Narcist\u00ebt jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u admiruar. Ato jan\u00eb tipik\u00eb vet\u00eb-t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, arrogant\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkues dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk i marrin m\u00eb mir\u00ebsi kritikat.<\/p>\n
Ne jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb po b\u00ebhet gjithnj\u00eb dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb narciste. Dhe ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebta narcist\u00eb t\u2019i gjejm\u00eb n\u00eb pozicione t\u00eb pushtetit politik dhe t\u00eb biznesit dhe kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se n\u00eb duhet t\u00eb negociojm\u00eb me ta nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb biznesin ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Por lajmi i mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb se mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmerrni disa hapa q\u00eb t\u2019iu ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni pazare dhe marr\u00ebveshje t\u00eb suksesshme me k\u00ebto personalitete t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n
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Si t\u00eb v\u00ebresh nj\u00eb narcist?<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e leht\u00eb, sepse q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin kur bisedoni me ta bot\u00ebkuptimi i tyre b\u00ebhet shpejt i duksh\u00ebm. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi sipas nj\u00eb narcisti gjith\u00e7ka rrotullohet rreth tyre dhe me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi e shohin veten si hiper inteligjent, t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs dhe tep\u00ebr t\u00eb aft\u00eb. Zakonisht, narcisist\u00ebt sulmojn\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb v\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje perceptimin e tyre t\u00eb lart\u00eb p\u00ebr veten e tyre. Ata kan\u00eb tendec\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb n\u00eb manipulimin e emocioneve si\u00e7 jan\u00eb faji, frika dhe ankthi.<\/p>\n Si t\u00eb punoni me nj\u00eb narcisist?<\/strong><\/p>\n Narcist\u00ebt i l\u00ebvizin njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebr t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbyer q\u00ebllimeve t\u00eb tyre dhe kushdo p\u00ebrve\u00e7 narcisistit mund t\u00eb sakrifikohet me leht\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb b\u00ebsh narcisist\u00ebt t\u00eb negociojn\u00eb me mir\u00ebbesim, dhe p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrimi n\u00eb terma t\u00eb marr\u00ebveshjes dhe shqet\u00ebsime racionale, logjike shpesh nuk arrin t\u2019i \u00e7oj\u00eb gj\u00ebrat p\u00ebrpara. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, marrja e nj\u00eb rezultati t\u00eb zbatuesh\u00ebm mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/p>\n At\u00ebher\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb uleni pran\u00eb nj\u00eb narcisti n\u00eb tryez\u00ebn e negociatave?<\/p>\n P\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm n\u00eb trajtimin e narcisist\u00ebve, s\u00eb pari duhet t\u00eb kuptoni qart\u00eb psikologjin\u00eb e tyre. Por gjithashtu duhet t\u00eb kemi parasysh se ato jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb jan\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb. Duke pranuar se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhen gj\u00ebrat, ju e vendosni veten n\u00eb nj\u00eb pozit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb mendore dhe psikologjike p\u00ebr t\u00eb negociuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb efektive me narcist\u00ebt.<\/p>\n Arti i negociatave me narcist\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n Sipas Frank Carone, nj\u00eb negociator i realizuar, n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha negociatat duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendruar n\u00eb q\u00ebllimin tuaj.<\/p>\n \u201cKur b\u00ebni pazare me narcist\u00ebt, nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb kritike, nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore \u00ebsht\u00eb adhurimi juaj. Kjo u d\u00ebshmon atyre se ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb vlefsh\u00ebm, madje edhe t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer. Narcisist\u00ebt jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz zakonisht, thell\u00eb posht\u00eb, shum\u00eb t\u00eb pasigurt dhe t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuar. Prandaj, do t\u00eb duhet t\u2019i b\u00ebni ata t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm,\u201d shtoi ai.<\/p>\n Pra sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u2019u transmetoni narcisist\u00ebve q\u00eb e kuptoni \u201cmadh\u00ebshtin\u00eb\u201d e tyre, aq m\u00eb t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm do t\u00eb gjeni q\u00eb ata t\u00eb punojn\u00eb me ju p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje.<\/p>\n Mos harroni q\u00ebllimin tuaj p\u00ebrfundimtar<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb fund, mos harroni se \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb negociosh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb efektive me pothuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. T\u00eb gjitha bisedimet jan\u00eb p\u00ebrqendruar n\u00eb plot\u00ebsimin e nevojave t\u00eb secil\u00ebs pal\u00eb. N\u00eb rastin e negociatave me narcist\u00ebt, nevoja kryesore \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb shpesh ta njihni pik\u00ebpamjen e tyre p\u00ebr veten e tyre, dhe ta p\u00ebrforconi at\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur. N\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb negocioni me narcist\u00ebt, sigurohuni t\u2019i kushtoni v\u00ebmendjen q\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb n\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb fitoni.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Narcist\u00ebt jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u admiruar. Ato jan\u00eb tipik\u00eb vet\u00eb-t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, arrogant\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkues dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk i marrin m\u00eb mir\u00ebsi kritikat. Ne jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb po b\u00ebhet gjithnj\u00eb dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb narciste. Dhe ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebta narcist\u00eb t\u2019i gjejm\u00eb n\u00eb pozicione t\u00eb pushtetit politik […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14893,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n