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Mos e nxirrni jasht\u00eb p\u00ebrbind\u00ebshin q\u00eb ndodhet brenda jush. Pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb puthje, seks p\u00ebr nj\u00eb nat\u00eb apo nj\u00eb lidhje paralele q\u00eb ka zgjatur me muaj t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb, t\u00eb tradhtohesh \u00ebsht\u00eb e dhimbshme. Por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb lidhja juaj nuk ia vlen t\u00eb shp\u00ebtohet. Edhe pse familjar\u00eb dhe miq do t\u2019iu thon\u00eb t\u00eb hiqni dor\u00eb, vendimi p\u00ebrfundimtar ju takon vet\u00ebm juve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u201cMonogamia nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb, madje p\u00ebr disa njer\u00ebz \u00ebsht\u00eb pak m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kam patur mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb punoj, kan\u00eb zhvilluar nj\u00eb lidhje m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb pas tradhtis\u00eb\u201d, pohon terapistja e \u00e7ifteve Irina Firstein.<\/p>\n

N\u00ebse ndodheni n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme dhe k\u00ebrkoni t\u00eb rind\u00ebrtoni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me partnerin tuaj, ja cilat jan\u00eb 6 sjellje q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i shmangni.<\/p>\n

Mos e injoro tradhtin\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mos u sillni sikur asgj\u00eb nuk ka ndodhur, n\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb zbuloni problemet q\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00eb thelb t\u00eb lidhjes tuaj dhe q\u00eb e kan\u00eb \u00e7uar partnerin drejt tradhtis\u00eb.<\/p>\n

\u201cKa sigurisht raste kur njer\u00ebzit tradhtojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr seks, por n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe, tradhtia vjen si p\u00ebrpjekje e partnerit p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb n\u00eb pah problemet e lidhjes.\u201d- shpjegon Firstein.<\/p>\n

Duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u2019i kuptoni k\u00ebto probleme, gjasat q\u00eb nj\u00eb tradhti tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb pakta. Gj\u00ebrat nuk duhet t\u00eb kthehen si m\u00eb par\u00eb, punoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb re, t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrmbush\u00ebse p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy.<\/p>\n

Mos faj\u00ebso veten<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji yt pse partneri nuk diti t\u00eb komunikoj\u00eb nevojat e tij. Nuk je p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse, nuk e ke \u2018merituar\u2019 di\u00e7ka t\u00eb till\u00eb, por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh m\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Mos merr hak<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mund t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr momentin, por nuk do t\u00eb zgjidh\u00eb asgj\u00eb. Gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunoni q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni s\u00ebrish \u2018n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn faqe\u2019.<\/p>\n

Mos p\u00ebrmendni tradhtin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar debatet<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fakti q\u00eb ai ju ka tradhtuar, nuk ju jep t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta p\u00ebrdorni si kart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga debatet. \u201cEpo t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn un\u00eb nuk t\u00eb kam tradhtuar!\u201d, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb \u00e7do fjalie, nuk do t\u00eb zgjidhte asgj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Mos e p\u00ebrshpejto \u2018procesin e sh\u00ebrimit\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n

Merr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb duhet p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrtypur at\u00eb q\u00eb ka ndodhur dhe b\u00ebja t\u00eb ditur partnerit t\u00ebnd. Do t\u00eb b\u00ebni shum\u00eb pyetje dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb normale, do t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat p\u00ebrgjigje disa her\u00eb, por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjitha pjes\u00eb e procesit t\u00eb sh\u00ebrimit. N\u00ebse partneri juaj lodhet nga kjo situat\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb mbase ka ardhur koha t\u2019i jepni fund.<\/p>\n

Mos u largoni nga ndihma e profesionist\u00ebve<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte i drejtohen terapist\u00ebve pasi ka ndodhur \u2018gj\u00ebma\u2019, kur fare mir\u00eb mund ta parandalonin duke shkuar rregullisht tek nj\u00eb specialist.<\/p>\n

\u201cMund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e frikshme t\u00eb analizosh lidhjen t\u00ebnde p\u00ebrball\u00eb partnerit, por nj\u00eb terapist mund t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjeni gjuh\u00ebn e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Mos kini frik\u00eb t\u2019i drejtoheni nj\u00eb profesionisti, ata kan\u00eb par\u00eb dhe d\u00ebgjuar gjith\u00e7ka,\u201d p\u00ebrfundoi Firstein. \/Telegrafi.com\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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