{"id":17741,"date":"2019-10-03T21:30:53","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T19:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=17741"},"modified":"2019-10-03T21:30:53","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T19:30:53","slug":"femrat-e-forta-sillen-ndryshe-ja-arsyet-perse-bejne-keshtu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=17741","title":{"rendered":"Femrat e forta sillen ndryshe! Ja arsyet p\u00ebrse b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cUn\u00eb besoj tek femrat e forta. Un\u00eb besoj tek femra q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e aft\u00eb t\u00eb ngrej\u00eb krye p\u00ebr veten e saj. Un\u00eb besoj tek femra q\u00eb nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb varet nga i shoqi i saj.<span id=\"more-7558\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb besoj se n\u00ebse ke probleme, si nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr ti ia del me to, nuk luan rolin e viktim\u00ebs dhe as ia hedh dikujt fajin p\u00ebr problemet e saj. Ti lufton dhe ia del. Ti e p\u00ebrballon bot\u00ebn me kok\u00ebn lart dhe e mban universin n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde\u201d.\u00a0 C. JoyBell C.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7do fem\u00ebr e fort\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb e vetme, pa pasur shum\u00eb duar t\u00eb zgjatura p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb drejt saj. Femrat e forta jan\u00eb guximtare, t\u00eb bukura dhe nuk ndalen p\u00ebrpara sfidave t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Disa nga arsyet se pse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tyre nuk rrjedhin si gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjerat, jan\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>Ato nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje p\u00ebr t\u2019i shp\u00ebtuar. Femrat e forta kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar q\u00eb t\u00eb vogla se p\u00ebr t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb vetme dhe t\u2019i arrijn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Femrat e forta e din\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb duan. Ato nuk e shpenzojn\u00eb koh\u00ebn n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb kota, t\u00eb cilave u dihet data e skadenc\u00ebs. Gjithashtu, ato largohen sa m\u00eb par\u00eb edhe nga marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet toksike.<\/p>\n<p>Femrat e forta i shohin marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet si nj\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje e barabart\u00eb mes dy personave. Ato nuk presin q\u00eb personi q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb krah\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr to. P\u00ebrkundrazi, i thon\u00eb atij t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb vendin e tij dhe vet\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u2019i arrijn\u00eb vet\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb duan n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>E din\u00eb se si t\u2019i p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb emocionet e tyre. Femrat e forta edhe p\u00ebrball\u00eb emocioneve t\u00eb forta, e din\u00eb se si ta mbajn\u00eb veten dhe t\u2019i p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb ato n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e duhur.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk i tremben konflikteve. N\u00ebse di\u00e7ka ndodh midis saj dhe bashk\u00ebshortit t\u00eb saj, ajo nuk heziton p\u00ebr ta kthyer at\u00eb gj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb debat t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb me q\u00ebllim zgjidhjen e mosmarr\u00ebveshjeve mes t\u00eb dyve.<\/p>\n<p>E shohin marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien si nj\u00eb skuad\u00ebr. Edhe p\u00ebr to jeta ka rezervuar probleme dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, por n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift ato p\u00ebrpiqen q\u00eb problemet t\u2019i zgjidhin bashk\u00eb, sepse p\u00ebr to lidhja apo martesa jan\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb skuadre ku t\u00eb dy personat duhet ta ndihmojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin q\u00eb lidhja t\u00eb ec\u00eb p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk b\u00ebhen leht\u00eb xheloze. N\u00ebse ke arritur t\u00eb fitosh besimin e nj\u00eb femre t\u00eb fort\u00eb, mos b\u00ebj gj\u00ebra t\u00eb nxituara p\u00ebr ta humbur at\u00eb, sepse nuk ke p\u00ebr rifituar leht\u00eb besimin e saj.<\/p>\n<p>Ato nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb di\u00e7kaje t\u00eb zakonshme. Femrat e forta nuk po k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb ta duan, por dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb. Ato duan shpirtin binjak, asnj\u00eb m\u00eb pak se at\u00eb, sepse e din\u00eb q\u00eb meritojn\u00eb dik\u00eb me vler\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Femrat e forta largohen nga negativiteti. Ato t\u00ebrhiqen nga ndjenjat pozitive, pasi kan\u00eb kaluar plot ngjarje t\u00eb trishta n\u00eb jet\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat i kan\u00eb forcuar. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse nuk duan nj\u00eb arsye m\u00eb tep\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb pre e mendimeve negative, por p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb rrethohen nga njer\u00ebz pozitiv\u00eb q\u00eb u japin shpres\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n<p>Ato kan\u00eb synimet dhe \u00ebndrrat e tyre. Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e fort\u00eb nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mashkull q\u00eb t\u2019i ushqej\u00eb, apo t\u2019i udh\u00ebzoj\u00eb lidhur me drejtimin q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb marrin n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ajo e di shum\u00eb mir\u00eb se ku duhet t\u00eb mb\u00ebrrij\u00eb dhe e llogarit se \u00e7far\u00eb rruge duhet t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur atje dhe do q\u00eb edhe partneri i saj t\u00eb ket\u00eb jet\u00ebn, synimet dhe \u00ebndrrat e veta. Me pak fjal\u00eb, t\u00eb jet\u00eb i pavarur.\/bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cUn\u00eb besoj tek femrat e forta. 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