Martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga aktet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb moment i bukur ndoshta, por q\u00eb t\u00eb ngarkon me shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe detyrime, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat, le ta themi hapur, shumica e t\u00eb martuarve nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Pak jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e matur dhe serioz\u00eb q\u00eb e kuptojn\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb realisht po b\u00ebjn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ja disa nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kini parasysh para se t\u00eb hidhni k\u00ebt\u00eb hap:<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse ai\/ajo gabon?<\/strong><\/p>\n Martes\u00eb, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb do kalosh gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin person. Por shumica e njer\u00ebzve nuk jan\u00eb perfekt\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb nuk ka. At\u00ebher\u00eb, ki parasysh q\u00eb personi me t\u00eb cilin po kaloni jet\u00ebn dikur do gaboj\u00eb. Lloji i gabimit varet nga personaliteti. Por e sigurt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit gabojn\u00eb. P\u00ebrgatiteni veten: \u00c7far\u00eb do b\u00ebni n\u00ebse ai gabon? Kjo do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni keq. P\u00ebrfundimi: N\u00ebse jeni dikush q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebni dot kompromise, kujdes para se t\u00eb vendosni t\u00eb martoheni.<\/p>\n Edhe me kompromisin, kujdes<\/strong><\/p>\n Pak m\u00eb sip\u00ebr fol\u00ebm p\u00ebr kompromis, por kompromisi do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb detyroheni t\u00eb b\u00ebni edhe gj\u00ebra q\u00eb n\u00eb fakt nuk doni t\u2019i b\u00ebni. P\u00ebrgatituni edhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, sepse kompromisi mund t\u00eb arrihet, por mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbajtur.<\/p>\n Asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb martes\u00eb, koha ndahet n\u00eb dy pjes\u00eb, pra do t\u2019i p\u00ebrkushtoni shum\u00eb koh\u00eb edhe bashk\u00ebshortit\/es. N\u00ebse dikur vendosnit ta kalonit dhe organizonit koh\u00ebn e lir\u00eb si donit vet\u00eb, pas martese kjo gj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mundur.\u00a0 E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb secili ka angazhimet e veta, por k\u00ebto do shtohen brenda martes\u00ebs, sidomos pas lindjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije, ndaj koha p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb do kufizohet. Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se do e humbisni, por nuk do jeni m\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u2019i takoni shpesh si dikur. Dhe kini parasysh q\u00eb pas martese do merrni n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb edhe mendimin e bashk\u00ebshortit\/es p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Ka raste kur dikush nga shoq\u00ebria juaj atij nuk i p\u00eblqen dhe nuk d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ti ta frekuentosh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga aktet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Nj\u00eb moment i bukur ndoshta, por q\u00eb t\u00eb ngarkon me shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe detyrime, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat, le ta themi hapur, shumica e t\u00eb martuarve nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm. Pak jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e matur dhe serioz\u00eb q\u00eb e kuptojn\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb realisht po b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Ja […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3722,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,21],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n