{"id":12925,"date":"2019-06-01T15:03:47","date_gmt":"2019-06-01T13:03:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=12925"},"modified":"2019-06-01T15:03:47","modified_gmt":"2019-06-01T13:03:47","slug":"mos-i-mesoni-femijes-tuaj-se-si-te-behet-i-pasur-mesoje-se-si-te-behet-i-lumtur-thenie-te-paperseritshme-per-femijet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=12925","title":{"rendered":"“Mos i m\u00ebsoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj se si t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i pasur. M\u00ebsoje se si t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i lumtur…” th\u00ebnie t\u00eb pap\u00ebrs\u00ebritshme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb hyn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb tuaj dhe b\u00ebn aq zhurm\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebzet vjet, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb durohet. Pastaj, largohet duke e l\u00ebn\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb aq t\u00eb heshtur sa q\u00eb mendoni se do t\u00eb \u00e7mendeni.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebrpiqemi p\u00ebr t’u m\u00ebsuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb na m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta<\/b><\/i>
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\n<\/b><\/i>–\u00a0Q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb kujtimet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj nes\u00ebr, DUHET t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre sot!<\/b><\/i>
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\n<\/b><\/i>–\u00a0<\/b><\/i>Nj\u00eb njeri me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i pasur \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e t\u00eb cilit vrapojn\u00eb n\u00eb krah\u00ebt e tij kur duart e tij jan\u00eb bosh.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/b><\/i>–\u00a0<\/b><\/i>Mos i m\u00ebsoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj se si t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i pasur. M\u00ebsoje se si t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i lumtur … Pra, kur t\u00eb rritet, ai do t\u00eb njoh\u00eb vler\u00ebn e gj\u00ebrave, jo \u00e7mimin e tyre …<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Mendoj se na intereson m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb planet m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb sesa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr planetin ton\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/b><\/i>–\u00a0Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb pes\u00ebvje\u00e7are pyeti v\u00ebllain e saj m\u00eb t\u00eb madh: “\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria?” Ai u p\u00ebrgjigj: “Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ti t\u00eb vjedh\u00ebsh \u00e7okollat\u00ebn time nga \u00e7anta ime dhe un\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoj ta vendos n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin vend …”<\/b><\/i>
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\n<\/b><\/i>–\u00a0<\/b><\/i>\u00c7do baba duhet t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb, se nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, djali i tij do t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb shembullin e tij dhe jo k\u00ebshill\u00ebn e tij!<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Ju e kuptoni se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj po rriten kur ata ndalojn\u00eb t’ju pyesin se nga kan\u00eb ardhur, dhe nuk pranojn\u00eb t’ju tregojn\u00eb se ku shkojn\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0Pas \u00e7do f\u00ebmije q\u00eb beson n\u00eb vetvete. \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb i rritur i cili e ka besuar m\u00eb par\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr…<\/i><\/b>
\n\u00a0nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb duruar p\u00ebr ta d\u00ebgjuar at\u00eb<\/i><\/b>
\n\u00a0dhe jo nj\u00eb mendje t\u00eb ndritshme p\u00ebr ta kritikuar at\u00eb<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>\u00a0p\u00ebr krah\u00eb t\u00eb hapura q\u00eb e pranojn\u00eb at\u00eb,\u00a0<\/i><\/b>
\n\u00a0dhe jo sy t\u00eb rrept\u00eb q\u00eb i shohin gabimet e tij<\/i><\/b>
\n\u00a0duart e sjellshme q\u00eb e drejtojn\u00eb<\/i><\/b>
\n\u00a0dhe jo nj\u00eb z\u00eb i fort\u00eb q\u00eb e urdh\u00ebron.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

– Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb mund t’i m\u00ebsoj\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb rrituri tri gj\u00ebra: t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lumtur pa ndonj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i z\u00ebn\u00eb me di\u00e7ka, dhe t\u00eb di t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb me gjith\u00eb forc\u00ebn at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron.<\/b><\/i>
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\n–\u00a0F\u00ebmij\u00ebt: Ju kaloni dy vitet e para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs duke i m\u00ebsuar ata t\u00eb ecin dhe t\u00eb flasin. Pastaj kaloni 16 vitet e ardhshme duke u th\u00ebn\u00eb atyre t\u00eb ulen dhe ta qepin.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– \u00c7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb artist. \u00c7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb se si t\u00eb mbetet nj\u00eb artist n\u00eb rritje.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, shum\u00eb shqet\u00ebsime. Asnj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, asnj\u00eb g\u00ebzim.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Dhurata m\u00eb e mir\u00eb q\u00eb mund tu b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj, jan\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe krah\u00ebt e pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr standarde se sa kritika.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Duhen nj\u00ebzet vjet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb ta b\u00ebj\u00eb burr\u00eb bir e saj, dhe nj\u00ebzet minuta nj\u00eb gruaje tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr ta trullosur.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Mos harroni se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, martesat dhe lulet pasqyrojn\u00eb llojin e kujdesit q\u00eb ata marrin.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– P\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb ka f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb uritur, Zoti nuk ekziston!<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Kam kuptuar se m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr tu dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebshilla f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ata duan dhe pastaj t\u00eb k\u00ebshillosh ata t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Ka disa gj\u00ebra q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk b\u00ebn q\u00eb t’i din\u00eb, sepse sapo t’i m\u00ebsojn\u00eb ato, nuk do t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb ende simbol i bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrjetshme t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb dhe detyr\u00ebs.