Oliver Burkeman<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb nga reflektimet m\u00eb t\u00eb famshme (dhe t\u00eb lodhshme) t\u00eb filozofit ekzistencialist francez Jean-Paul Sartre ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me kamarierin e nj\u00eb kafeneje, q\u00ebndrimin e t\u00eb cilit, n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb kuptimi, e konsideron pak si shum\u00eb \u201cprej kamerieri\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u201cAi vjen drejt klient\u00ebve me nj\u00eb hap q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i gjall\u00eb, p\u00ebrkulet shum\u00eb shpejt, z\u00ebri, syt\u00eb, shprehin nj\u00eb interes pak si shum\u00eb t\u00eb mbushur me kujdes e mir\u00ebsjellje\u201d. Ai duket sikur po luan nj\u00eb rol dhe po e b\u00ebn me shum\u00eb entuziaz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Pse? P\u00ebr t\u00eb mashtruar veten, p\u00ebrfundon Sartri. Kamarieri bie plot\u00ebsisht n\u00eb rolin p\u00ebr t\u00eb bindur veten se nuk ka zgjedhje tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cnj\u00eb lloj automatizimi\u201d, thelbi i t\u00eb cilit e d\u00ebnon at\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb kamerier. T\u00eb mendoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb komode, se sa t\u00eb ballafaqohet me realitetin, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb ai e zgjodhi at\u00eb profesion dhe do t\u00eb ishte i lir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnte \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, edhe pse neve, nuk mund t\u00eb shmangim pyetjen se si do ia kish b\u00ebr\u00eb Sartri, i cili praktikisht jetonte n\u00eb kafene, n\u00ebse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kamerier\u00ebt e Parisit do t\u00eb kishin menduar k\u00ebshtu.<\/p>\n
Kamerieri i Sartrit m\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb mendje disa dit\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, duke lexuar nj\u00eb artikull n\u00eb revist\u00ebn Fast Company, i cili ofronte nj\u00eb seri sugjerimesh se si t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh meditimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbutur stresin, q\u00eb buron nga fakti se \u201cGame of Thrones\u201d tashm\u00eb po mb\u00ebrrinte n\u00eb serit\u00eb e fundit. Ishte nj\u00eb far\u00eb lig\u00ebsie t\u00eb citohej pik\u00ebrisht ai serial, duke qen\u00eb se n\u00eb tet\u00eb vitet e fundit artikujt me opinione falas mbi bot\u00ebn imagjinare t\u00eb Uestereos, i gjeje ngado. Megjithat\u00eb, dukej se rrokte nj\u00eb element thelb\u00ebsor t\u00eb jet\u00ebs n\u00eb vitin 2019. Duke marr\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb shohim \u201cGame of Thrones\u201d, linte t\u00eb kuptohej artikulli, dhe duke marr\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb se sezoni i fundit kish qen\u00eb kaq emocionalisht rraskapit\u00ebs, a nuk do t\u00eb ishte gj\u00eb me mend q\u00eb t\u00eb gjeje pak koh\u00eb gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs, p\u00ebr t\u00eb medituar dhe qet\u00ebsuar? Padyshim, do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb zgjidhje m\u00eb elegante ndaj k\u00ebtij problemi: t\u00eb mos e shoh\u00ebsh fare \u201cGame of Thrones\u201d. Por, ashtu si n\u00eb rastin e kamerierit t\u00eb Sartre, mund\u00ebsia e k\u00ebsaj zgjedhjeje as nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb marr\u00eb fare n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, dyshoj se shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz jan\u00eb ndjer\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb detyruar q\u00eb t\u00eb shohin \u201cGame of Thrones\u201d. Por shumica prej nesh e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gabim, n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb apo n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Teknologjia digjitale na ofron nj\u00eb pafund\u00ebsi shembujsh. Bindim veten se di\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb pashmangshm\u00ebrisht pjes\u00eb e pandar\u00eb e jet\u00ebs moderne \u2013 si t\u00eb q\u00ebnit n\u00eb Fejsbuk, t\u00eb paturit t\u00eb nj\u00eb smartphone, t\u00eb q\u00ebnit t\u00eb arritsh\u00ebm p\u00ebrmes emailit gjat\u00eb fundjav\u00ebs, t\u00eb q\u00ebnit gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb informuar p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb bot\u00eb \u2013 dhe k\u00ebshtu k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur an\u00ebt negative t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre zgjedhjeve, pa u ndalur p\u00ebr as edhe nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, e t\u00eb pyesim veten n\u00ebse jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, disa prej k\u00ebtyre gj\u00ebrave jan\u00eb t\u00eb detyrueshme: cilido mund t\u00eb gjendet n\u00eb situat\u00ebn ku duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb patjet\u00ebr I disponuesh\u00ebm gjat\u00eb fundjav\u00ebs, t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb Fejsbuk apo t\u00eb punoj\u00eb kamerier, edhe pse nuk do t\u00eb donte. Por t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat forca ekonomike q\u00eb na imponojn\u00eb k\u00ebto zgjedhje, duan edhe t\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb besojm\u00eb se jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb detyrueshme, nga sa n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb jan\u00eb.<\/p>\n
E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb, sado t\u00eb kufizuara q\u00eb jan\u00eb zgjedhjet tona, padyshim ato jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shumta se sa besojm\u00eb. Sot, n\u00ebse Sartri do t\u00eb akuzonte nj\u00eb kamerier se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha alternativat q\u00eb ka, dikush me siguri do I kujtonte q\u00eb jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb privilegjuar si ai. Por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se e kishte gabim. Ndoshta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e domosdoshme t\u00eb vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb bindemi se duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb. Ndoshta duhet t\u00eb kthejm\u00eb nga majat thembrat, dhe t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb kafene, t\u00eb pav\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm ndaj faktit q\u00eb filozofi po na th\u00ebrret p\u00ebr t\u00eb porositur nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ekspres.<\/p>\n
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Oliver Burkeman Nj\u00eb nga reflektimet m\u00eb t\u00eb famshme (dhe t\u00eb lodhshme) t\u00eb filozofit ekzistencialist francez Jean-Paul Sartre ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me kamarierin e nj\u00eb kafeneje, q\u00ebndrimin e t\u00eb cilit, n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb kuptimi, e konsideron pak si shum\u00eb \u201cprej kamerieri\u201d. \u201cAi vjen drejt klient\u00ebve me nj\u00eb hap q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i gjall\u00eb, p\u00ebrkulet shum\u00eb shpejt, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13405,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,15,19],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n