{"id":15370,"date":"2019-08-12T21:15:18","date_gmt":"2019-08-12T19:15:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=15370"},"modified":"2019-08-12T21:15:18","modified_gmt":"2019-08-12T19:15:18","slug":"grate-vleresojne-gjerat-e-vogla-ato-duhet-te-befasohen-cdo-dite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=15370","title":{"rendered":"Grat\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e vogla, ato duhet t\u00eb befasohen \u00e7do dit\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb e mahnitshme se si grat\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e vogla, a e keni v\u00ebn\u00eb re ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb? Nj\u00eb trajtim i dhuruar pas kthimit nga puna, nj\u00eb kompliment i papritur dhe fytyra e tyre ndizet me lumturi. Mashkulli\u00a0 zakonisht p\u00ebrqendrohet n\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, n\u00eb gjeste t\u00eb bujshme dhe befasuese, por grat\u00eb e duan magjin\u00eb e gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb vogla, ato q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ndryshimin.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"td-a-rec td-a-rec-id-content_inline \">\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb befasohen \u00e7do dit\u00eb, ata vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb bukurin\u00eb e gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb vogla<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kur isha f\u00ebmij\u00eb mora nj\u00eb let\u00ebr t\u00eb shkruar nga nj\u00eb mik i shkoll\u00ebs, nj\u00eb flet\u00eb e vog\u00ebl n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn m\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00ebn p\u00ebrshtypje komplimentet dhe fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb mbet\u00ebn n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn time. Aq shum\u00eb, saq\u00eb ende e ruaj me zili n\u00eb kutin\u00eb e kujtimeve dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrhumbem duke lexuar sinqeritetin e atyre fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb pafajshme dhe t\u00eb sinqerta.<\/p>\n<p>Mund t\u00eb duket e par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, por burrat dhe grat\u00eb nuk mendojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ne jemi t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye djemt\u00eb kan\u00eb humbur kuptimin e k\u00ebtyre gjesteve, t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb vogla, t\u00eb detajeve q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse ndjehem sikur jam duke dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb do t\u00eb lexojn\u00eb k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb: befasoje partneren duke e komplimentuar, kthehu n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me tort\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb preferuar, me nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr ose me nj\u00eb mendim p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e shk\u00eblqyer bazohet n\u00eb detaje q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb diferenc\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mos prisni data t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta, mos prisni p\u00ebrvjetor\u00eb ose dit\u00eblindje, nj\u00eb gjest i papritur b\u00ebn ndryshimin. Grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb befasohen dit\u00eb pas dite. Dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje e vog\u00ebl ditore, por \u00e7udia n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e saj do t\u2019ju paguaj\u00eb p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. Partnerja juaj do ta vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr gjestin tuaj t\u00eb papritur sesa ai m\u00eb befasues sepse ajo e di q\u00eb p\u00ebr ty ato jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr t\u00eb, ajo dhurat\u00eb e vog\u00ebl simbolizon sakrific\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebrpjekjen tuaj. I kujton pranin\u00eb tuaj edhe kur nuk jeni pran\u00eb saj. Kjo ju jep vet\u00ebdijen se jeni n\u00eb mendimet e saj edhe kur nuk jeni bashk\u00eb, edhe kur shum\u00eb detyra t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme ju mbajn\u00eb larg. Nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e shk\u00eblqyer bazohet pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebto gjeste t\u00eb vogla, madje \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu edhe n\u00ebse ju duket absurde.<\/p>\n<p>Gj\u00ebrat e vogla jan\u00eb tullat q\u00eb vendosin themelet dhe q\u00eb dit\u00eb pas dite nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb nj\u00eb histori t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, e cila ia vlen t\u00eb mbrohet. Ato jan\u00eb krah\u00ebt e fuqish\u00ebm q\u00eb mbijn\u00eb mbi shpin\u00ebn e partnerit tuaj, krah\u00eb q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin dhe mbrojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. \/Revista Psikologjia\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb e mahnitshme se si grat\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e vogla, a e keni v\u00ebn\u00eb re ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb? Nj\u00eb trajtim i dhuruar pas kthimit nga puna, nj\u00eb kompliment i papritur dhe fytyra e tyre ndizet me lumturi. 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