Duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e qart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb se dashuria nuk lypet, nuk miq\u00ebsia nuk pretendohet, por shpesh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu.<\/p>\n
Ka gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb arsye, shum\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u kuptuar dhe p\u00ebr rrjedhoj\u00eb jetohen me natyrshm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe drejt\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb meritojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ashtu si dashuria, miq\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto. Edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb se n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb \u00e7iftit, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb miq\u00ebsie nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u2019u kapur, p\u00ebr t\u2019u d\u00ebshiruar, p\u00ebr t\u2019u dh\u00ebn\u00eb me pikatore.<\/p>\n
Kur, n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie miq\u00ebsore, v\u00ebmendja, thirrja telefonike, d\u00ebrgimi i nj\u00eb mesazhi gjithmon\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi e nj\u00ebrit prej dy personave, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se di\u00e7ka ka ngecur.<\/p>\n
Q\u00eb disha \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur q\u00eb n\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Dashuria kurr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb lypet, fjal\u00ebt ngush\u00eblluese nuk duhet t\u00eb mohohen ashtu si dhe prania, sidomos n\u00eb momentet kritike, di\u00e7ka q\u00eb dallon nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie autentike nga ajo e themeluar vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr interes.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb studim thekson pikat e spikatura t\u00eb nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsie t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. E para \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar si e mira joracionale.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e aft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i rezistuar koh\u00ebs, distanc\u00ebs, madje grindjeve dhe mosmarr\u00ebveshjeve mes dy njer\u00ebzve.<\/p>\n
Esht\u00eb e pranishme dhe nuk arrin ta shpjegosh me shum\u00eb arsyetime. Thjesht \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu.<\/p>\n
Elementi tjet\u00ebr ky\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhja. Nj\u00eb form\u00eb e ndjeshm\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7on menj\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar gjendjen mendore t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Si n\u00eb momente t\u00eb lumtura, ashtu edhe t\u00eb trishtuara. Nj\u00eb aft\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb spontane gjith\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n
Ndarja \u00ebsht\u00eb elementi i tret\u00eb themelor. Ndjenja dhe kuptimi i emocioneve, gjendjeve mendore \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, t\u00eb njjoh\u00ebsh dhe t\u00eb duash t\u00eb ndash ato, kjo e b\u00ebn dallimin. Dhe e b\u00ebn nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie v\u00ebrtet unike dhe t\u00eb pazgjidhshme.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse nuk ekziston kjo lloj sjelljeje, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta quash nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie si miq\u00ebsi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Sepse, ashtu si p\u00ebr shum\u00eb situata q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb, ekziston nj\u00eb gjykat\u00ebs i pagabuesh\u00ebm, rigoroz, por i drejt\u00eb, q\u00eb quhet KOH\u00cb.<\/p>\n
Koha nuk dhuron asgj\u00eb, p\u00ebrkundrazi, por \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje q\u00eb t\u00eb mas\u00eb forc\u00ebn e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie miq\u00ebsie.<\/p>\n
Esht\u00eb ajo hap\u00ebsir\u00eb q\u00eb nuk lejon shtirje apo mashtrime. Q\u00eb nuk lejon q\u00eb, nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb kaq e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, t\u00eb b\u00ebhet gjoja sikur ekziston.<\/p>\n
O \u00ebsht\u00eb konkrete, o nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u201cMiq\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje. Nuk duhet t\u00eb punosh mbi miq\u00ebsin\u00eb. N\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb punosh, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb miq\u00ebsi. Esht\u00eb thjesht dikush q\u00eb takon her\u00eb pas here. Miqt\u00eb thjesht do t\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
(LARRY WINGET)<\/p>\n
Fraz\u00eb e shk\u00eblqyer p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledhur vler\u00ebn dhe kuptimin enj\u00eb miq\u00ebsie t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
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Duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e qart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb se dashuria nuk lypet, nuk miq\u00ebsia nuk pretendohet, por shpesh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Ka gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb arsye, shum\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u kuptuar dhe p\u00ebr rrjedhoj\u00eb jetohen me natyrshm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe drejt\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb meritojn\u00eb. Ashtu si dashuria, miq\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto. Edhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12029,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n