Si ta p\u00ebrdorni komunikim joverbal n\u00eb avantazhin tuaj dhe t\u00eb \u201cprogramoheni\u201d p\u00ebr sukses<\/p>\n
Nga Peter Economy<\/p>\n
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sekret se m\u00ebnyra me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ne komunikojm\u00eb joverbalisht \u2013 m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb form\u00ebn e gjuh\u00ebs s\u00eb trupit \u2013 ka nj\u00eb ndikim shum\u00eb t\u00eb madh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se sa me efektivitet komunikohen dhe merren k\u00ebta mesazhe nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. N\u00eb fakt, studiuesit thon\u00eb se 60 deri n\u00eb 90 p\u00ebr qind e t\u00eb gjith\u00eb komunikimit ton\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb form\u00eb joverbale.
\nN\u00eb librin e tij \u201cShtat\u00eb Disiplinat e nj\u00eb Udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsi\u201d, autori Jeff Wolf jep disa k\u00ebshilla se si \u00e7dokush mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb sesi t\u00eb d\u00ebrgoj\u00eb mesazhin e duhur me gjuh\u00ebn e trupit. Dhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsia e komunikimit joverbal nuk mund t\u00eb n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsohet p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd n\u00eb biznes. Vet\u00eb Wolf shpjegon: \u201cKomunikimi n\u00eb nendin e pun\u00ebs, qoft\u00eb verbal, ose joverbal, udh\u00ebheq t\u00eb gjith\u00eb aktivitetin mes jush, shit\u00ebsve, bler\u00ebsve dhe bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor\u00ebve.\u201d
\nProvoni t\u00eb vini n\u00eb zbatim k\u00ebto shtat\u00eb k\u00ebshilla t\u00eb gjuh\u00ebs s\u00eb trupit dhe shikoni sesi komunikimi juaj do t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet \u2013 me shpejt\u00ebsi dhe me shum\u00eb leht\u00ebsi.
\n1. V\u00ebshtroni veten \u2026 dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt
\nKur jeni duke komunikuar me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, kushtoini v\u00ebmendje mesazheve q\u00eb jeni duke d\u00ebrguar, p\u00ebrmes p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb trupit. A p\u00ebrshtaten fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb po thoni, me ato cfar\u00eb gjuha e trupit tuaj l\u00eb t\u00eb kuptohet? N\u00ebse jo, duhet t\u2019i p\u00ebrshtasni. Njer\u00ebzit me intuit\u00eb e din\u00eb se, n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, mesazhet joverbale q\u00eb ju d\u00ebrgoni jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sakt\u00eb sesa mesazhet q\u00eb nxirrni me an\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebve.
\n2. Mbani kontakt me sy
\nB\u00ebni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb rrisni sasin\u00eb e kontaktit me an\u00eb t\u00eb syve kur flisni me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt \u2013 sidomos me bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor\u00ebt, shefin tuaj, ose k\u00ebdo q\u00eb punon p\u00ebr ju. Kontakti i syve rrit besimin. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr e medaljes, n\u00ebse m\u00ebnjanoni kontaktin me sy, jeni duke d\u00ebrguar nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb fort\u00eb se nuk ndiheni rehat, apo madje edhe se po tregoheni i pandersh\u00ebm.
\n3. Punoni me q\u00ebndrimin e trupit
\nQ\u00ebndrimi i trupit tuaj \u00ebsht\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrs\u00ebdrejti i lidhur me besimin q\u00eb shfaqni ndaj bot\u00ebs. N\u00ebse rrini shtremb\u00ebr, praktikisht jeni duke i treguar bot\u00ebs se ju mungon besimi dhe se jeni i painteresuar ndaj personit tjet\u00ebr. Kur q\u00ebndroni ose uleni drejt, ju projektoni nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb fort\u00eb besimi dhe interesi tek personi tjet\u00ebr.
\n4. Drejtoni tryez\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs \u2013 dhe veten tuaj
\nNj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb e rr\u00ebmujshme \u2013 ose nj\u00eb sjellje e till\u00eb \u2013 pasqyron nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim t\u00eb pakujdessh\u00ebm dhe nj\u00eb mendje t\u00eb rr\u00ebmujshme. K\u00ebshtu ju i d\u00ebrgoni bot\u00ebs mesazhin se jeni jo vet\u00ebm jo i mir\u00eborganizuar, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht edhe i pakujdessh\u00ebm. K\u00ebto nuk jan\u00eb mesazhe t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr t\u2019u d\u00ebrguar, n\u00ebse doni t\u00eb mbani pun\u00ebn q\u00eb keni, apo t\u00eb ngjisni shkall\u00ebt e karrier\u00ebs.
\n5. \u201cLexoni\u201d auditorin
\nKur jeni duke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb prezantim para nj\u00eb ekipi apo grupi njer\u00ebzish, k\u00ebrkoni p\u00ebr mesazhe joverbal\u00eb q\u00eb auditori jua d\u00ebrgon. N\u00ebse pjes\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb auditorit tuaj fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrrusen, hapin goj\u00ebn, t\u00eb kontrollojn\u00eb celularin, ose edhe t\u00eb dremisin, at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet ta dini se keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka menj\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb energji mesazhit tuaj. Me q\u00ebllimin final q\u00eb t\u00eb rifitoni v\u00ebmendjen e tyre.
\n6. D\u00ebgjojeni z\u00ebrin tuaj
\nMegjith\u00ebse nuk e v\u00ebm\u00eb re zakonisht, kur flasim, ne d\u00ebrgojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha llojet e mesazheve t\u00eb fuqishme, pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebrmes m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si e p\u00ebrdorim z\u00ebrin ton\u00eb. I d\u00ebrgojm\u00eb k\u00ebto mesazhe (t\u00eb njohura si paragjuh\u00ebsore) p\u00ebrmes lart\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb z\u00ebrit, ritmit, tonit, lakimit, volumit dhe luhatjeve t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb tij. Nj\u00eb ton sarkastik, p\u00ebr shembull, d\u00ebrgon nj\u00eb mesazh shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb dhe i ndjer\u00eb.
\n7. B\u00ebjini pyetje vetes
\nMonitoroni progresin q\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb komunikimin tuaj joverbal gjat\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb pun\u00ebs suaj. Jeff Wolf sugjeron t\u00eb b\u00ebni k\u00ebto pyetje: \u201cSi u perceptova nga t\u00eb pranishmit n\u00eb takim? A mund t\u00eb kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka ndryshe? A ishin njer\u00ebzit v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb interesuar dhe a tregonin v\u00ebmendje p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb po thoja? A I kam d\u00ebgjuar mir\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt?\u201d.\/\u201cB.I.\u201d\/
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Si ta p\u00ebrdorni komunikim joverbal n\u00eb avantazhin tuaj dhe t\u00eb \u201cprogramoheni\u201d p\u00ebr sukses Nga Peter Economy Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sekret se m\u00ebnyra me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ne komunikojm\u00eb joverbalisht \u2013 m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb form\u00ebn e gjuh\u00ebs s\u00eb trupit \u2013 ka nj\u00eb ndikim shum\u00eb t\u00eb madh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se sa me efektivitet komunikohen dhe merren k\u00ebta mesazhe nga […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11747,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n