Mos tolero ask\u00ebnd t\u00eb t\u00eb trajtoj\u00eb sikur t\u00eb mos kishte asnj\u00eb vler\u00eb. Ti meriton \u00e7do gj\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme dhe meriton t\u00eb kesh pran\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, jo q\u00eb mezi do t\u00eb priste momentin e par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar. Vendose veten t\u00ebnde t\u00eb par\u00ebn n\u00eb \u00e7do moment dhe k\u00ebrkoji t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve t\u00eb t\u00eb respektojn\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk e b\u00ebjn\u00eb, largohu prej tyre pa e menduar dy her\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh dik\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh se sa shum\u00eb ke humbur n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn dhe se sa ndryshe do t\u00eb ishte, n\u00ebse nuk do t\u2019i merrje shum\u00eb p\u00ebr baz\u00eb mendimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Ka plag\u00eb q\u00eb nuk shfaqen n\u00eb trup, por pikojn\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr gjak se \u00e7do plag\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Dhuna emocionale \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq e d\u00ebmshme sa ajo fizike, ndoshta edhe m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Fakti q\u00eb dikush mund t\u00eb mos vendos\u00eb duart mbi ty, nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ti nuk je i dhunuar. Dhuna \u00ebsht\u00eb kontroll, munges\u00eb respekti dhe dhimbje e brendshme. Mos mendo se dhuna emocionale \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka normale, thjesht sepse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fizike. N\u00ebse ke frik\u00eb nga partneri yt, kur ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i inatosur; n\u00ebse ke frik\u00eb nga reagimi i tij po q\u00eb se i tregon munges\u00eb respekti, apo n\u00ebse ke frik\u00eb nga m\u00ebnyra se si ai do t\u00eb kthehet, n\u00ebse ti b\u00ebn di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e di se atij nuk i p\u00eblqen, at\u00ebher\u00eb dije se je n\u00ebn presionin e nj\u00eb dhune emocionale.<\/p>\n
Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ne duam t\u00eb na duan shum\u00eb fort, saq\u00eb nuk arrijm\u00eb dot ta kuptojm\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb kemi me personin tjet\u00ebr, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri. N\u00ebse plag\u00ebt e dhun\u00ebs emocionale do t\u00eb shkruheshin n\u00eb l\u00ebkur\u00eb, nj\u00eb person n\u00eb dhun\u00eb emocionale ndoshta nuk do ta njihnit m\u00eb. T\u00eb jesh vet\u00ebm mund t\u00eb t\u00eb frik\u00ebsoj\u00eb ty, por t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb keqe, do t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj\u00eb ty. Dhe mos e mendo se duke u larguar, nuk e do personin tjet\u00ebr. Absolutisht, jo. Duke u larguar ti tregon se ke nisur t\u00eb duash veten t\u00ebnde m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nga \u00e7do person tjet\u00ebr. \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndohesh duke u larguar, se sa t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj\u00eb dikush tjet\u00ebr duke e pasur pran\u00eb p\u00ebrdit\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mos tolero ask\u00ebnd t\u00eb t\u00eb trajtoj\u00eb sikur t\u00eb mos kishte asnj\u00eb vler\u00eb. Ti meriton \u00e7do gj\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme dhe meriton t\u00eb kesh pran\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, jo q\u00eb mezi do t\u00eb priste momentin e par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar. Vendose veten t\u00ebnde t\u00eb par\u00ebn n\u00eb \u00e7do moment dhe k\u00ebrkoji […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16432,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,21],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n