Ka dashuri q\u00eb nuk harrohen kurr\u00eb, kujtime t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs q\u00eb kthehen t\u00eb shfaqen n\u00eb momente t\u00eb papritura, dhe q\u00eb na shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb, na trishtojn\u00eb ose na b\u00ebjn\u00eb nostalgjik\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse kthimi n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i bukur her\u00eb pas here, ne nuk duhet t\u00eb kapemi shum\u00eb, duke idealizuar njer\u00ebz, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndoshta jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm nga ajo q\u00eb ne kujtojm\u00eb. Ose q\u00eb thjesht nuk b\u00ebnin p\u00ebr ne. Sepse n\u00eb jet\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme t\u00eb kemi m\u00eb shum\u00eb dashuri, pavar\u00ebsisht se historia e Princit t\u00eb Kalt\u00ebr k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb ne t\u00eb besojm\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn. Ja pra, 5 burrat q\u00eb \u00e7do grua nuk do t\u2019i harroj\u00eb kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Dashuria e mallkuar \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb na e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00eb rrah\u00eb, duke na e thyer. Nj\u00eb dashuri q\u00eb nuk harrohet sepse ka shkaktuar shum\u00eb dhimbje, ndoshta sepse ishte i pakapsh\u00ebm, nuk kujdesej, na mbante larg. Ta mendosh s\u00ebrish \u00ebsht\u00eb normale, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e idealizon shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
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Dashuria e par\u00eb nuk harrohet kurr\u00eb, qoft\u00eb n\u00ebse ka zgjatur nj\u00eb moment apo shum\u00eb gjat\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse ishte e lumtur apo problematike. Sepse dihet, i dashuri i par\u00eb i takon nj\u00eb periudhe jete n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn gjith\u00e7ka ishte nj\u00eb zbulim i ri, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb edhe at\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb madh\u00ebshtore q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria. Si mund ta harrojm\u00eb at\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Ka dashuri q\u00eb nuk materializohen, ndoshta t\u00eb lindura me pushime, gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb takimi t\u00eb rast\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb pamundur ose shum\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, ose n\u00eb internet. Dashuri q\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00eb rrah\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb, duke na dh\u00ebn\u00eb iluzionin se ata ishin di\u00e7ka e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, por q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk dol\u00ebn n\u00eb drit\u00eb, ose q\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00eb fund pa lindur, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00ebm kujtimin e nj\u00eb nate t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl. Dashuri t\u00eb pap\u00ebrjetuara kurr\u00eb, me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb panjohur.<\/p>\n
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Ka dashuri q\u00eb lindin n\u00eb distanc\u00eb dhe jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb na detyrojn\u00eb ta shohim partnerin vet\u00ebm n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb, nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb muaj apo edhe disa her\u00eb n\u00eb vit. Ato shpesh lindin n\u00eb rrug\u00eb dhe me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb banojn\u00eb n\u00eb qytete t\u00eb tjera, por nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe pas transferimeve t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. Ato jan\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuara me intensitet, por jo pa nj\u00eb dhimbje dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha nostalgji t\u00eb vazhdueshme.<\/p>\n
E fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria e p\u00ebrjetuar vet\u00ebm n\u00eb mendje, e shpesht\u00eb gjat\u00eb adoleshenc\u00ebs kur, t\u00eb rinj dhe pa p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, fiksoheshim pas djalit t\u00eb pash\u00ebm t\u00eb radh\u00ebs, ndosht\u00eb m\u00eb i madh. Por dashurit\u00eb platonike ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ndodhin edhe kur rritemi, kur fiksohemi me dik\u00eb q\u00eb na refuzon dhe q\u00eb e quajm\u00eb t\u00eb pamundur t\u2019i afrohemi, duke zbuluar q\u00eb, ndoshta as nuk ia vlente. \/ MeB<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ka dashuri q\u00eb nuk harrohen kurr\u00eb, kujtime t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs q\u00eb kthehen t\u00eb shfaqen n\u00eb momente t\u00eb papritura, dhe q\u00eb na shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb, na trishtojn\u00eb ose na b\u00ebjn\u00eb nostalgjik\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse kthimi n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i bukur her\u00eb pas here, ne nuk duhet t\u00eb kapemi shum\u00eb, duke idealizuar njer\u00ebz, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndoshta jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12812,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n