{"id":15892,"date":"2019-08-23T21:05:23","date_gmt":"2019-08-23T19:05:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=15892"},"modified":"2019-08-23T21:05:23","modified_gmt":"2019-08-23T19:05:23","slug":"femrat-ndahen-edhe-nga-meshkujt-qe-dashurojne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=15892","title":{"rendered":"Femrat ndahen edhe nga meshkujt q\u00eb dashurojn\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ekzistojn\u00eb disa arsye, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat femrat i l\u00ebn\u00eb partner\u00ebt e tyre, edhe pse vazhdojn\u00eb akoma t\u2019i duan. N\u00ebse ke arritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies t\u00ebnde ku nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh, t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh apo t\u00eb largohesh, k\u00ebshillohu me list\u00ebn e m\u00ebposhtme t\u00eb arsyeve se pse femrat vendosin t\u00eb largohen.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Nuk ke m\u00eb asgj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb duket e re tek personi tjet\u00ebr, por me forcimin e lidhjes, \u00e7dokush k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb gjej\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta tek ai\/ajo q\u00eb ka n\u00eb krah\u00eb. K\u00ebrkon t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh historit\u00eb e shkuara t\u00eb atij personi n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb historit\u00eb e s\u00eb ardhmes t\u2019i nd\u00ebrtoni bashk\u00eb. Por kur sheh se nuk ke asgj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt me t\u00eb, edhe interesi p\u00ebr ta takuar apo p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb fillon t\u00eb zbehet.<\/p>\n

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    1. Nuk \u201cflet\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      N\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi i mbijetes\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Kjo gj\u00eb nuk n\u00ebnkupton vet\u00ebm pyetjet e tipit: \u201cSi t\u00eb shkoi puna?\u201d, por edhe bisedat lidhur me ndjenjat q\u00eb keni t\u00eb dy.<\/p>\n

      N\u00ebse ajo q\u00eb ke p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb apo e keqe, s\u00ebrish mezi pret q\u00eb partneri yt t\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb. Kur kjo gj\u00eb nuk ndodh dhe bisedat tuaja pak\u00ebsohen, po ashtu ndodh edhe me ndjenjat q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n

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      1. Partneri yt \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb tep\u00ebr egoist<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Nuk mund t\u00eb konsiderohet egoiz\u00ebm, n\u00ebse mendon t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh prioritet vetes n\u00eb disa situata. Kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb totalisht realiz\u00ebm, \u00c7dokush do t\u00eb donte t\u00eb ishte i lumtur. Por ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, un\u00eb mendoj se k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb ne e \u00e7ojm\u00eb n\u00eb ekstrem.<\/p>\n

        N\u00ebse je person bujar, duhet t\u00eb tregosh edhe v\u00ebmendje ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, pasi ata mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb prej teje. Kjo gj\u00eb i b\u00ebn t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb quhen egoist\u00eb, p\u00ebrfitimi ndaj mir\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve p\u00ebr interesat e veta.<\/p>\n

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        1. Nuk e di se cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          N\u00ebse dikush t\u00eb g\u00ebnjen nj\u00eb her\u00eb, me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi ka p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb s\u00ebrish dhe kjo gj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr e k\u00ebndshme p\u00ebr t\u2019u kaluar. Shum\u00eb shpejt do e gjesh veten duke dyshuar lidhur me v\u00ebrtet\u00ebsin\u00eb e fjal\u00ebve q\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb partneri yt.<\/p>\n

          Pastaj mendon se sa e ndershme je treguar vet\u00eb dhe duke par\u00eb ndryshimet midis t\u00eb dyve, zgjedh t\u00eb largohesh, pasi sinqeriteti \u00ebsht\u00eb baza e nj\u00eb lidhjeje.<\/p>\n

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          1. P\u00ebrballesh me femra t\u00eb tjera<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht e tmerrshme. Sinqerisht, n\u00ebse partneri yt po t\u00eb krahason me femra t\u00eb tjera, qofshin k\u00ebto femra t\u00eb rast\u00ebsishme n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, shoqe n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, apo m\u00eb keq akoma, me ish t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn e tij, at\u00ebher\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb budalla q\u00eb nuk di t\u00eb t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb dhe b\u00ebn mir\u00eb t\u00eb largohesh prej tij.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

            Ekzistojn\u00eb disa arsye, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat femrat i l\u00ebn\u00eb partner\u00ebt e tyre, edhe pse vazhdojn\u00eb akoma t\u2019i duan. N\u00ebse ke arritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies t\u00ebnde ku nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh, t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh apo t\u00eb largohesh, k\u00ebshillohu me list\u00ebn e m\u00ebposhtme t\u00eb arsyeve se pse femrat vendosin t\u00eb largohen. 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