{"id":15152,"date":"2019-08-07T21:51:04","date_gmt":"2019-08-07T19:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=15152"},"modified":"2019-08-07T21:51:04","modified_gmt":"2019-08-07T19:51:04","slug":"lidhja-gati-hyjnore-pse-babai-ka-kaq-rendesi-per-jeten-e-se-bijes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=15152","title":{"rendered":"Lidhja gati hyjnore \u2013 Pse babai ka kaq r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e s\u00eb bij\u00ebs?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Lidhja midis nj\u00eb babai dhe nj\u00eb vajze \u00ebsht\u00eb unike. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia e nj\u00eb vajze me baban\u00eb formon p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrcakton sjelljen e saj kur t\u00eb jet\u00eb e rritur. \u00cbsht\u00eb babai q\u00eb p\u00ebrcakton nj\u00eb shembull t\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cnjeriu t\u00eb \u00ebndrrave\u201d dhe nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe t\u00eb suksesshme.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse nj\u00eb baba nuk merr pjes\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tij ose veprimet e saj jan\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7rregullta, kjo mund t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt dhe probleme me besimin e njer\u00ebzve n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n

Pran\u00eb vajz\u00ebs q\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kultura ka ndryshuar tani dhe shum\u00eb baballar\u00eb n\u00eb fund kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr vajzat e tyre q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim. Prej dit\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb, baballar\u00ebt inkurajohen t\u00eb ushqejn\u00eb vajzat e tyre duke p\u00ebrdorur nj\u00eb formul\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb pelena, t\u2019i v\u00ebn\u00eb ato n\u00eb gjum\u00eb dhe t\u2019i qet\u00ebsojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb prani e till\u00eb formon nj\u00eb lidhje mes tij dhe vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, e cila krijon nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, duke p\u00ebrcaktuar t\u00eb ardhmen e saj.<\/p>\n

R\u00ebnd\u00ebsia e nj\u00eb babai n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel emocional<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb ka nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00eb me babain, ajo ka nj\u00eb rrezik m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt t\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb ankthit ose depresionit dhe sipas hulimtimeve ajo menaxhon m\u00eb mir\u00eb stresin. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb baba punon p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvilluar nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb me t\u00eb bij\u00ebn dhe b\u00ebn q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb flas\u00eb p\u00ebr ndjenjat e saj; kjo b\u00ebn q\u00eb vajza t\u00eb ket\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb suksesshme dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushura n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n

Ndikimi i nj\u00eb babai n\u00eb vet\u00eb-imazhin e nj\u00eb vajze<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrfshirja e babait n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tij \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe krijimi i nj\u00eb lidhjeje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme me t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore, sepse kjo e ndihmon t\u00eb zhvilloj\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim dhe t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh pozitiv.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, nj\u00eb baba duhet ta inkurajoj\u00eb gojarisht vajz\u00ebn e tij, t\u00eb jet\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e saj, t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb ndjenjat e saj dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb mendimet e saj, dhe t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb interes aktiv p\u00ebr hobit e saj. Kjo do ta ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb heq\u00eb qafe pasigurit\u00eb e saj dhe t\u00eb rris\u00eb besimin n\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta.<\/p>\n

Respekti dhe dashuria<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb babai q\u00eb tregon i vajz\u00ebs se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb respekti dhe dashuria. Ai i tregon asaj se si nj\u00eb njeri mund t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb grat\u00eb e tjera, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00ebn\u00ebn e saj. Vajza do t\u00eb shoh\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si babai i saj komunikon me grat\u00eb, n\u00ebse ai arrin t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb respekt apo jo.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e hershme me baban\u00eb, formon perceptimet e saj p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ajo mund t\u00eb pres\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranueshme n\u00eb nj\u00eb partner. Hulumtimet thon\u00eb se grat\u00eb e pjekura kan\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie afatgjata me burra q\u00eb u ngjajn\u00eb mentalisht et\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

Ndikimi praktik i nj\u00eb babai
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\nEt\u00ebrit gjithashtu luajn\u00eb nj\u00eb rol t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm kur flasim p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin financiar dhe fizik t\u00eb vajzave t\u00eb tyre. Vajzat i shohin et\u00ebrit e tyre si nj\u00eb simbol t\u00eb stabilitetit financiar dhe mir\u00ebqenies fizike dhe emocionale. N\u00ebse babai \u00ebshte shum\u00eb i p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, ajo do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb sh\u00ebndet m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb fizik dhe financiar q\u00eb mund ta \u00e7oj\u00eb drejt suksesit.\/gazetasi.al<\/p>\n

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