{"id":1308,"date":"2019-02-12T15:15:01","date_gmt":"2019-02-12T14:15:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=1308"},"modified":"2019-02-12T15:15:01","modified_gmt":"2019-02-12T14:15:01","slug":"narcizisti-personi-me-i-rrezikshem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=1308","title":{"rendered":"Narcizisti, personi m\u00eb i rreziksh\u00ebm"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Punoni me k\u00ebta persona? Jan\u00eb shum\u00eb toksik\u00eb dhe \u201cfluturojn\u00eb n\u00ebn radarin tuaj\u201d<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

A e dini q\u00eb 1 n\u00eb 5 CEO \u00ebsht\u00eb psikopat? Por ekziston nj\u00eb person mjaft i af\u00ebrt me psikopat\u00ebt, me t\u00eb cilin, me shum\u00eb gjasa ju punoni me t\u00eb.
\nK\u00ebta njer\u00ebz jan\u00eb shum\u00eb toksik\u00eb dhe do t\u2019ju shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb pun\u00ebn. Ata jan\u00eb nd\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit me personalitetin m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndesheni: narcizist\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

Sipas Merriam-Webster, narcizist\u00ebt \u201ckarakterizohen nga vet\u00ebp\u00ebrmbajtja ekstreme, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb ekzagjeruar t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme p\u00ebr admirim\u201d.<\/p>\n

Narcizist\u00ebt jan\u00eb persona manipulues, q\u00eb \u2018veshin maska\u2019 dhe \u2018fluturojn\u00eb n\u00ebn radarin tuaj\u2019. \u00cbsht\u00eb e nevojshme q\u00eb ju t\u2019i pikasni ata sa m\u00eb par\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara se ata t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb moralin dhe reputacionin tuaj.
\nPor, si ta kuptoni q\u00eb punoni me nj\u00eb person narcizist?<\/p>\n

1.Ata shqet\u00ebsohen vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nevojat e tyre egoiste<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb person narcizist nuk shqet\u00ebsohet p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb cilat kan\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr koleg\u00ebt apo vart\u00ebsit e tij, dhe me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi, do t\u00eb mbrohet kur do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet me ju. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye mos prisni q\u00eb t\u2019ju k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb falur. N\u00ebse ju punoni me nj\u00eb person t\u00eb till\u00eb, ju duhet t\u00eb komunikoni me t\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet mjeteve t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme t\u00eb komunikimit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb se si p\u00ebrgjigjet. N\u00ebse personi n\u00eb fjal\u00eb nuk tregon respekt dhe dinjitet p\u00ebr pozicionin tuaj, merrni n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb t\u00eb prisni \u00e7do lloj lidhje me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

2.Ata nuk mund ta p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb presionin<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mos prisni q\u00eb nj\u00eb person narcizist t\u2019ju mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb ju apo ekipin kur shfaqen probleme. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tregues i qart\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebra t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, ndaj mos prisni q\u00eb sjellja e tyre t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

3.Ata nuk mbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur nj\u00eb koleg shpreh pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi ndaj sjelljes s\u00eb nj\u00eb personi narcizist, ai nuk do ta pranoj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb justifikoj\u00eb veprimet e tij, apo do t\u2019ia hedh\u00eb fajin dikujt tjet\u00ebr. \u00cbsht\u00eb e rrall\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person narcisit t\u00eb shpreh\u00eb veten n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb autentike, t\u00eb flas\u00eb dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohen pa u gjykuar, apo t\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr veprimet e tij. Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e sigurt profesionale.<\/p>\n

4.Ata jan\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb nxeht\u00eb\u201d dhe \u201ct\u00eb ftoht\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Narcizist\u00ebt do t\u2019ju \u00e7mendin me sjelljen e tyre. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u2019ju thon\u00eb se sa i zoti dhe inteligjent jeni (pjes\u00eb e karakterit t\u00eb tyre manipulues) dhe t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen do t\u00eb hiqen indiferent\u00eb dhe do t\u2019ju pengojn\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n

5.Ata jan\u00eb mjesht\u00ebr t\u00eb manipulimit<\/strong><\/p>\n

Narcizist\u00ebt do t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019ju sh\u00ebrbyer nevojave t\u00eb tyre, ai do t\u00eb bind\u00eb nj\u00eb koleg q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb pas tij, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7on drejt konflikteve dhe shkat\u00ebrron gjith\u00eb pun\u00ebn n\u00eb ekip. Antidoti p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebzhgoni dhe t\u00eb dokumentoni n\u00eb mendjen tuaj gjith\u00eb veprimet e tij.<\/p>\n

6.Ata ua hedhin fajin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve<\/strong><\/p>\n

Narcizist\u00ebt do t\u2019ua hedhin fajin koleg\u00ebve apo vart\u00ebsve t\u00eb tyre kur di\u00e7ka nuk shkon si\u00e7 duhet, edhe n\u00ebse kjo gj\u00eb nuk ka prova. Pas pak koh\u00ebsh ju do t\u00eb nisni t\u00eb censuroni veten dhe t\u00eb veproni me shum\u00eb kujdes, pasi keni frik\u00eb ndaj reagimeve t\u00eb tij. P\u00ebr ju \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb merrni p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr fajin e di\u00e7kaje q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj se sa nj\u00eb p\u00ebrballje tjet\u00ebr me nj\u00eb person narcizist.<\/p>\n

*Marcel Schwantes, themelues i Leadership From the Core<\/em>
\nBurimi: INC<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Punoni me k\u00ebta persona? Jan\u00eb shum\u00eb toksik\u00eb dhe \u201cfluturojn\u00eb n\u00ebn radarin tuaj\u201d A e dini q\u00eb 1 n\u00eb 5 CEO \u00ebsht\u00eb psikopat? Por ekziston nj\u00eb person mjaft i af\u00ebrt me psikopat\u00ebt, me t\u00eb cilin, me shum\u00eb gjasa ju punoni me t\u00eb. K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz jan\u00eb shum\u00eb toksik\u00eb dhe do t\u2019ju shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb pun\u00ebn. 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