{"id":16551,"date":"2019-09-10T21:38:28","date_gmt":"2019-09-10T19:38:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=16551"},"modified":"2019-09-10T21:38:28","modified_gmt":"2019-09-10T19:38:28","slug":"12-cilesite-e-nje-karakteri-te-paharrueshem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=16551","title":{"rendered":"12 cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e nj\u00eb karakteri t\u00eb paharruesh\u00ebm"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cNjer\u00ebzit do t\u00eb harrojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb keni th\u00ebn\u00eb. Njer\u00ebzit do t\u00eb harrojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb. Por njer\u00ebzit kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb harrojn\u00eb se si i keni b\u00ebr\u00eb ata t\u00eb ndihen<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Maya Angelou<\/span><\/p>\n

Ju keni b\u00ebr\u00eb aq shum\u00eb p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn q\u00eb thjesht t\u00eb merrni dioksid karboni dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapni oksigjenin e past\u00ebr rreth jush.<\/p>\n

Grat\u00eb si ju ekzistojn\u00eb, gra q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme, t\u00eb guximshme, t\u00eb bukura \u2026 gra q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb harrohen. Bota nuk ka qen\u00eb e drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr ju. Ndoshta ju jeni ende t\u00eb vetmuara.<\/p>\n

Njer\u00ebzit nuk kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb men\u00e7ur sa duhet p\u00ebr ta kuptuar vler\u00ebn tuaj. Ju ndoshta jeni t\u00eb lodhura nga r\u00ebnia n\u00eb dashuri me burrat dhe pastaj duke u djegur me ta, urreni t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dram\u00ebn, mbrapshtin\u00eb dhe shpifjen q\u00eb vijon pas k\u00ebtij zhg\u00ebnjimi.<\/p>\n

Keni fituar imunitet ndaj premtimeve t\u00eb rreme dhe g\u00ebnjeshtrave t\u00eb \u00ebmbla. Mund t\u00eb keni takuar mjaft njer\u00ebz, disa mediok\u00ebr, disa jasht\u00ebzakonisht krijues dhe disa pun\u00ebtor\u00eb. Por rezultati p\u00ebrfundimtar ka qen\u00eb i nj\u00ebjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ju mbet\u00ebt vet\u00ebm me kujtime t\u00eb shpikura.<\/p>\n

Ja karakteristikat e tipareve q\u00eb ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb kaq t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat kurr\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019ju harrojm\u00eb kurr\u00eb:<\/p>\n

Ju jeni e Ndjeshme<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju i kuptoni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt m\u00eb shum\u00eb se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne dhe nuk keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoni t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin problem p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb po p\u00ebrjeton personi tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Ju thjesht e kuptoni at\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i b\u00ebn njer\u00ebzit t\u2019ju hapin zemrat.<\/p>\n

Ju nuk e shprehni Dhimbjen<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju u mashtruat nga personi q\u00eb keni dashur dhe jeni ende duke e p\u00ebrjetuar at\u00eb traum\u00eb. Por shoqja juaj m\u00eb e mir\u00eb po martohet pas nj\u00eb muaji.<\/p>\n

Ju e dini se si \u00ebsht\u00eb duke vuajtur zemra juaj, por ju nuk keni nd\u00ebrmend ta shkat\u00ebrroni lumturin\u00eb e shoqes, por jeni atje duke marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb aktivisht n\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitjet e dasm\u00ebs nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb jeni duke e p\u00ebrjetuar vet\u00ebm dhimbjen.<\/p>\n

Ju jeni mish\u00ebrimi i Mir\u00ebsis\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shpirti m\u00eb i dashur gjendet tek ju. Kalimi i kufinjve tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb nevoj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e natyrshme p\u00ebr ju. Nevojat tuaja nuk marrin kurr\u00eb prioritet.<\/p>\n

S\u00eb pari, ju do t\u00eb ndihmoni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe pastaj ju do t\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebr veten. Ju jeni gjithmon\u00eb atje p\u00ebr ne dhe na mb\u00ebshtesni deri n\u00eb vet\u00ebmohim.<\/p>\n

Ju falni<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pa marr\u00eb parasysh se sa ju jan\u00eb l\u00ebnduar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ju ende besoni n\u00eb falje. Ju keni dh\u00ebn\u00eb shanse t\u00eb dyta p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit dhe ata ju tradhtuan p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.<\/p>\n

