Antropologu amerikan Helen Fisher ka mundur ta p\u00ebrshkruaj\u00eb me pak fjal\u00eb, por jo me m\u00eb pak debat: Dashuria sipas tij \u00ebsht\u00eb kur dikush t\u00eb futet thell\u00eb n\u00eb mendje!\u00a0 N\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperiment t\u00eb ri, Fisher dhe koleg\u00ebt e Stony Brook University n\u00eb New York, mor\u00ebn 37 njer\u00ebz t\u00eb cil\u00ebt tregonin se kishin r\u00ebn\u00eb kok\u00eb e k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri. Ato iu n\u00ebnshtruan nj\u00eb skaneri MRI p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar se \u00e7\u2019ndodh n\u00eb trurin e tyre. U zbulua se dashuria shkakton rritje t\u00eb aktivitetit n\u00eb zonat e trurit t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb pasura me dopamin\u00eb, gjithashtu rritje t\u00eb aktivitetit t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb quhet tegmentale ventrale, ose VTA, q\u00eb lidhet me munges\u00ebn, motivimin, fokusin dhe mallin. Sfera t\u00eb tilla nxiten nga euforia edhe kur dikush konsumon kokain\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Pra me pak fjal\u00eb, eklipsin e p\u00ebrjeton truri, jo zemra?\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0N\u00eb fakt, zemra ka nj\u00eb rol shum\u00eb t\u00eb madh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si i p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb emocionet. Truri dhe zemra jan\u00eb organet kryesore q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb dot pa nj\u00ebra tjetr\u00ebn. Kur ballafaqohemi me nj\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim ose kur ndodhemi n\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb me njeriun e zemr\u00ebs dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ka edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm, zemra fillon t\u00eb pompoj\u00eb m\u00eb shpejt dhe kjo si p\u00ebrgjigje e ngacmuesve t\u00eb trurit. Megjithat\u00eb, koh\u00ebt e fundit shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt kan\u00eb treguar se n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb anasjellt\u00eb, reagimet nga zemra e m\u00eb pas n\u00eb tru, ndikojn\u00eb gjithashtu n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb ne ndjejm\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr studim, udh\u00ebhequr nga Sarah Garfinkel nga Universiteti i Sussex, tregoi se cardivascular arousal- ose cikli i rrahjes s\u00eb zemr\u00ebs, me rit\u00ebm t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb, mund t\u00eb intensifikoj\u00eb ndjenjat e frik\u00ebs dhe ankthit. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb studim,\u00a0 u zbulua se sinjalet elektrike nga venat e gjakut p\u00ebrreth zemr\u00ebs, kalojn\u00eb m\u00eb pas n\u00eb zonat e trurit t\u00eb p\u00ebrpunimit t\u00eb emocioneve, duke ndikuar shum\u00eb fort mbi at\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndjejm\u00eb ose n\u00ebse po ndjejm\u00eb di\u00e7ka. E nd\u00ebrsa shumica e \u00e7ifteve thon\u00eb se p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb rrahje zemre dhe frym\u00ebmarrje t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb gati perfekt t\u00eb sinkronizuar.<\/p>\n Po p\u00ebr shprehjen e Shekspirit, se dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht \u00e7menduri, \u00e7\u2019mund t\u00eb themi? Koh\u00ebt e fundit shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt kan\u00eb shpjeguar se pse t\u00eb r\u00ebnit n\u00eb dashuri \u00e7on n\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb pazakonta. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruar kan\u00eb nj\u00eb aktivitet shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt n\u00eb korteksin e tyre frontal\u00a0 nj\u00eb zon\u00eb e trurit t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr arsye dhe gjykim, e sidomos kur mendonin p\u00ebr partnerin\/ en dhe shkaku mbetet ende n\u00eb studim.<\/p>\n Po p\u00ebr fijen e perit mes dashuris\u00eb dhe urrejtjes?<\/strong>\u00a0 Shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt thon\u00eb se urrejtja \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e fort\u00eb sesa vet\u00eb dashuria. Sipas ekspertit Robert Sternberg, urrejtja, ky emocion i nd\u00ebrlikuar kalon p\u00ebrmes tri komponent\u00ebve baz\u00eb, q\u00eb formojn\u00eb teorin\u00eb trek\u00ebndore t\u00eb urrejtjes.<\/p>\n P\u00ebr Sternberg, element\u00ebt kryesor\u00eb jan\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi, pasioni dhe p\u00ebrbuzja. Kombinimet e tyre shkaktojn\u00eb forma t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb urrejtjes, ndjenja t\u00eb ftohta, urrejtje t\u00eb zjarrt\u00eb, dhe nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr asgj\u00ebsim.\u00a0 Kur psikolog\u00ebt b\u00ebn\u00eb eksperimentin me 600 njer\u00ebz u zbulua se m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti urrejm\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb njohim dhe i kemi m\u00eb pran\u00eb vetes, sepse n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se na kan\u00eb tradhtuar. Ish bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb prekurit nga urrejtja, m\u00eb pas koleg\u00ebt n\u00eb pun\u00eb e deri tek an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes. Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm thon\u00eb se mesatarisht kan\u00eb urryer pes\u00eb njer\u00ebz gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs!\u00a0 Por p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gj\u00eb shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt bien dakord, se nuk ka jet\u00eb pa dashuri, dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb mendoje po deshe me zem\u00ebr, por deshe me mendje.\/tiranapost<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Antropologu amerikan Helen Fisher ka mundur ta p\u00ebrshkruaj\u00eb me pak fjal\u00eb, por jo me m\u00eb pak debat: Dashuria sipas tij \u00ebsht\u00eb kur dikush t\u00eb futet thell\u00eb n\u00eb mendje!\u00a0 N\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperiment t\u00eb ri, Fisher dhe koleg\u00ebt e Stony Brook University n\u00eb New York, mor\u00ebn 37 njer\u00ebz t\u00eb cil\u00ebt tregonin se kishin r\u00ebn\u00eb kok\u00eb e k\u00ebmb\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1129,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n