Ka disa gj\u00ebra q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u2019i thoni n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebto fraza kan\u00eb nj\u00eb fuqi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb: ato zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e lindur p\u00ebr t\u2019ju b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb dukeni keq edhe kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta.<\/p>\n
Por ka m\u00eb keq, nuk mund t\u00eb ktheheni pas, nj\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00eb i keni th\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n Shpesh, komentet delikate \u2013 ato q\u00eb na bien si t\u00eb paaft\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pasigurt \u2013 b\u00ebjn\u00eb d\u00ebmin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh.<\/p>\n Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se sa shum\u00eb talent keni ose objektivat q\u00eb keni arritur, ka disa shprehje q\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si njer\u00ebzit ju shohin dhe mund t\u2019ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb dukeni keq, nj\u00ebher\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb.<\/p>\n 1. \u201cK\u00ebshtu e kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Ndryshimi q\u00eb sjell teknologjia po ndodh kaq shpejt sa edhe nj\u00eb praktik\u00eb gjasht\u00eb mujore mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e vjet\u00ebruar. Duke th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cNe gjithmon\u00eb e kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu\u201d, jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb dukesh dembel, dhe rezistent ndaj ndryshimit, por do e b\u00ebj\u00eb shefin q\u00eb t\u2019ju pyes\u00eb, pse nuk u p\u00ebrpoq\u00ebt t\u2019i p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsonit gj\u00ebrat vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb vazhdoni t\u2019i b\u00ebni gj\u00ebrat ashtu si\u00e7 i keni b\u00ebr\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb, ka patjet\u00ebr nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n 2. \u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji im\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb ide e mir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shkarkosh fajin. Jini p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs. N\u00ebse keni pasur nj\u00eb rol \u2013 sado t\u00eb vog\u00ebl \u2013 n\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb shkoi keq, pranojeni at\u00eb. P\u00ebrndryshe, jepni nj\u00eb shpjegim t\u00eb paansh\u00ebm dhe objektiv t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb ndodhi.<\/p>\n Zot\u00ebrojini faktet, dhe lini shefni dhe koleg\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u00eb konkludojn\u00eb se kush duhet t\u00eb faj\u00ebsohet. Momenti q\u00eb filloni t\u00eb tregoni me gisht, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht momenti kur njer\u00ebzit fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb shohin ty si dikush q\u00eb nuk merr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr veprimet e veta.<\/p>\n Dhe kjo i b\u00ebn nervoz\u00eb. Dikush madje do t\u00eb shmang\u00eb pun\u00ebn me ju, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt do t\u2019ju sulmojn\u00eb q\u00ebn\u00eb fillim e do ju faj\u00ebsojn\u00eb, kur di\u00e7ka shkon keq.<\/p>\n 3. \u201cNuk mundem\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cbsht\u00eb shprehja simot\u00ebr e \u201cnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji im\u201d. Njer\u00ebzve nuk u p\u00eblqen ta d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb t\u2019u thuhet, sepse mendojn\u00eb se kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cNuk dua ta b\u00ebj\u201d. Kur thoni \u201cNuk mundem\u201d ju tregoni se nuk jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebni at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme, p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar nj\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka, sepse ju mungon aft\u00ebsia q\u00eb ju nevojitet, duhet t\u00eb ofroni nj\u00eb zgjidhje alternative. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb thoni se \u00e7far\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni, tregoni se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni. P\u00ebr shembull, mos thuaj, \u201cUn\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj deri von\u00eb sonte,\u201d por: \u201cMund t\u00eb ngrihem her\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, a mund ta b\u00ebj?\u201d N\u00eb vend t\u00eb: \u201cNuk mund t\u2019i b\u00ebj k\u00ebto llogaritje,\u201d mund t\u00eb thuash, \u201cUn\u00eb ende nuk e di se si ta b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj analize. A ka dikush q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ma tregoj\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ta b\u00ebj at\u00eb vet\u00eb her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr?\u201d<\/p>\n 4. \u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Gjithkush e di se jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e padrejt\u00eb. Duke th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb\u201d ju lini t\u00eb kuptohet se besoni se jeta duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e drejt\u00eb, e k\u00ebshtu shfaqeni t\u00eb papjekur dhe naiv\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk doni t\u00eb dilni keq, ju duhet t\u00eb mbani mend faktet, t\u00eb jeni bashk\u00ebpunues dhe t\u00eb lini jasht\u00eb interpretimin tuaj.<\/p>\n P\u00ebr shembull, mund t\u00eb thuash, \u201cVura re se ti e caktove An\u00ebn n\u00eb projektin q\u00eb po shpresoja t\u00eb merrja un\u00eb. A ju vjen keq t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni se \u00e7far\u00eb ju shtyu drejt k\u00ebsaj zgjedhje? Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb dija p\u00ebrse mendove se nuk isha e p\u00ebrshtatshme, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mund t\u00eb punoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar ato aft\u00ebsi\u201d.<\/p>\n 5. \u201cNuk parashikohet n\u00eb p\u00ebrshkrimin tim t\u00eb pun\u00ebs\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo fraz\u00eb, shpesh sarkastike, b\u00ebn t\u00eb mendohet se jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebni vet\u00ebm minimumin e domosdosh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar t\u00eb fitoni nj\u00eb pag\u00eb, gj\u00eb kjo negative n\u00ebse doni sigurin\u00eb e pun\u00ebs.