Megjithat\u00eb, kjo nuk ju pengoi t\u00eb falni nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr. Ju e dini se falja \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas ndjenjat negative.<\/p>\n

Ju jeni e pavarur<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pavar\u00ebsia juaj i inkurajon t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Partneri juaj nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetoj\u00eb pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj. Ju e fitoni vet\u00eb duke qen\u00eb vetvetja.<\/p>\n

Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb vareni nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Edhe n\u00ebse nuk dini si t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb pun\u00eb, p\u00ebrpiqeni ta m\u00ebsoni vet\u00eb. Ju jeni t\u00eb pavarura dhe unike.<\/p>\n

Ju jeni e zellshme<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju jeni duke shp\u00ebrthyer nga energjit\u00eb. P\u00ebr \u00e7do pun\u00eb pozitive, ne mund t\u00eb marrim mb\u00ebshtetjen tuaj t\u00eb plot\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb. Energjia jote p\u00ebrhap nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb pozitive q\u00eb nuk na l\u00eb shkas q\u00eb t\u2019ju ndihmojm\u00eb por thjesht t\u00eb japim m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

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Ju jeni e apasionuar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju jeni t\u00eb apasionuar p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb b\u00ebni. Qoft\u00eb duke zgjedhur sapunin e p\u00ebrsosur t\u00eb banj\u00ebs ose duke organizuar aktivitetin p\u00ebr mbledhjen e fondeve p\u00ebr t\u00eb pastreh\u00ebt, ju jeni jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuara dhe g\u00ebzoheni p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb b\u00ebni.<\/p>\n

Pasioni juaj na frym\u00ebzon.<\/p>\n

Dashuroni pa kushte<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni n\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb dashur apo jo. Ju jeni aq t\u00eb mbushur me dashuri p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ndaj dhe jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht personi duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb v\u00ebrtet shum\u00eb af\u00ebr jush p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb dashurin\u00eb tuaj.<\/p>\n

Ju i doni t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe shprehjet tuaja t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb i b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb ta ndjejn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb tuaj. Ju jeni gjithmon\u00eb aty dhe mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb doni.<\/p>\n

Ju jeni e mpreht\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju keni kaluar shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Dituria dhe men\u00e7uria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb stoli q\u00eb ju e mbani gjithnj\u00eb me vete. Njohurit\u00eb tuaja zgjidhin shum\u00eb komplikime n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n

Ju keni besim tek vetja dhe tek ne<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju jeni t\u00eb sigurta jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr veten, por edhe p\u00ebr ne, gjithashtu. Ndoshta p\u00ebr shkak se keni vuajtur kaq shum\u00eb trauma dhe keni qen\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb suksesshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i kap\u00ebrcyer ato, i njihni mir\u00eb forcat tuaja.<\/p>\n

Ju gjithashtu besoni se edhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne mund ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. Ju keni besim tek ne dhe ju e dini se ne jemi t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u2019i arrijm\u00eb gj\u00ebrat edhe pse ne vet\u00eb nuk jemi t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr veten ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Bukuria juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e brendshme<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju jeni t\u00eb bukur, jo p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb buz\u00ebkuqit q\u00eb vini, p\u00ebr veshjet q\u00eb vishni ose p\u00ebr at\u00eb penelin e zi q\u00eb vini \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Ju jeni t\u00eb bukura sepse jeni me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nj\u00eb shpirt i mir\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb thoni, ju e thoni me zem\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Ju keni nj\u00eb hijeshi e cila i fsheh t\u00eb gjitha ngjyrat e trukut. Hijeshia juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e admirojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ju jeni k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebse<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pa marr\u00eb parasysh se \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndodhur me ju, ju keni qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebse. Asgj\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019ju ndryshoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ju mund t\u00eb jeni l\u00ebnduar nj\u00eb milion her\u00eb, por kjo nuk ju provokoi q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndoni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ju keni ruajtur zgjuarsin\u00eb dhe moralin tuaj n\u00eb mes t\u00eb gjith\u00e7kaje. Asnj\u00eb stuhi nuk mund t\u2019ju rr\u00ebzoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ju jeni t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. Faleminderit q\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb grua kaq e mrekullueshme. Kur nata \u00ebsht\u00eb e err\u00ebt, ju shk\u00eblqeni si yll dhe drita juaj vazhdon t\u00eb shk\u00eblqej\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsin\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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