni sikur po humbni nj\u00eb gar\u00eb, e ndoshta ju uroni atyre t\u00eb keqen. \u00cbsht\u00eb kaq e leht\u00eb t\u00eb humb\u00ebsh p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrimin nga gj\u00ebrat e bukura q\u00eb t\u00eb ofron jeta. Krahasimet e k\u00ebqija mund t\u2019ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheni vet\u00ebm n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i miri. Kjo mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrroj\u00eb g\u00ebzimin dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e eksperimentimit t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb reja. Vet\u00ebm spese dikush mund t\u00eb ngjitet n\u00eb nj\u00eb mal m\u00eb shpejt se ju, nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb rrini t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb rrug\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
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P\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund k\u00ebtij fenomeni, gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb rrisni koshienc\u00ebn. Ta v\u00ebsh re veten kur po e b\u00ebn nj\u00eb veprim t\u00eb till\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, kur e v\u00eb re dhe e pranon, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb ta harrosh.\u00a0 N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk ia dilni, ju duhet t\u00eb ndryshoni prioritetet. \u00a0N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb thoni, \u201cAi \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i fort\u00eb se un\u00eb,\u201d m\u00eb mir\u00eb krahasohu me veten. \u201cUn\u00eb jam m\u00eb i fort\u00eb se muajin e kaluar.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Kur e kapni veten duke v\u00ebn\u00eb re se \u00e7far\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe ju nuk e keni, sigurohuni q\u00eb t\u00eb mbani parasysh edhe gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb zot\u00ebroni. Praktikimi i ndjenj\u00ebs s\u00eb mir\u00ebnjohjes ju ndihmon t\u00eb rikujtoni gjith\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb po n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsoni.<\/p>\n
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M\u00ebsohu t\u00eb jesh i lumtur p\u00ebr arritjet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb ti p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh ato p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjykuar veten. Festimi i arritjeve t\u00eb miqve tuaj, mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb forcimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve midis jush. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb rikujtim i gj\u00ebrave \u00a0q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebr veten tuaj.\/Bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pse e krahasojm\u00eb veten me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt? Nga Karen Holl Ami sapo u ngrit n\u00eb deytr\u00eb, Xhill do t\u00eb shokj\u00eb n\u00eb Europ\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb muaj,\u00a0 dhe Leri ka r\u00ebn\u00eb 10 kile e tani duket \u00a0kaq n\u00eb form\u00eb, si t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb sportist. Kur shikon se si po p\u00ebrparojn\u00eb me jet\u00ebn shok\u00ebt e tu, a i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5784,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n