\u00cbsht\u00eb proverbial fakti q\u00eb \u00ebndrrat n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes avullojn\u00eb. Natyrisht, ato mund t\u00eb kujtohen; sepse \u00ebndrrat i njohim nga kujtimi q\u00eb na mbetet prej tyre pas zgjimit.<\/p>\n
Por shpesh kemi p\u00ebrshtypjen se \u00ebndrra na kujtohet vet\u00ebm pjes\u00ebrisht dhe se nat\u00ebn ajo ishte m\u00eb e gjat\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb v\u00ebrehet po ashtu se kujtimi i nj\u00eb \u00ebndrre, ende i gjall\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs do t\u00eb davaritet, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00ebm ca mbetje t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n
Shpesh e dim\u00eb q\u00eb kemi \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar, pa e ditur se \u00e7far\u00eb; fakti q\u00eb \u00ebndrrat mund t\u00eb harrohen \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq i njohur p\u00ebr ne, saq\u00eb nuk shohim kurrfar\u00eb absurditeti n\u00eb mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb nat\u00ebn t\u00eb kemi \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes t\u00eb mos jemi t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00e7ka kemi \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar, apo edhe t\u00eb vet\u00eb faktit q\u00eb kemi \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar.<\/p>\n
Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, ndodh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebndrrat t\u00eb shfaqin nj\u00eb ngulmim t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb. Ja \u00e7far\u00eb shkruan Frojdi tek \u201cInterpretimi i \u00ebndrrave\u201d. \u201cMes pacient\u00ebve t\u00eb mi kam analizuar \u00ebndrra q\u00eb i kishin par\u00eb 25 apo edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb; edhe un\u00eb vet\u00eb kujtoj nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb 37 viteve m\u00eb par\u00eb, q\u00eb megjithat\u00eb m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e fresk\u00ebt se kurr\u00eb n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb. E gjith\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e \u00e7uditshme dhe jo p\u00ebrnj\u00ebher\u00eb e kuptueshme.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, t\u00ebr\u00eb shkaqet q\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb harrim n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e zgjimit, \u00e7ojn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb harrimin e \u00ebndrrave. Kur jemi zgjuar, harrojm\u00eb rregullisht e menj\u00ebher\u00eb ndijime e perceptime t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta, sepse ishin fort t\u00eb dob\u00ebta apo ngaq\u00eb eksitimi mendor q\u00eb i pasonte ishte shum\u00eb i leht\u00eb. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb vlen edhe p\u00ebr shum\u00eb imazhe onirike; harrohen sepse jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebta, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb imazhet m\u00eb t\u00eb forta q\u00eb jan\u00eb pran\u00eb tyre, arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb kujtohen.<\/p>\n
Sidoqoft\u00eb, faktori intensitet sigurisht q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i mjaftuesh\u00ebm n\u00eb vetvete p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar kujtimin apo jo t\u00eb nj\u00eb imazhi onirik. Str\u00fcmpell \u2013 si edhe autor\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb (Calkins, 1893) \u2013 e pranon se shpesh harrojm\u00eb imazhe onirike q\u00eb ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjalla, teksa mbajm\u00eb n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb nj\u00eb num\u00ebr t\u00eb madh imazhesh t\u00eb turbullta e pa kuptim.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, kur jemi zgjuar, jemi t\u00eb prirur ta harrojm\u00eb me leht\u00ebsi nj\u00eb ngjarje q\u00eb verifikohet vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb me m\u00eb leht\u00ebsi at\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb perceptohet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur. Por pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e imazheve onirike jan\u00eb p\u00ebrvoja unike; kjo karakteristik\u00eb do t\u00eb kontribuoj\u00eb paan\u00ebsisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb na b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u2019i harrojm\u00eb gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrrat nj\u00ebsoj.<\/p>\n
