{"id":16864,"date":"2019-09-16T21:39:47","date_gmt":"2019-09-16T19:39:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=16864"},"modified":"2019-09-16T21:39:47","modified_gmt":"2019-09-16T19:39:47","slug":"para-se-ti-japesh-fund-mendoji-keto-gjera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=16864","title":{"rendered":"Para se ti jap\u00ebsh fund, mendoji k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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D\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund me dik\u00eb p\u00ebr arsye nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet, vjen n\u00eb \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb flasim n\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. Ne u japim njer\u00ebzve ato q\u00eb duam, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb atyre q\u00eb ata duan.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse ti po k\u00ebrkon p\u00ebr koh\u00eb, n\u00ebse po k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb partneri\/ja jote t\u00eb t\u00eb kushtoj\u00eb v\u00ebmendje, mendo pak edhe p\u00ebr aspektet e tjera, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 koh\u00ebs. Mendo se sa her\u00eb t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur personi tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, me udh\u00ebtime, me dhurata, m\u00eb festa p\u00ebrvjetoresh.<\/p>\n

Ndoshta ti k\u00ebrkon gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb partneri\/ja jote t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb se sa t\u00eb do, t\u00eb t\u00eb telefonoj\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Ndoshta ti k\u00ebrkon n\u00eb \u00e7do sekond\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen e tij\/saj.<\/p>\n

Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb arsye e fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund me dik\u00eb q\u00eb do. Si\u00e7 e shpreha m\u00eb lart, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne flasim gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. P\u00ebr mua dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj t\u00eb lumtur personin q\u00eb dua me udh\u00ebtime, me dhurata.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr ty dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb koha q\u00eb t\u00eb kushton dikush. Mir\u00ebpo kur gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb tilla shprehen vet\u00ebm me vepra e jo me fjal\u00eb, p\u00ebrfundohet duke u keqkuptuar gjith\u00e7ka. Dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mes keqkuptimesh, mendohet gj\u00ebra t\u00eb paqena, si tradh\u00ebtia, apo mungesa e dashuris\u00eb. Ndaj, mos u nxitoni n\u00eb veprimet tuaja.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrpiquni ta kuptoni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe kjo gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb arrihet vet\u00ebm duke folur. Komunikoni. Komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi i shp\u00ebtimit t\u00eb lidhjes, fejes\u00ebs, apo martes\u00ebs suaj.<\/p>\n

Un\u00eb e kuptoj se ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh si pre dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, t\u00eb mbash mbi supe pesh\u00ebn e nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje t\u00eb lodhur. Nuk t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj t\u00eb b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Nuk t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj t\u00eb jesh ti ai\/ajo q\u00eb do t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb kot\u00eb p\u00ebr hat\u00ebr t\u00eb di\u00e7kaje tjet\u00ebr (shpesh her\u00eb p\u00ebr hat\u00ebr t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve). Kur di\u00e7ka ka p\u00ebrfunduar dhe gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb po t\u00eb fal, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebrzitja dhe konsumimi i vetes, nuk ia vlen t\u00eb vazhdohet m\u00eb tej.<\/p>\n

Por un\u00eb dua t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj t\u00eb reflektosh p\u00ebr aspektin tjet\u00ebr, at\u00eb t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshohen me pak p\u00ebrpjekje nga t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt. Flisni dhe kuptojeni se \u00e7far\u00eb mendon me dashuri partneri\/ja juaj.<\/p>\n

Ndoshta gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb po ju ndodh, po ju ndodh sepse nuk e dini se \u00e7far\u00eb mendon partneri\/ja juaj. Ndaj flisni, komunikoni. Njihuni mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebrit-tjetrin dhe shp\u00ebtojeni dashurin\u00eb tuaj. Ndarja \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb. Bashkimi me nj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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