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse shefi juaj ju k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pap\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr pozicionin tuaj (gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb e pap\u00ebrshtatshme n\u00eb nivelin moral apo etik), l\u00ebvizja fituese \u00ebsht\u00eb ta kryeni k\u00ebt\u00eb detyr\u00eb me entuziaz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n M\u00eb von\u00eb, b\u00ebni nj\u00eb takim me shefin p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar rolin tuaj n\u00eb organizat\u00eb dhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrdit\u00ebsuar p\u00ebrshkrimin e pun\u00ebs. Duke b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ju do t\u00eb shfaqeni t\u00eb hapur. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, kjo do t\u2019ju lejoj\u00eb ju dhe shefin tuaj t\u00eb zhvilloni nj\u00eb kuptim afatgjat\u00eb t\u00eb detyrave q\u00eb duhet, dhe nuk duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni.<\/p>\n 6. \u201cNdoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb ide idiote \/ \u2026 po b\u00ebj nj\u00eb pyetje budallaqe\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n K\u00ebto shprehje tep\u00ebr pasive d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb kredibilitetin tuaj. Edhe n\u00ebse k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb ndjekin nj\u00eb ide t\u00eb madhe, ato b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb duket se nuk jeni t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr veten, gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebn besimin e bashk\u00ebbiseduesit t\u00ebnd t\u00eb l\u00ebkundet.<\/p>\n Mos jini kritiku m\u00eb i keq i vetes. N\u00ebse ju vet\u00eb nuk besoni n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb thoni, askush tjet\u00ebr nuk do besoj\u00eb. Dhe, n\u00ebse nuk dini asgj\u00eb, thoni \u2018Un\u00eb nuk e kam k\u00ebt\u00eb informacion tani, por do t\u00eb p\u00ebrdit\u00ebsohem dhe t\u2019ju njoftoj\u2019.<\/p>\n 7. \u201cDo t\u00eb provoj\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Ashtu si fjala \u201cUn\u00eb mendoj\u201d, shprehja \u201cUn\u00eb do t\u00eb provoj\u201d ting\u00ebllon hezituese dhe ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb dukeni sikur nuk i besoni aft\u00ebsis\u00eb tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer detyr\u00ebn e caktuar. Merrni kontrollin e plot\u00eb t\u00eb shanseve tuaja. N\u00ebse ju k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka, merrni nj\u00eb angazhim ose ofroni nj\u00eb alternativ\u00eb, por mos thoni se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni, pasi lini t\u00eb kuptohet q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb jeni serioz p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n 8. \u201cDo t\u00eb duhet vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb minut\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00ebse thoni q\u00eb di\u00e7ka do t\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb minut\u00eb, do t\u00eb d\u00ebmtoni aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja dhe do t\u00eb krijoni p\u00ebrshtypjen se ju b\u00ebni detyrat me ngut. N\u00ebse e plot\u00ebsoni detyr\u00ebn tuaj n\u00eb 60 sekonda n\u00eb kuptimin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs, mos ngurroni t\u00eb thoni se nuk do t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb shum\u00eb, por mos jepni iden\u00eb se kjo detyr\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb para koh\u00ebs q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme.<\/p>\n 9. \u201cE urrej k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Gj\u00ebja e fundit q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit duan t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person i cili ankohet se sa e urren pun\u00ebn e vet. Ky q\u00ebndrim ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb dukeni si nj\u00eb person negativ dhe ul moralin e grupit. Udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsit jan\u00eb t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb n\u00eb identifikimin e tipave n\u00eb grup, q\u00eb demoralizojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, dhe ata gjithashtu e din\u00eb se ka tipa entuziast\u00eb q\u00eb presin prapa qoshes.<\/p>\n 10. \u201cAi atje \u00ebsht\u00eb dembel \/ i paaft\u00eb \/ idiot\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Nuk ka asnj\u00eb avantazh kur b\u00ebni nj\u00eb koment t\u00eb keq p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koleg. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se v\u00ebzhgimi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i sakt\u00eb, tashm\u00eb do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dukje. N\u00ebse komenti juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i pasakt\u00eb, ju do t\u00eb dukeni si idiot.<\/p>\n N\u00eb \u00e7do vend pune do t\u00eb ket\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb vrazhd\u00eb apo t\u00eb paaft\u00eb, dhe ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e din\u00eb se kush jan\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk keni fuqi t\u2019i ndihmoni t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohen, ose t\u00eb shkarkohen, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk fitoni asgj\u00eb duke folur hapur p\u00ebr paaft\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre. Pandjeshm\u00ebri juaj do t\u00eb shtoj\u00eb negativitetin e koleg\u00ebve ndaj jush. \/Bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ka disa gj\u00ebra q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u2019i thoni n\u00eb pun\u00eb. K\u00ebto fraza kan\u00eb nj\u00eb fuqi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb: ato zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e lindur p\u00ebr t\u2019ju b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb dukeni keq edhe kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta. Por ka m\u00eb keq, nuk mund t\u00eb ktheheni pas, nj\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00eb i keni th\u00ebn\u00eb. Shpesh, komentet delikate \u2013 ato q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17305,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,21],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n