. Ata q\u00eb nuk e pranojn\u00eb fajin<\/p>\n
\u201cNjer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e kan\u00eb t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar jet\u00ebn e tyre, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i faj\u00ebsuar njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb kur gj\u00ebrat shkojn\u00eb keq\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi hasur njer\u00ebz si k\u00ebta n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb llojet e individ\u00ebve q\u00eb personifikojn\u00eb fjal\u00ebn \u201cviktimizim\u201d. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, ata refuzojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jap\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ata me kujdes do ta zhvendosin p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb apo personq\u00eb nuk meriton t\u00eb trajtohet keq.<\/p>\n
2. Ata q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb ankohen<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7do budalla mund t\u00eb kritikoj\u00eb, t\u00eb d\u00ebnoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ankohet \u2013 dhe shumica e budallenjve e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e padurueshme t\u00eb keni pran\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb vet\u00ebm ankohet. Do t\u00eb ishte shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, n\u00ebse do t\u2019i mbanin ankesat e tyre p\u00ebr vete; por jo, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ata zgjedhin t\u2019i shprehin ato p\u00ebr k\u00ebdo dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb do t\u2019i d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrveprimi me dik\u00eb q\u00eb vazhdimisht ankohet \u00ebsht\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, pasi shpesh \u00ebsht\u00eb pothuajse e pamundur t\u00eb fitohet n\u00eb debate. Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb shpesh nuk jan\u00eb as racionale n\u00eb debatet e tyre t\u00eb brendshme apo t\u00eb jashtme. Pra, ju ngelet vet\u00ebm t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni dhe t\u00eb mos k\u00ebrkoni sqarime.<\/p>\n
3. Ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbushur me inat<\/p>\n
\u201cMendjet e forta diskutojn\u00eb idet\u00eb, mendjet mesatare diskutojn\u00eb ngjarjet, mendjet e dob\u00ebta diskutojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit\u201d.<\/p>\n
Thashethemet (ndoshta) ekzistojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do k\u00ebnd dhe trazir\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebtij planeti. Shpesh, pasiguria \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e thashethemeve, pasi zbulimi n\u00eb lidhje me nj\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore b\u00ebn q\u00eb gazetar\u00ebt t\u00eb ndihen m\u00eb mir\u00eb. Mjerisht, k\u00ebta individ\u00eb shpesh p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb nga rrethanat negative q\u00eb dikush kalon dhe kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e trisht\u00eb, por k\u00ebshtu ndodh. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb realiteti.<\/p>\n
4. Ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar vet\u00eb<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit e till\u00eb shpesh jan\u00eb manipulues mjeshtra dhe p\u00ebrdorin k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebndrim t\u00eb predispozuar p\u00ebr vet\u00ebp\u00ebrfitim. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 zot\u00ebrimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb dhuntie p\u00ebr manipulimin, individ\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb gjithashtu kan\u00eb nj\u00eb cil\u00ebsi t\u00eb fort\u00eb narcisiste \u2013 dhe mund t\u00eb bien shum\u00eb n\u00ebn narcisistin demografik.<\/p>\n
Sa i p\u00ebrket manipulimit, ata p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyjn\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn emocionale t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. K\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb fajit dhe t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimit tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.Mos b\u00ebni asnj\u00eb gabim duke u besuar atyre, pasi do t\u00eb humbisni vet\u00eb n\u00eb fund. Njer\u00ebzit e till\u00eb i shohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt si nj\u00eb mjet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfitim vetjak, p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr.<\/p>\n
5. Ata q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje<\/p>\n
\u201cGjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse ju nuk e keni v\u00ebmendjen e dikujt\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ata q\u00eb duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes, shpesh her\u00eb jan\u00eb fjal\u00ebshumt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb bezdissh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00ebnyra, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebnprodukt i nj\u00eb mendjeje t\u00eb pazhvilluar. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje, dhe asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e gabuar n\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb. Truri i nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije \u00ebsht\u00eb ende n\u00eb zhvillim.<\/p>\n
Por kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb apo nj\u00eb grua e rritur vazhdon t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar v\u00ebmendje , kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sigurisht nj\u00eb anomali psikologjike.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
. Ata q\u00eb nuk e pranojn\u00eb fajin \u201cNjer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e kan\u00eb t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar jet\u00ebn e tyre, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i faj\u00ebsuar njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb kur gj\u00ebrat shkojn\u00eb keq\u201d. Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi hasur njer\u00ebz si k\u00ebta n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb llojet e individ\u00ebve q\u00eb personifikojn\u00eb fjal\u00ebn \u201cviktimizim\u201d. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3782,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n