\u201cS\u00eb pari, vendosni Zotin t\u00eb parin n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebni. \u00c7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb shihni tek un\u00eb, \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb kam arritur, \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb mendoni se un\u00eb kam, ka ardhur prej mir\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb Zotit. Kuptojeni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb.
\n42 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, n\u00eb mars t\u00eb 1975, un\u00eb isha n\u00eb universitet me nj\u00eb mesatare shum\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt. Isha ulur n\u00eb sallonin e bukuris\u00eb s\u00eb mamas\u00eb sime dhe shoh veten n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb. Pas vetes shoh nj\u00eb grua dhe sa her\u00eb un\u00eb shikoja n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb, e dalloja q\u00eb ajo po m\u00eb shihte mua drejt e n\u00eb sy, derisa n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment m\u00eb tha \u201cDjal\u00eb, ti ke p\u00ebr t\u00eb udh\u00ebtuar n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn dhe ke p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur p\u00ebrpara miliona njer\u00ebzve\u201d. N\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb un\u00eb nuk e besoja, por tani e them me siguri se un\u00eb kam udh\u00ebtuar n\u00ebp\u00ebr bot\u00eb dhe kam folur p\u00ebrpara miliona njer\u00ebzve.<\/p>\n
Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi suksesi q\u00eb kam pasur, por ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb tha ajo grua at\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe q\u00eb un\u00eb akoma nuk e kam harruar. Un\u00eb jam rr\u00ebzuar, jam udh\u00ebhequr, jam korrigjuar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Kam mbajtur Zotin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time dhe Ai m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb jem dashamir\u00ebs me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ndoshta jo gjithmon\u00eb jam mbajtur tek Ai, por Ai gjithnj\u00eb m\u00eb ka shoq\u00ebruar. Ndaj mb\u00ebshtetuni tek Zoti n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebni. N\u00ebse doni t\u00eb b\u00ebni at\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb b\u00ebjeni dhe mb\u00ebshtetuni n\u00eb Zot.<\/p>\n
S\u00eb dyti, mos u ndjeni keq n\u00ebse d\u00ebshtoni r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Si fillim, b\u00ebni at\u00eb q\u00eb e p\u00eblqeni dhe e keni pasion. Nd\u00ebrmerrni rreziqe dhe mos iu trembni d\u00ebshtimeve, edhe n\u00ebse d\u00ebshtoni r\u00ebnd\u00eb. \u00cbnd\u00ebrroni shum\u00eb, por mbani mend se \u00ebndrrat pa realizim jan\u00eb thjesht \u00ebndrra. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni dhe realizoni di\u00e7ka \u00e7do dit\u00eb, \u00e7do jav\u00eb, \u00e7do muaj, \u00e7do vit\u2026 P\u00ebr t\u2019i realizuar ato, kujtoni gjithmon\u00eb se ju duhet vendosm\u00ebri dhe disiplin\u00eb. Puna e fort\u00eb jep gjithmon\u00eb rezultate pozitive. K\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe personat e suksessh\u00ebm. Ata punojn\u00eb fort. Mir\u00ebpo ju mos prisni q\u00eb puna m\u00eb e madhe t\u00eb sjell\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Jo gjithmon\u00eb mundimi dhe progresi ecin nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht\u2026<\/p>\n
S\u00eb treti, nuk do merrni gj\u00eb me vete nga kjo bot\u00eb. Asgj\u00eb nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me \u00e7far\u00eb keni, por me \u00e7far\u00eb\u00a0 b\u00ebni me gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb keni. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne kemi talente t\u00eb ndryshme dhe gj\u00ebja m\u00eb egoiste q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmojm\u00eb dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Pse \u00ebsht\u00eb egoiste? Sepse p\u00ebrfiton vet\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn e mir\u00eb. Ndjenja q\u00eb un\u00eb marr kur ndihmoj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, nuk krahasohet me makinat, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e madhe apo me \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb un\u00eb kam. Suksesi ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht me ndihm\u00ebn q\u00eb ne i ofrojm\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
S\u00eb fundmi, dua t\u00eb t\u00eb kujtoj se duhet t\u00eb jesh falenderues p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ke. K\u00ebshtu e jetoj un\u00eb jet\u00ebn time. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja se pse un\u00eb jam ky q\u00eb jam sot. Falendero Zotin p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ke n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. D\u00ebshira e madhe n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, ajo gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju doni t\u00eb b\u00ebni me veten tuaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb prova m\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb Zoti t\u00eb jep paraprakisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb jotja. Dhe ti mund t\u00eb kesh \u00e7do gj\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron. Puno fort q\u00eb ta arrish. Kur e arrin, ktheje kok\u00ebn mbrapsht dhe ndihmo dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ngrihet bashk\u00eb me ty. Nj\u00ebri t\u00eb na m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb nj\u00ebrin. Frym\u00ebzojini t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ndryshime pozitive!\u201d. \/ Bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cS\u00eb pari, vendosni Zotin t\u00eb parin n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebni. \u00c7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb shihni tek un\u00eb, \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb kam arritur, \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb mendoni se un\u00eb kam, ka ardhur prej mir\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb Zotit. Kuptojeni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. 42 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, n\u00eb mars t\u00eb 1975, un\u00eb isha n\u00eb universitet me nj\u00eb mesatare shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12222,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n