{"id":16086,"date":"2019-08-27T21:22:37","date_gmt":"2019-08-27T19:22:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=16086"},"modified":"2019-08-27T21:22:37","modified_gmt":"2019-08-27T19:22:37","slug":"shenjat-qe-tregojne-se-keni-mbivleresim-per-veten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=16086","title":{"rendered":"Shenjat q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se keni mbivler\u00ebsim p\u00ebr veten!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nuk e vrasin mendjen p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 vetes s\u00eb tyre. Ata p\u00ebrpiqen t\u2019i minimizojn\u00eb nevojat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe nxjerr\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00eb pah nevojat e tyre si m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmet.<span id=\"more-12822\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Nuk i d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. N\u00ebse nuk p\u00ebrfshihen edhe vet\u00eb n\u00eb diskutime, ata nuk harxhojn\u00eb as energji dhe as mund p\u00ebr t\u2019i d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p>Kan\u00eb komunikim jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e mbivler\u00ebsojn\u00eb veten, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb prirur t\u00eb sillen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme dhe \u00e7do kritike e marrin si ofendim personal.<\/p>\n<p>U mungon empatia p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. P\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit nar\u00e7ist\u00eb nuk ekziston askush tjet\u00ebr me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka vet\u00ebm vetja e tyre dhe gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt i shum\u00ebzojn\u00eb me zero.<\/p>\n<p>Flasin gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs p\u00ebr inteligjenc\u00ebn e tep\u00ebrt t\u00eb tyre, si dhe p\u00ebr karakterin e fort\u00eb q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se i karakterizon, edhe pse shum\u00eb persona mund t\u00eb mos bien dakord me ato cil\u00ebsi q\u00eb ata shprehin.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk k\u00ebnaqen asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. Asgj\u00eb nuk i k\u00ebnaq mjaftuesh\u00ebm, as fama, as lek\u00ebt, as fuqia. Ato nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb mjaftueshme p\u00ebr ta dhe e din\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, por nuk duan q\u00eb dikush t\u2019ia v\u00ebj\u00eb n\u00eb dukje.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u dukur sikur kan\u00eb vet\u00ebm ata t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb aktrojn\u00eb edhe si f\u00ebmij\u00eb dy vje\u00e7\u00eb q\u00eb duan t\u00eb ken\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, pasi ata nuk e durojn\u00eb dot t\u2019u thon\u00eb se nuk kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka t\u00eb caktuar.<\/p>\n<p>Tregojn\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrul\u00ebsi t\u00eb kot\u00eb. Mjafton q\u00eb ata t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb admirimin dhe mb\u00ebshtetjen e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimi q\u00eb ata k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb, sepse sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb ken\u00eb q\u00eb e mb\u00ebshtesin, aq m\u00eb t\u00eb larta do i ken\u00eb ata mund\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb: t\u00eb manipulojn\u00eb.\/bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nuk e vrasin mendjen p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 vetes s\u00eb tyre. Ata p\u00ebrpiqen t\u2019i minimizojn\u00eb nevojat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe nxjerr\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00eb pah nevojat e tyre si m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmet. Nuk i d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. 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