{"id":18593,"date":"2019-10-27T20:38:06","date_gmt":"2019-10-27T19:38:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=18593"},"modified":"2019-10-27T20:38:06","modified_gmt":"2019-10-27T19:38:06","slug":"njihe-veteveten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=18593","title":{"rendered":"Njihe vet\u00ebveten!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cN\u00ebse krenaria jote \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe se zemra jote dhe egoja m\u00eb e madhe se koka jote, at\u00ebher\u00eb rritu, sepse mund t\u00eb ngelesh vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn\u201d<span id=\"more-7302\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Mosnjohja e vetvetes p\u00ebrcillet me nj\u00eb doz\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb egoizmi, \u00e7doher\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se si ka mund\u00ebsi, p\u00ebrse k\u00ebshtu, \u00e7far\u00eb kam un\u00eb, si dhe kur ishte hera e fundit q\u00eb i thash nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb vetes? Identitieti yn\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktohet nga vet\u00eb sjellja jon\u00eb, nga t\u00eb vet\u00ebmenduarit nga vet\u00ebnjohja, vet\u00ebnd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi, vet\u00ebkontrolli deri te p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia personale.<\/p>\n<p>Njer\u00ebzit \u00e7do dit\u00eb mundohen t\u00eb na p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb se kush duhet t\u00eb jemi, duke na drejtuar mendimet se si t\u2019i p\u00ebrcaktohemi q\u00ebllimit t\u00eb tyre. Njer\u00ebzit jo \u00e7do her\u00eb mund t\u00eb na vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb, qoft\u00eb nga paft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb na kuptuar apo nga egoizmi i tyre, por vler\u00ebsimi dhe mendimi q\u00eb ke p\u00ebr veten nuk duhet humbur kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Si p\u00ebrcaktohet identiteti yn\u00eb? Duke shprehur mir\u00ebnjohje duke inkurajuar, duke vendosur synime dhe duke zbuluar q\u00ebllimin ton\u00eb, ( njiheni veten, inkurajojeni veten, motivojeni veten). Pa e kuptuar, ti mund t\u2019ua atribuosh idet\u00eb, ndjenjat apo karakteristikat e tua, njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Por \u00e7far\u00eb thot\u00eb specilaisti i Psikologjis\u00eb Klinike dhe Psikoterapis\u00eb, Latif Hoxha lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb?<\/p>\n<p>Duke folur rreth k\u00ebsaj \u00e7\u00ebshtje, psikologu Hoxha ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se problemi i njohjes s\u00eb vetvetes ka p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb individin n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme kosovare dhe se jeta moderne ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohen n\u00eb problemet q\u00eb i rrethojn\u00eb, si puna ose papun\u00ebsia, mossuksesi, informacioni, financat etj, sesa n\u00eb vetveten e tyre. Ai ka konstatuar se njohja relative e vetvetes do t\u00eb thot\u00eb gatishm\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar situatat.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00ebshtjet e njohjes s\u00eb vetvetes jan\u00eb shtruar pothuajse n\u00eb fillet e zhvillimit t\u00eb shkenc\u00ebs s\u00eb psikologjis\u00eb ose edhe m\u00eb her\u00ebt. Nd\u00ebrkaq, p\u00ebrball\u00eb dinamik\u00ebs jet\u00ebsore, jo pak studiues e kan\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme q\u00eb njeriu ta njoh\u00eb veteveten, pra t\u00eb merret m\u00eb shum\u00eb me vetveten. Bazuar n\u00eb ritmin e jet\u00ebs moderne, kjo nga shum\u00eb kush nuk duket e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u percpetuar, kurse duhet t\u00eb shtrohet pyetja, n\u00ebse problemet e individit n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme kan\u00eb baz\u00eb n\u00eb mungesen e njohjes s\u00eb vetvetes?\u201d, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Hoxha.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNjeriu ka p\u00ebr detyr\u00eb ta njoh\u00eb veten e ta k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, dhe n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk ia arrin k\u00ebsaj detyre, njeriu nuk mund te jet\u00eb human\u201d, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Erich From. P\u00ebr ta gjetur vetveten, mendoni p\u00ebr vetveten, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Sokrati. Fraza \u201cnjih vetveten\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb e gdhendur n\u00eb vendin e shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb orakullit n\u00eb Delfi, prej nga thuhet se Sokrati mori frym\u00ebzim. Abraham Linkolni, ish president i SHBA-ve thoshte se \u201dNe jetojm\u00eb mu n\u00eb mes t\u00eb alarmeve; shqet\u00ebsimi e mbulon t\u00eb ardhmen; ne presim nj\u00eb katastrof\u00eb t\u00eb re sa her\u00eb q\u00eb lexojm\u00eb gazet\u00ebn\u201d. Kjo val\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimesh duket se s\u00eb fundi ka p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb\u201d konstaton Hoxha m\u00eb tej n\u00eb intervist\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ai thot\u00eb se megjithat\u00eb, sot pothuajse m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb, ka interesim rreth k\u00ebsaj problematike, ka literatur\u00eb t\u00eb bollshme , ka qendra psikoterapeutike q\u00eb gjithashtu jan\u00eb ndihmes\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar m\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb problem.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNjohja relative e vetvetes do t\u00eb thot\u00eb gatishm\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar situatat. Ne zhvillohemi individualisht dhe duhet t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u2019i pranojm\u00eb gabimet, ta vler\u00ebsojm\u00eb vetveten dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrim hapa t\u00eb m\u00ebtejsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimin e vetvetes, t\u00eb kemi durim dhe p\u00ebrkushtim, e krejt kjo ka nj\u00eb element p\u00ebrbashkues: Njohjen m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb vetevetes, mund\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe kapacitetet individuale q\u00eb i posedon gjithsecili prej nesh, t\u2019i shfryt\u00ebzojm\u00eb ato dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushim detyrimet q\u00eb ia p\u00ebrcaktojm\u00eb vetvetes. Por duhet gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb me vetveten ton\u00eb,\u201d thot\u00eb m\u00eb tutje, Hoxha.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrgatiti: Jehona Agushi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cN\u00ebse krenaria jote \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe se zemra jote dhe egoja m\u00eb e madhe se koka jote, at\u00ebher\u00eb rritu, sepse mund t\u00eb ngelesh vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn\u201d Mosnjohja e vetvetes p\u00ebrcillet me nj\u00eb doz\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb egoizmi, \u00e7doher\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se si ka mund\u00ebsi, p\u00ebrse k\u00ebshtu, \u00e7far\u00eb kam un\u00eb, si dhe kur ishte hera [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18594,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,21],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Njihe vet\u00ebveten! 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