{"id":17692,"date":"2019-10-02T21:04:39","date_gmt":"2019-10-02T19:04:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=17692"},"modified":"2019-10-02T21:04:39","modified_gmt":"2019-10-02T19:04:39","slug":"kurre-mos-e-humb-e-veten-duke-u-mundur-ti-kenaqesh-te-tjeret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=17692","title":{"rendered":"Kurr\u00eb mos e humb e veten duke u mundur t\u2019i k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un\u00eb jam p\u00ebrkufizimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb i nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pjes\u00eb e imja t\u2019i ndihmoja t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Jo se \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e keqe, por s\u2019mund t\u00eb them as q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb e mundshme.<span id=\"more-11183\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>E z\u00ebm\u00eb se ti je personi A. Je nj\u00eb person i lumtur dhe d\u00ebshiron t\u2019i dhurosh gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Pastaj njeh nj\u00eb person B q\u00eb nuk e p\u00eblqen di\u00e7ka tek ty, ndaj ti e ndryshon at\u00eb gj\u00eb tek vetja q\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00eblqesh edhe personit B. M\u00eb von\u00eb hyn n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde nj\u00eb person C q\u00eb s\u00ebrish nuk p\u00eblqen di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr tek ti, ndaj ti detyrohesh t\u00eb ndryshosh s\u00ebrish, derisa personi C t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqet.<\/p>\n<p>Ty kjo gj\u00eb t\u00eb duket shum\u00eb e mir\u00eb, sepse k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve t\u00eb jep edhe ty k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Mir\u00ebpo kjo do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb me gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb do t\u00eb takosh n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, si nj\u00eb cik\u00ebl pa fund.<\/p>\n<p>Pastaj\u00a0 nj\u00eb dit\u00eb mbetesh vet\u00ebm n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe e sheh veten n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb, por kush po t\u00eb sheh mbrapsht? Ti je shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt duan t\u00eb shohin tek ty. Ti ke dh\u00ebn\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb nga vetja, saq\u00eb ke nisur t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh at\u00eb q\u00eb ishe n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb k\u00ebtij procesi.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar t\u2019i ndihmosh njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb t\u00eb interesojn\u00eb, por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ndryshosh at\u00eb q\u00eb je p\u00ebr t\u2019i k\u00ebnaqur ata. As ata vet\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshosh. Kush t\u00eb do, t\u00eb do ashtu si\u00e7 je. Un\u00eb dua q\u00eb ti ta m\u00ebsosh mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fjali : \u201cNuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar t\u00eb thuash \u2018Jo\u2019\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Thuaji \u201cjo\u201d gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb. Thuaji \u201cjo\u201d njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb shum\u00eb prej teje pa nj\u00eb arsye. Thuaji \u201cjo\u201d njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshosh pa arsye, thjesht q\u00eb ata t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqen. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, mos harro t\u2019u thuash \u201cpo\u201d njer\u00ebzve dhe aktiviteteve q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh mir\u00eb. Thuaji \u201cpo\u201d gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Thuaji \u201cpo\u201d vetvetes.<\/p>\n<p>Do t\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb do t\u00eb gjykojn\u00eb, ofendojn\u00eb, apo do t\u00eb p\u00ebrbuzin. Do t\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk do ta p\u00eblqejn\u00eb sjelljen t\u00ebnde, apo m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si je veshur. Kjo gj\u00eb u p\u00ebrket atyre. Ti nuk ke se si ta ndryshosh m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb shohin, pa e ndryshuar veten n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim.<\/p>\n<p>Vish \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duket ty e bukur, thuaji shakat\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb thuash dhe jetoje jet\u00ebn si t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb. B\u00ebj at\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebn zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb rrah\u00eb fort dhe buz\u00ebqeshjen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb rritet akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo jet\u00eb t\u00eb jepet vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb. Mos e shpenzo duke plot\u00ebsuar nevojat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Un\u00eb ta siguroj se personat q\u00eb kan\u00eb vler\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, do t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb af\u00ebr dhe do t\u00eb t\u00eb duan akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb, n\u00ebse ti q\u00ebndron vetvetja. \/Bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Un\u00eb jam p\u00ebrkufizimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb i nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pjes\u00eb e imja t\u2019i ndihmoja t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Jo se \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e keqe, por s\u2019mund t\u00eb them as q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb e mundshme. E z\u00ebm\u00eb se ti je personi A. 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