{"id":3779,"date":"2019-03-06T21:47:33","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T20:47:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=3779"},"modified":"2019-03-06T21:47:33","modified_gmt":"2019-03-06T20:47:33","slug":"perse-nje-burre-zgjedh-nje-grua-ne-vend-te-nje-tjetre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=3779","title":{"rendered":"P\u00ebrse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb zgjedh nj\u00eb grua, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb tjetre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb misterioze dhe ajo q\u00eb t\u00ebrheq dy njer\u00ebz t\u00eb duhen \u00ebsht\u00eb pasoj\u00eb e renditjes s\u00eb yjeve n\u00eb qiell. Megjithat\u00eb, ka disa faktor\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00ebrheqin \u00e7iftet dhe lidhjen q\u00eb i mban ato s\u00eb bashku deri n\u00eb fund.<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb psikolog, nj\u00eb ekspert n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, rr\u00ebfen se \u00e7do dit\u00eb ndeshet me pyetje t\u00eb shpeshta, si: \u201cpse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb zgjedh nj\u00eb grua dhe jo nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr?<\/p>\n

Edhe pse nuk ka p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb fjali, psikologu ka deklaruar se arsyet jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha larg nga ajo q\u00eb mund t\u00eb pritet.<\/p>\n

Ja se nga \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb varet zgjedhja:<\/p>\n

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  1. Pajtueshm\u00ebria seksuale<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Kur \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr pajtueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb seksuale, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb zgjedh nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb plot\u00ebson kriteret seksuale q\u00eb ai ka n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij: ai e p\u00eblqen m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si puth, m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si l\u00ebviz dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si shprehet.<\/p>\n

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    1. Pajtueshm\u00ebria e p\u00eblqimeve<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, burrat duan t\u00eb preken. Burrat jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak emocional\u00eb sesa grat\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ata ndihen m\u00eb t\u00eb rehatsh\u00ebm n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tyre me partneren p\u00ebrmes kontaktit fizik. Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb zgjedh nj\u00eb grua e jo nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, pjes\u00ebrisht, sepse ai mendon se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje me t\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel emocional, \u00ebsht\u00eb e dashur fizikisht; ajo e prek n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ai p\u00eblqen t\u00eb preket.<\/p>\n

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      1. Pajtueshm\u00ebria me familjen e origjin\u00ebs<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Nj\u00eb nga faktor\u00ebt kryesor\u00eb q\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si nj\u00eb burr\u00eb zgjedh nj\u00eb grua ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me miq\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij, me familjen e tij. Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb zgjedh t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb mir\u00eb me familjen e tij t\u00eb origjin\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

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        1. Familja<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Ndoshta vlera m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb burrave i referohet familjes, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb martohet dhe t\u00eb ket\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb zgjedh t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb nga stili i jet\u00ebs tradicionale t\u00eb familjes, ai do t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ket\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb ose t\u00eb martohet. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb d\u00ebshiron paket\u00ebn tradicionale t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, ai do t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sinqert\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb familje.<\/p>\n

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          1. Liria<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr burrat dhe q\u00eb p\u00ebrcakton llojin e gruas q\u00eb ata zgjedhin t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb, ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me faktin n\u00ebse gruaja do t\u2019i jap\u00eb atij liri. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb e do udh\u00ebtimin me miqt\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm, ai do t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb i jep atij liri dhe pranon faktin se i duhet koh\u00eb p\u00ebr veten e tij.<\/p>\n

            P\u00ebr burrat q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje m\u00eb intime, ata do t\u00eb zgjedhin nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb me t\u00eb se, t\u00eb themi, t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb me miqt\u00eb e saj me pushime. Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb shum\u00eb vet\u00ebm k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra me partneren e vet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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