Ishte nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur grat\u00eb ndiheshin t\u00eb detyruara t\u2019u p\u00ebrshtateshin standardeve. Ideja e nj\u00eb familje, p\u00ebr shembull, mund t\u00eb ekzistonte vet\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb amvise jasht\u00ebzakonisht e p\u00ebrkushtuar: larje, hekurosje dhe t\u00eb qenit kuzhiniere me koh\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, nj\u00eb \u201ckamariere\u201d t\u00eb cilin dikush mund ta urdh\u00ebroj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ne nuk mund t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb \u201catributet fizike\u201d q\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktonin gjithashtu nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur: gjoksin e plot\u00eb, flok\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur dhe nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje mahnit\u00ebse, ato q\u00eb godasin t\u00eb gjitha, mund\u00ebsisht burrat. Sidoqoft\u00eb, k\u00ebto koncepte po ndryshojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Gruaja \u201cideale\u201d e sotme nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fytyr\u00eb e bukur, nj\u00eb trup i holl\u00eb apo p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebria n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb. Ato jan\u00eb perfekte, e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, por secila n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e vet dhe sipas zakonit, \u00ebndrrave dhe besimeve t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n
Ato jan\u00eb gra t\u00eb forta, t\u00eb cilat, pavar\u00ebsisht se ku ndodhen ose kudo ku shkojn\u00eb, t\u00ebrheqin v\u00ebmendjen p\u00ebr q\u00ebndrimin dhe sigurin\u00eb e tyre. Ndaj, lexoni m\u00eb posht\u00eb 10 cil\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb sjelljen e nj\u00eb gruaje t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme!<\/p>\n
Grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme nuk varen nga miratimi i njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur \u00ebndrrat e tyre, ato jan\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm t\u00eb zellshme dhe b\u00ebjn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur p\u00ebr t\u2019i arriotur objektivat q\u00eb kan\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ato i njohin v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe problemet me t\u00eb cilat duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e tyre q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme jan\u00eb t\u00eb sjellshme, ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe kujdesen t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb mjediset ku ato ndodhen, m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Ato e din\u00eb se sa thelb\u00ebsore \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ato nuk hezitojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb. G\u00ebnjeshtra nuk kalon kurr\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr mendjen e tyre, pasi ato thon\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb thuhet, me respektin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb pun\u00eb ose n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie emocionale, grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme e din\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb varet prej tyre. Duke qen\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuara dhe t\u00eb respektueshme, ato nuk hezitojn\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb paga t\u00eb drejta ose sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme nuk kan\u00eb turp t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabimet e tyre, p\u00ebrkundrazi, ato e kuptojn\u00eb se b\u00ebrja e gabimeve \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar dhe, kur i arrijn\u00eb q\u00ebllimet e tyre, ato nuk mburren ose posht\u00ebrojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Dor\u00ebzimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e fjalorit t\u00eb \u201cnj\u00eb super-gruaje\u201d. P\u00ebrkushtimi dhe p\u00ebrqendrimi i tyre nuk i lejon t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb \u00ebndrrat dhe d\u00ebshirat e tyre, madje edhe p\u00ebrball\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive.<\/p>\n
Ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebta nuk iprekin grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme! Ato e din\u00eb se kujt t\u2019i besojn\u00eb, por gjithashtu e kuptojn\u00eb q\u00eb bota \u00ebsht\u00eb plot me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb duan t\u2019i mposhtin. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ato e din\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb se k\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme studiojn\u00eb, kujdesen p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e tyre dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat e tyre. Ato nuk varen nga asnj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuar, pasi e kuptojn\u00eb se, n\u00eb \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim midis dy pal\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Ato e din\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb tuf\u00eb lulesh nuk p\u00ebrcakton nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, dik\u00eb q\u00eb ka respekt dhe admirim p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ato q\u00eb jan\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb shenj\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl se dikush po flet p\u00ebr to, grat\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme imponohen. Ato nuk kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjykoj\u00eb veprimet e tyre dhe t\u2019u thot\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ose t\u00eb mos b\u00ebjn\u00eb. A keni edhe ju disa nga k\u00ebto karakteristika? \/ meb.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ishte nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur grat\u00eb ndiheshin t\u00eb detyruara t\u2019u p\u00ebrshtateshin standardeve. Ideja e nj\u00eb familje, p\u00ebr shembull, mund t\u00eb ekzistonte vet\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb amvise jasht\u00ebzakonisht e p\u00ebrkushtuar: larje, hekurosje dhe t\u00eb qenit kuzhiniere me koh\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, nj\u00eb \u201ckamariere\u201d t\u00eb cilin dikush mund ta urdh\u00ebroj\u00eb. Ne nuk […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21674,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,18,21],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n