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Tre gj\u00ebra i b\u00ebj mir\u00eb: pun\u00eb, gabime dhe f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Bijt\u00eb besojn\u00eb n\u00eb virtytin e n\u00ebnave t\u00eb tyre, dhe vajzat gjithashtu, por m\u00eb pak.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb cilit nuk nuk i lejohet t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tij, nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb respekt t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Vet\u00ebm f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e din\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb ata jan\u00eb duke k\u00ebrkuar.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb sharje, sepse vet\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb duke u rritur do t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb dinjitetin.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb kureshtar\u00eb. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt v\u00ebzhgojn\u00eb milingonat nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb rriturit i shkelin.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Nuk kam takuar kurr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kishte shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuar. Pyes veten se si humbet e gjith\u00eb kjo zgjuarsi n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e rritur.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– S’\u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh baba, por v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh baba.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Ashtu si n\u00eb dashuri, edhe n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me prind\u00ebrit, m\u00eb i dob\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb do m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmija e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsia e kukull\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb gjykat\u00ebsit tan\u00eb t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Pija q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet kurr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb uji; fruti q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet kurr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmija.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Sh\u00ebrbimi m\u00eb i madh q\u00eb mund t’u b\u00ebj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nj\u00eb baba \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tyre.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb lib\u00ebr n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin lexojm\u00eb dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin duhet shkruar.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Jepini f\u00ebmij\u00ebs m\u00eb shum\u00eb liri: le t\u00eb vrapoj\u00eb, le t\u00eb k\u00ebrcej\u00eb, le t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lir\u00eb, le t\u00eb luaj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb arg\u00ebtohet, le t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb qet\u00ebsi.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– Babai duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb shok dhe person i besuar, e jo tiran i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmij\u00ebt njihen me fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebrmes njer\u00ebzve.<\/b><\/i>
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\n– O, vite t\u00eb lumtura. Kush nuk do edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet f\u00ebmij\u00eb!<\/b><\/i>
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\n– F\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi q\u00eb p\u00ebrjeton bot\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb tjerat jan\u00eb artificiale.<\/b><\/i>
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\n<\/b><\/i>– Rroba e shqyer korrigjohet, por fjal\u00ebt e ashpra thyejn\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>– Grindjet e prind\u00ebrve me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur zgjidhjen, por njohja e shkakut \u00e7on n\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjidhje.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>– Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn do t\u00eb na tregoj\u00eb se si t’i ndihmojm\u00eb ata me qet\u00ebsi dhe dashuri, p\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb lumtur dhe t\u00eb balancuar.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>– Q\u00ebllimi m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb ndryshon vet\u00ebtimthi duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb ndryshim.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>– Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e k\u00ebndshme q\u00eb mund t\u00eb na ndodh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb qeshjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>T\u00eb rriturit nuk e din\u00eb se nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb mund t\u00eb jap\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb edhe n\u00eb rastin m\u00eb serioz.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Shpirti sh\u00ebrohet kur jeni pran\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur, n\u00eb aq pak koh\u00eb, q\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb i frik\u00ebsohej err\u00ebsir\u00ebs t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb adoleshent i cili d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb gjith\u00eb nat\u00ebn jasht\u00eb?<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>N\u00ebse i vler\u00ebsojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb, duhet t’i adhurojm\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tyre.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Kur prind\u00ebrit b\u00ebjn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr veten e tyre.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>
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\n–\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Kur kupton m\u00eb s\u00eb fundi se babai juaj zakonisht kishte t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, tashm\u00eb keni rritur nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb i bindur se babai i tij zakonisht nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>
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\n– Askush nuk mund t\u00eb dij\u00eb kuptimin e jet\u00ebs, kuptimin e bot\u00ebs, derisa t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, dhe pastaj e gjith\u00eb bota ndryshon. Asgj\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ishte m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n– \u00c7up\u00ebza pa kukulla \u00ebsht\u00eb si gruaja pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/b><\/i>
