{"id":4273,"date":"2019-03-11T20:36:53","date_gmt":"2019-03-11T19:36:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=4273"},"modified":"2019-03-11T20:36:53","modified_gmt":"2019-03-11T19:36:53","slug":"cdo-mashkull-e-ka-nje-grua-qe-nuk-do-ta-harroje-kurre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=4273","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7do mashkull e ka nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb nuk do ta harroj\u00eb kurr\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00eb jet\u00ebn e secilit njeri ka nj\u00eb grua, p\u00ebr ta kujtuar gjithmon\u00eb me but\u00ebsi dhe ngroht\u00ebsi dhe me nj\u00eb trishtim t\u00eb pakuptuesh\u00ebm. Dhe kjo, pavar\u00ebsisht nga fakti se ajo ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb e lumtur p\u00ebr disa vjet, apo e do gruan dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij.<\/p>\n

Le t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se kush jan\u00eb k\u00ebto vajza apo k\u00ebto gra, t\u00eb cilat kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb harrohen nga partner\u00ebt e tyre:<\/p>\n

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  1. Dashuria e par\u00eb<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Pak njer\u00ebz mund t\u00eb harrojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb par\u00eb, ndjenjat e tyre dhe ndjenjat e asaj kohe. Dhe nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse kjo dashuri ishte reciproke apo jo. Por ishte n\u00eb at\u00eb moment q\u00eb burri pa n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr dhe papritmas e kuptoi q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua mund t\u2019ia ndryshonte jet\u00ebn. Ndjenjat e para jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb pastra, m\u00eb naivet. Edhe n\u00ebse iluzionet dhe \u00ebndrrat p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arsye apo nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, nuk justifikojn\u00eb shpresat dhe nuk realizohen, burri nuk do ta harroj\u00eb kurr\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tij t\u00eb par\u00eb. Ishte kjo vajz\u00eb q\u00eb zgjonte tek ai k\u00ebto ndjenja t\u00eb lehta dhe t\u00eb buta dhe, p\u00ebr buz\u00ebqeshjen e saj, burri ishte gati t\u00eb transformonte malet dhe t\u00eb ndryshonte rrjedh\u00ebn e lumenjve.<\/p>\n

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    1. Dashuria e pamundur<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Nj\u00eb grua dashurohej shum\u00eb m\u00eb pak me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ose ndoshta nuk i p\u00eblqente aspak, por burro do t\u00eb d\u00ebshironte q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb her\u00eb kjo grua t\u00eb flinte me t\u00eb. Por ajo nuk pranoi t\u2019i p\u00ebrkiste atij. Kjo grua ka prekur krenarin\u00eb e tij mashkullore dhe kjo ishte arsyeja pse ka mbetur p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb kujtes\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n

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      1. Dashuria e humbur<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Shpesh ndodh q\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb e kupton sa e \u00e7mon dhe e do nj\u00eb grua, vet\u00ebm pasi e humbet. Ajo ka ikur, dhe e gjith\u00eb jeta e tij ka humbur t\u00eb gjitha kuptimet. Vet\u00ebm m\u00eb von\u00eb, ai do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb gabimet e tij, do kuptoj\u00eb se ajo i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb koh\u00ebn e saj, por q\u00eb ai nuk ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje ta vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb. Dhe tani nuk mund t\u00eb kthehet pas. Dhe edhe n\u00ebse, pas nj\u00eb kohe, ai burr\u00eb do ta doj\u00eb nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr, gjithnj\u00eb do t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb i m\u00ebsoi ajo grua q\u00eb ia theu zemr\u00ebn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

        N\u00eb jet\u00ebn e secilit njeri ka nj\u00eb grua, p\u00ebr ta kujtuar gjithmon\u00eb me but\u00ebsi dhe ngroht\u00ebsi dhe me nj\u00eb trishtim t\u00eb pakuptuesh\u00ebm. Dhe kjo, pavar\u00ebsisht nga fakti se ajo ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb e lumtur p\u00ebr disa vjet, apo e do gruan dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij. Le t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se kush jan\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3547,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n\u00c7do mashkull e ka nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb nuk do ta harroj\u00eb kurr\u00eb - Informohu qart\u00ebsisht!<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=4273\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sq_AL\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u00c7do mashkull e ka nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb nuk do ta harroj\u00eb kurr\u00eb - Informohu qart\u00ebsisht!\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"N\u00eb jet\u00ebn e secilit njeri ka nj\u00eb grua, p\u00ebr ta kujtuar gjithmon\u00eb me but\u00ebsi dhe ngroht\u00ebsi dhe me nj\u00eb trishtim t\u00eb pakuptuesh\u00ebm. 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