{"id":11602,"date":"2019-05-12T21:37:31","date_gmt":"2019-05-12T19:37:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=11602"},"modified":"2019-05-12T21:37:31","modified_gmt":"2019-05-12T19:37:31","slug":"nuk-ka-femra-mendjemedha-ka-meshkuj-pa-takt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=11602","title":{"rendered":"Nuk ka femra mendjem\u00ebdha. Ka meshkuj pa takt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kur ka qen\u00eb hera e fundit q\u00eb nj\u00eb miku yt t\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201ct\u2019i b\u00ebje ndonj\u00eb\u201d? Mos m\u00eb thuaj q\u00eb edhe ti si puna ime po mendon gjith\u00eb personat e mundsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ta kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb porosi t\u00eb till\u00eb.<span id=\"more-7918\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Madje kur k\u00ebrkesa t\u00eb tilla po shtoheshin dhe nuk kisha \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja tjet\u00ebr, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u2019jua ktheja shkurt q\u00eb nuk mundesha, m\u00eb lindte natyrsh\u00ebm pyetja \u201cPse vall\u00eb nuk arrijn\u00eb dot meshkujt t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr vete nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr?\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Dikujt edhe ia b\u00ebra k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje e m\u00eb tha q\u00eb femrat jan\u00eb mendjem\u00ebdha. \u201cNuk flitet dot me to\u201d m\u00eb tha. U habita pak nga p\u00ebrgjigjia e tij, sepse jo t\u00eb gjitha femrat jan\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj. Mir\u00ebpo p\u00ebrgjigjen e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb pyetjes sime e mora duke par\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb detaje k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Arrita n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimin se sot meshkujt nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb komunikim me femrat. N\u00ebse ti e dreqos q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, kuptohet q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdohet komunikimi m\u00eb tej. Dhe t\u00eb parat q\u00eb paragjykohen si gjithmon\u00eb jan\u00eb femrat.<\/p>\n<p>Meshkujt sot nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb sillen si\u00e7 duhet, nuk din\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb femrat t\u00eb ndihen mir\u00eb, nuk din\u00eb as t\u00eb diskutojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb debat lidhur me tema t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb artit dhe kultur\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Ulesh n\u00eb kafe me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe hap nj\u00eb tem\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shfaqje artistike q\u00eb ke par\u00eb s\u00eb fundmi. E pyet n\u00ebse edhe ai p\u00eblqen ndonj\u00eb fush\u00eb t\u00eb artit dhe jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk di se si ta shpreh\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet mosp\u00eblqimin e tij, por edhe kalon deri n\u00eb pik\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh keq q\u00eb ke hapur nj\u00eb tem\u00eb kaq \u201ct\u00eb kot\u00eb\u201d sipas tij. Epo kur dikush nuk ka minimumin e kultur\u00ebs, kur nuk di t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet ashtu si\u00e7 situata e k\u00ebrkon, fajin nuk e kan\u00eb femrat.<\/p>\n<p>Fajin e kan\u00eb meshkujt q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb uritur p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019u kulturuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Meshkujt sot nuk lexojn\u00eb as katalog\u00ebt e makinave, as gazetat e sportit. Po marr si shembull sportin dhe makinat q\u00eb dihet se jan\u00eb p\u00eblqime t\u00eb lindura tek meshkujt.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse nj\u00eb mashkull nuk lexon, nuk ka se si t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb komunikim me nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr. Duhet takt, komunikim, duhet kultur\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u2019i flas\u00ebsh nj\u00eb femre, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb lidhje serioze. Mir\u00ebpo duke par\u00eb se k\u00ebto nuk i kan\u00eb, meshkujt e kan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr vajza t\u00eb mira n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Meshkujt e din\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb u mungon tek vetja, por jan\u00eb tep\u00ebr krenar\u00eb p\u00ebr ta pranuar dhe faj\u00ebsojn\u00eb femrat si mendjem\u00ebdha. Por k\u00ebshtu vazhdoni, sepse mir\u00eb i keni pun\u00ebt!\u00a0\/ Fatjon Xhafaj \/ Bota.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kur ka qen\u00eb hera e fundit q\u00eb nj\u00eb miku yt t\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201ct\u2019i b\u00ebje ndonj\u00eb\u201d? Mos m\u00eb thuaj q\u00eb edhe ti si puna ime po mendon gjith\u00eb personat e mundsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ta kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb porosi t\u00eb till\u00eb. Madje kur k\u00ebrkesa t\u00eb tilla po shtoheshin dhe nuk kisha \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja tjet\u00ebr, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u2019jua [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11603,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Nuk ka femra mendjem\u00ebdha. 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