{"id":17852,"date":"2019-10-05T22:06:37","date_gmt":"2019-10-05T20:06:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=17852"},"modified":"2019-10-05T22:06:37","modified_gmt":"2019-10-05T20:06:37","slug":"ndonjehere-dashuri-do-te-thote-edhe-te-heqesh-dore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=17852","title":{"rendered":"Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb dashuri do t\u00eb thot\u00eb edhe t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh dor\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Je lodhur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebr vete dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb ka kushtuar v\u00ebmendjen q\u00eb meritoje? Je ndjer\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhe ke k\u00ebrkuar dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ia ka ndjer\u00eb shum\u00eb se si ndiheshe ti?<span id=\"more-7856\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Je shqet\u00ebsuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb aq shum\u00eb, saq\u00eb ke kaluar edhe net\u00eb pa gjum\u00eb duke qar\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk shqet\u00ebsohej p\u00ebr dhimbjen t\u00ebnde? T\u00eb ka ndodhur t\u00eb kuptosh se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb dashuri me dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb asgj\u00eb mbrapsht?<\/p>\n<p>Je ndjer\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb sikur kraharori po t\u00eb shp\u00ebrthente, sikur lot\u00ebt po t\u00eb mblidheshin n\u00eb fyt, sikur z\u00ebri po t\u00eb shuhej, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb dikush q\u00eb doje t\u00eb kishte zhg\u00ebnjy\u00ebr?<\/p>\n<p>Dua t\u00eb ta them me gjith\u00eb sigurin\u00eb e bot\u00ebs se n\u00eb dashuri nuk duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebsh, kur di\u00e7ka nuk ka m\u00eb kuptim. T\u00eb duash do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb largohesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos i b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n<p>Dashuri do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebzohesh p\u00ebrpara se gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb humbasin kuptimin e tyre. Me dashuri nuk n\u00ebnkuptohet egoizmi, por pranimi kur gj\u00ebrat marrin nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr drejtim\u00a0 dhe t\u00eb kuptuarit se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti kur duhet t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrim rrug\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Dashuri nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mendosh se fundi i nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje \u00ebsht\u00eb fundi i dashuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ti duhet t\u00eb kuptosh se \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ke kaluar, ka pasur vler\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur. Mos u pendo p\u00ebr momentet q\u00eb ke kaluar dhe as p\u00ebr momentet q\u00eb ke shk\u00ebmbyer me nj\u00eb person. N\u00eb momentet e tyre, ato t\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe kjo ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n<p>Vet\u00ebm pasi t\u00eb pranosh k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, mund t\u00eb kuptosh se \u00e7do fund ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rikthim t\u00eb ri dhe se ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb t\u2019ia nisim nga e para.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria ajo ku dikush jep gjith\u00e7ka dhe personi tjet\u00ebr nuk jep gj\u00eb nga vetja. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria ajo ku dikush mezi pret ta ket\u00eb pran\u00eb personin tjet\u00ebr, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ky person nuk b\u00ebn as hapin m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl p\u00ebr t\u2019u afruar e p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkurtuar distanc\u00ebn mes t\u00eb dyve.<\/p>\n<p>Por, dashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh veten se sa i\/e papjekur je dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar. Dashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb kur je larguar nga dikush dhe nuk je penduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn me t\u00eb, por i uron me gjith\u00eb shpirt suksese dhe lumturi n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrish falenderimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn me dik\u00eb, edhe pse ai\/ajo mund t\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb l\u00ebnduar shum\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Si p\u00ebrfundim, dashuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebsh p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb meriton, por t\u00eb largohesh pik\u00ebrisht nga p\u00ebrsona t\u00eb till\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ia vlejn\u00eb! \/Bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Je lodhur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebr vete dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb ka kushtuar v\u00ebmendjen q\u00eb meritoje? Je ndjer\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhe ke k\u00ebrkuar dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ia ka ndjer\u00eb shum\u00eb se si ndiheshe ti? 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