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\n<\/b><\/i>P\u00ebr nj\u00eb adoleshent, nuk ka asgj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb bezdisshme n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb sesa nj\u00eb prind.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Mosha e adoleshenc\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb faza e fundit e jet\u00ebs q\u00eb g\u00ebzon kur d\u00ebgjon se thirrja telefonike \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse ndihet mir\u00eb mund t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb si duhet.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Prind\u00ebrit shpesh flasin p\u00ebr brezin e ri sikur t\u00eb mos kishin t\u00eb b\u00ebnin me t\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>“Asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e dashur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb baba se sa vajza e tij.”<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>“Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit mund t’u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb se si t\u00eb p\u00ebrparojn\u00eb pa ata.”\u00a0<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>N\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb prind\u00ebr.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>“T\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb dikur ishin f\u00ebmij\u00eb … por vet\u00ebm pak prej tyre e mbajn\u00eb mend.”<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb sesa mbrojtja prind\u00ebrore.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Kur nj\u00eb baba i jep djalit, qeshin t\u00eb dy. Kur nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i jep babait, qajn\u00eb t\u00eb dy.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>T\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 meje, rriten.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb duan prind\u00ebrit e tyre, pas nj\u00eb kohe i gjykojn\u00eb, dhe rrall\u00eb, n\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, i falin.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pasuri e njeriut t\u00eb varf\u00ebr.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>P\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar dashurin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve tuaj, b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>I drejti e m\u00ebson f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Kini kujdes k\u00ebt\u00eb th\u00ebnie proverbiale: F\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb \u00e7mendurit tregojn\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. P\u00ebrfundimi: Njer\u00ebzit e m\u00ebdhenj dhe t\u00eb men\u00e7ur nuk e thon\u00eb kurr\u00eb at\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>“Mir\u00ebsia e babait \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e lart\u00eb se mali, dashamir\u00ebsia e n\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e thell\u00eb se deti”.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Nj\u00eb divorc nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe tragjedi.<\/i><\/b>
\nTragjedi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb rrish n\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb fatkeqe dhe t\u00eb kalosh tek femij\u00ebt tuaj mesazhin e gabuar sa i p\u00ebrket dashuris\u00eb dhe familjes.<\/i><\/b>
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\nF\u00ebmija m\u00eb i thjesht\u00eb q\u00eb shkon n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb sot \u00ebsht\u00eb i njohur me t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat do t\u00eb jepte jet\u00ebn e tij Arkimedi.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>\u00c7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb na sjell nj\u00eb mesazh se Per\u00ebndia nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyer ende nga njeriu.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Anaharsis kur u pyet se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb arsye nuk b\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00eb, ai tha: Sepse i dua f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>F\u00ebmija juaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb prona juaj. Do ta konstatoni m\u00eb s\u00eb voni kur t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni ta shisni.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen sot \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb mira pa i par\u00eb ato.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>F\u00ebmija i par\u00eb i \u00e7do gruaje \u00ebsht\u00eb vazhdimi kukull\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit t\u00eb saj,<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Jetim nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka nj\u00eb prind, por edhe nj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka interesin e prindit.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi m\u00eb si f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Por, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ne duhet t\u00eb kujdesemi q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb b\u00ebhen si ne.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Kur f\u00ebmija i par\u00eb qau p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, t\u00eb qeshurit u nda n\u00eb nj\u00eb milion copa, dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebrcenin af\u00ebr. Ky ishte fillimi i zanave.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mir\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, shpenzoni dy her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb para p\u00ebr ta dhe dy her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>P\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb sinonim me koh\u00ebn q\u00eb u kushtoni.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Asnj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk lind me nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr n\u00eb krah\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb detyr\u00eb e familjes ta vendos\u00eb librin n\u00eb krah\u00ebt e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn pes\u00eb vje\u00e7, f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj ta keni si mbret, deri n\u00eb t\u00eb pes\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjetat si nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor, pas t\u00eb pes\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjetave, si mikun tuaj.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Mos i burgosni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me dijen tuaj, sepse n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb tjera ata kan\u00eb lindur<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb dikur i tha djaloshit t\u00eb saj t\u00eb vog\u00ebl se Per\u00ebndia i b\u00ebn njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Dhe ai u p\u00ebrgjigj: “Un\u00eb e di p\u00ebr Per\u00ebndin\u00eb, por ndihmojn\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe n\u00ebnat”<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>\u00c7do brez thot\u00eb se sakrifikon jet\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. P\u00ebrfundimisht, cili brez do t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb?<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>T\u00eb pasurit nuk kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, vet\u00ebm trash\u00ebgimtar\u00eb.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Prind\u00ebrit u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb flasin, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre heshtjen.<\/i><\/b>
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\n<\/i><\/b>Tejkalimi i mbi-mbrojtjes prind\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj tjet\u00ebr abuzimi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n


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