Por \u00ebsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe nj\u00eb shkak i tret\u00eb harrese. Me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb ndijimet, idet\u00eb, mendimet e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb, t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb niveli ndjeshm\u00ebrie q\u00eb t\u00eb mbahen mend, \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore q\u00eb t\u00eb mos mbeten t\u00eb izoluara, por t\u00eb shfaqen n\u00eb grupe apo bashk\u00eblidhje t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse nj\u00eb vjersh\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr ndahet n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e saj p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00ebse e k\u00ebto p\u00ebrzihen nj\u00ebra me tjetr\u00ebn, ato b\u00ebhen shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbajtur mend. \u201cSikur fjal\u00ebt t\u00eb parashtroheshin drejt dhe t\u00eb viheshin sipas nj\u00eb rregulli logjik, nj\u00ebra fjal\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihmonte tjetr\u00ebn dhe t\u00ebr\u00ebsia, e pajisur k\u00ebshtu me kuptim, do t\u00eb ishte leht\u00ebsisht e kujtueshme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe e pazakont\u00eb t\u00eb kujtosh di\u00e7ka kontradiktore, sa \u00e7 \u2018\u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kujtosh at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb konfuze dhe e \u00e7rregullt\u201d (Str\u00fcmpell).<\/p>\n
N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi \u00ebndrra \u00ebsht\u00eb e privuar nga rregulli dhe kuptimi. P\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00ebsit e \u00ebndrr\u00ebs nuk i kan\u00eb ato cil\u00ebsi q\u00eb do ta b\u00ebnin t\u00eb mundur kujtimin e tyre, ndaj dhe harrohen, sepse, si rregull, nj\u00eb \u00e7ast m\u00eb von\u00eb ato shp\u00ebrb\u00ebhen.<\/p>\n
Megjithat\u00eb, Radestock mb\u00ebshtet iden\u00eb se \u00ebndrrat m\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme kujtohen m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe kjo, duhet pranuar, nuk p\u00ebrkon me at\u00eb \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb deri tani. Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr faktor q\u00eb \u00e7on ndoshta n\u00eb harres\u00ebn e \u00ebndrrave \u00ebsht\u00eb interesi i pak\u00ebt q\u00eb kan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebr \u00ebndrrat e veta.<\/p>\n
Kushdo q\u00eb u kushton v\u00ebmendje \u00ebndrrave p\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar kohe, ashtu si k\u00ebrkuesit shkencor\u00eb, do t\u00eb shoh\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00ebndrra se zakonisht, \u00e7ka do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb i mban mend \u00ebndrrat me m\u00eb shum\u00eb leht\u00ebsi e shpesht\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n
Pas gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtyre arsyeve t\u00eb favorshme p\u00ebr harres\u00ebn e \u00ebndrrave, \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e \u00e7uditshme, q\u00eb arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb ruhen n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb \u00ebndrra. Por kujtimi i \u00ebndrrave n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi mbetet i zbuluar para nj\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtimi, q\u00eb ia ul pashmangshm\u00ebrisht vler\u00ebn para opinionit kritik.<\/p>\n
Meq\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb kaq e madhe e \u00ebndrr\u00ebs humbet krejt\u00ebsisht, nuk mund t\u00eb mos dyshojm\u00eb se kujtesa jon\u00eb e falsifikon at\u00eb \u00e7ka mbetet prej saj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00cbsht\u00eb proverbial fakti q\u00eb \u00ebndrrat n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes avullojn\u00eb. Natyrisht, ato mund t\u00eb kujtohen; sepse \u00ebndrrat i njohim nga kujtimi q\u00eb na mbetet prej tyre pas zgjimit. Por shpesh kemi p\u00ebrshtypjen se \u00ebndrra na kujtohet vet\u00ebm pjes\u00ebrisht dhe se nat\u00ebn ajo ishte m\u00eb e gjat\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb v\u00ebrehet po ashtu se kujtimi i nj\u00eb \u00ebndrre, ende […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4122,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n