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<\/p>\nJo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb n\u00eb artin e t\u00eb folurit, q\u00eb t\u00eb flasin n\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb e t\u2019i shkojn\u00eb asaj deri n\u00eb fund. Por n\u00eb fakt ka shum\u00eb truke dhe k\u00ebshilla psikologjike q\u00eb do t\u2019ju ndihmojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb aktiv gjat\u00eb bisedave t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse ju nuk keni informacion rreth personit me t\u00eb cilin po flisni, dhe nuk dini \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb thoni, l\u00ebreni at\u00eb t\u00eb parin t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb d\u00ebgjues i mir\u00eb do ju ndihmoj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dini p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ta pyesni bashk\u00ebbiseduesin m\u00eb von\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Shoq\u00ebrojeni \u00e7do fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tij me buz\u00ebqeshje kur thot\u00eb di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur, konfirmime me kok\u00eb kur thot\u00eb di\u00e7ka serioze.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb sinkron me bashk\u00ebbiseduesin, p\u00ebrpiquni q\u00eb \u00a0t\u00eb flisni sapo p\u00ebrfundon ai.<\/p>\n
Ky truk zakonisht p\u00ebrdoret nga psikolog\u00ebt, por pyetja \u2018\u2019A e kuptova sakt\u00eb se \u2026?\u2019\u2019 \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00a0truk i dobish\u00ebm \u00a0p\u00ebr \u00e7do person. Kjo tregon p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebbiseduesin se ju po e d\u00ebgjoni me v\u00ebmendje at\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Kur doni t\u00eb takoni dik\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb mendoni vendin dhe koh\u00ebn kur do lini takimin. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb b\u00ebni zgjedhjet e zgjuara. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj duhet t\u00eb dini se njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb vonohen zakonisht marrin shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, sesa t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb mund t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse jeni vet\u00ebm pak minuta para se t\u00eb dilni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fjalim t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, \u00a0por ju nuk ndjeheni t\u00eb sigurt,duhet t\u2019i \u00a0thoni vetes, \u201cUn\u00eb mendoj se un\u00eb do ja dal, se un\u00eb jam m\u00eb i miri\u2019\u2019 Ky lloj vet\u00eb besimi do ju ndihmoj\u00eb mos d\u00ebshtoni.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse e keni t\u00eb sigurt se dikush do ju kritikoj\u00eb, ose d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb hedh posht\u00eb idet\u00eb tuaja, uluni pran\u00eb tyre. Sekretet e gjuh\u00ebs s\u00eb trupit\u00a0 do ta qet\u00ebsojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb person, dhe do e ndaloj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ju sulmoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb mendim tuajin m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm dhe me m\u00eb shum\u00eb pesh\u00eb thoni se e keni d\u00ebgjuar nga prind\u00ebrit ose m\u00ebsuesit.<\/p>\n
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Kontakti i gjat\u00eb me syt\u00eb me nj\u00eb person \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb efektiv p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse dikush tregon nj\u00eb shaka fyese p\u00ebr ju, k\u00ebrkoni nga ata t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisin shaka ose ta shpjegojn\u00eb at\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, shakaja nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb qesharake, dhe personi do t\u00eb ndihet i z\u00ebn\u00eb ngusht\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Kur thoni \u201cUn\u00eb kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb\u201d, personit q\u00eb ja k\u00ebrkuat ndihm\u00ebn duhet ta shikoni si t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm edhe n\u00ebse i k\u00ebrkoni nj\u00eb stilolaps.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse takoni dik\u00eb, sigurohuni q\u00eb dora juaj t\u00eb jet\u00eb e ngroht\u00eb, nxeht\u00ebsia do t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb q\u00eb po ndahemi miq\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n
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N\u00ebse gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs, bashk\u00ebbiseduesi ju b\u00ebn pyetje t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshtatshme, ndalojeni dhe i b\u00ebni pyetje duke ndryshuar tem\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse nuk mund t\u2019i thoni \u2018\u2019jo\u2019\u2019 \u00a0nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb ju k\u00ebrkon vazhdimisht favore, filloni t\u2019u k\u00ebrkoni q\u00eb dhe ata t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb till\u00eb p\u00ebr ju.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb kujtoni emrat e njer\u00ebzve , p\u00ebrs\u00ebriteni emrin q\u00eb sapo keni d\u00ebgjuar disa her\u00eb gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb me personin. Kjo do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb ta mbani mend emrin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb n\u00eb artin e t\u00eb folurit, q\u00eb t\u00eb flasin n\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb e t\u2019i shkojn\u00eb asaj deri n\u00eb fund. Por n\u00eb fakt ka shum\u00eb truke dhe k\u00ebshilla psikologjike q\u00eb do t\u2019ju ndihmojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb aktiv gjat\u00eb bisedave t\u00eb ndryshme. N\u00ebse ju nuk keni informacion rreth […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4636,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n