T\u00eb jesh n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb dallosh pabesin\u00eb e partnerit mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e komplikuar. Po, sepse \u201cai\u201d ose \u201cpabesia\u201d i tij mund t\u00eb marrin shum\u00eb forma t\u00eb ndryshme, n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift.<\/p>\n
Nga libri \u201cTradhtar i ndyr\u00eb. Si t\u00eb dallosh gjurm\u00ebt e tradhtis\u00eb!\u201d nga Alberto Caputo, Alessandro Calderoni, Silvia Jun e Paolo Baron<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n 3 llojet e tradh\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur<\/strong>\u00a0Nd\u00ebr sugjerimet e shumta q\u00eb autor\u00ebt kan\u00eb parashikuar, vlen t\u00eb theksohet ndarja n\u00eb tri kategori t\u00eb t\u00eb pabes\u00ebve. N\u00eb praktik\u00eb, nj\u00eb identikit i tradh\u00ebtarit t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur, sipas llojit. Le t\u2019i shohim k\u00ebto lloje.<\/p>\n Serial\u00ebt<\/p>\n Ata jan\u00eb tradh\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb pabes\u00eb t\u00eb specializuar. Ata q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb gjenetikisht t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e \u00e7iftit zyrtar, por me instinkt dhe pasion duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb tresh: ai, ajo, tjetri ose tjetra. Ata dallohen n\u00eb \u201cgrumbulluesit\u201d dhe \u201c\u00e7far\u00ebdolloj\u00ebshit\u201d. Ata duan nj\u00eb trofe t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar.Dhe sot ka gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb gra q\u00eb ata mund gjejn\u00eb. Serial\u00ebt, megjithat\u00eb, vet\u00ebm duan t\u00eb sjellin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi rezultatin. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se kush, personi nuk llogaritet. Ata gjithashtu vendosen si n\u00eb nj\u00eb shitje, ndjekin filozofin\u00eb e \u201cm\u00eb ka ndaluar frym\u00ebmarrja\u201d. Midis burrave dhe grave, burrat mbizot\u00ebrojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb varurit prej seksit shum\u00ebfishohen.<\/p>\n Paralel\u00ebt<\/p>\n Mbajtjen e k\u00ebmb\u00ebs n\u00eb dy (ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb) k\u00ebpuc\u00eb e kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb profesion. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb si marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien kryesore (martesa ose bashk\u00ebjetesa), ata menaxhojn\u00eb edhe t\u00eb tjerat dhe e arrijn\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. Me bilanc t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur, ata kalojn\u00eb nga nj\u00eb shtrat n\u00eb tjetrin pa b\u00ebr\u00eb gabimin m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Nuk ngat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb emrat, nuk humbasin datat e dit\u00eblindjeve dhe jubileve. Motivi i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cafektiv-relacional\u201d, n\u00eb kuptimin q\u00eb ata me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb besojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb. Ata dallohen n\u00eb monogam\u00eb (burra ose gra q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb dashnor historik, ose nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb dashnor zyrtar t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortes apo bashk\u00ebshortit t\u00eb p\u00eblqyer) dhe poligamist\u00eb, kryesisht meshkuj. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, poligamist\u00ebt mund t\u00eb ndjekin modelin e haremit (t\u00eb gjitha s\u00eb bashku me role t\u00eb nd\u00ebrrueshme) ose modelin e arkipelagut (\u00e7do ishull nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, prandaj \u00e7do dashnor ka funksionin e tij).<\/p>\n Rast\u00ebsor\u00ebt<\/p>\n Ata veprojn\u00eb p\u00ebr hakmarrje, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkuar nj\u00eb grua-shtrig\u00eb ose nj\u00eb burr\u00eb-padron. Ata tradhtojn\u00eb p\u00ebr hakmarrje dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndar\u00eb n\u00eb dy n\u00ebn-kategori mes personave t\u00eb zakonsh\u00ebm dhe \u201cmaceve t\u00eb m\u00ebdha\u201d (t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb kryesisht gra t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta). T\u00eb par\u00ebt jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb nuk presin asgj\u00eb, por tradhtojn\u00eb, ata e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse u ofrohet mund\u00ebsia n\u00eb pjat\u00ebn e argjendt\u00eb. N\u00eb dashuri ata nuk marrin iniciativa, nuk marrin asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. Ata jan\u00eb antiteza e \u201cnjeriut q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb kurr\u00eb\u201d, por atyre u p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb pasioni. Sa p\u00ebr macet, dinake si macja e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, b\u00ebjn\u00eb sikur po flejn\u00eb n\u00eb shtrat. Por ato i b\u00ebjn\u00eb syt\u00eb kat\u00ebr, gati p\u00ebr t\u00eb rr\u00ebmbyer pren\u00eb e par\u00eb interesante q\u00eb kalon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00eb jesh n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb dallosh pabesin\u00eb e partnerit mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e komplikuar. Po, sepse \u201cai\u201d ose \u201cpabesia\u201d i tij mund t\u00eb marrin shum\u00eb forma t\u00eb ndryshme, n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift. Nga libri \u201cTradhtar i ndyr\u00eb. Si t\u00eb dallosh gjurm\u00ebt e tradhtis\u00eb!\u201d nga Alberto Caputo, Alessandro Calderoni, Silvia Jun e Paolo Baron 3 llojet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3907,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n