Mjafton t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh p\u00ebrreth teje q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh se sa ka ndryshuar gjith\u00e7ka. Dikur dilje dhe njer\u00ebzit i shihje t\u00eb b\u00ebnin muhabet p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb sh\u00ebtitjeve t\u00eb tyre. Sot i sheh secilin me celularin e vet\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb, t\u00eb zhytur n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tyre virtuale. Dikur nj\u00eb mik m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cTeknologjia ka p\u00ebr t\u2019i \u00e7mendur njer\u00ebzit\u201d, por nuk e ka fajin vet\u00ebm interneti dhe teknologjia p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb po na ndodh.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse e shohim q\u00eb n\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb problem, un\u00eb them se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb dalim n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin p\u00ebrfundim. Nuk e kan\u00eb fajin smartfon\u00ebt, por raportet e ftohta q\u00eb kemi ne me personat p\u00ebrreth. N\u00ebse q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e zhvillimit t\u00eb teknologjis\u00eb, ne do t\u00eb kishim raporte m\u00eb t\u00eb ngushta me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb na rrethonin, nevoja p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetje nga personat virtual\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte minimale.<\/p>\n
Sot ne po marrim mb\u00ebshtetje, komplimenta, \u201cdashuri\u201d nga njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk i njohim dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, po marrim p\u00ebrbuzje, urrejtje dhe paragjykime nga ata q\u00eb i mendonim miq. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb mjafton t\u00eb mendosh vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka. Kur ka qen\u00eb dita e fundit q\u00eb nj\u00eb mik apo nj\u00eb mikesh\u00eb e jotja t\u00eb ka komplimentuar? Kur ka qen\u00eb hera e fundit q\u00eb ti ke komplimentuar dik\u00eb pran\u00eb vetes?<\/p>\n
Duket paksa falsitet dhe hipokrizi t\u00eb komplimentosh dik\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk ka vend p\u00ebr mburrje, por koha e tashme \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbushur me stres dhe vetmi p\u00ebr k\u00ebdo. Nuk ka person t\u00eb zhytur n\u00eb internet q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lumtur. Madje stresi dhe vetmia ndihen m\u00eb tep\u00ebr tek ata q\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb m\u00eb gjat\u00eb duke p\u00ebrdorur internetin. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja se pse neve na duhen m\u00eb shum\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb ngrohta me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n
Dikush mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb veshur me shum\u00eb stil, por ti mund ta komplimentosh p\u00ebr paraqitjen apo p\u00ebr karakterin e tij. Dikush tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb i paraqitsh\u00ebm, por mund t\u00eb gjesh nj\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr ta komplimentuar p\u00ebr veshjen, apo arom\u00ebn e parfumit q\u00eb ka hedhur. Pas k\u00ebsaj, shikojeni se si buz\u00ebqeshja ka p\u00ebr t\u2019u shfaqur n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e p\u00ebrsonit p\u00ebrball\u00eb jush, duke ia zhdukur tiparet e vetmis\u00eb dhe d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn ton\u00eb p\u00ebr ta ndryshuar k\u00ebt\u00eb realitet. Nuk ia vlen q\u00eb rinia jon\u00eb, pra qeliza nga e cila e merr zhvillimin gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebria, t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb k\u00ebshtu si\u00e7 po jeton, n\u00eb vetmi, n\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrim, me streh\u00eb t\u00eb vetme rrjetet sociale.<\/p>\n
Jemi ne q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i ftojm\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit tan\u00eb, miqt\u00eb tan\u00eb n\u00eb kafe dhe t\u2019u flasim atyre sa m\u00eb ngroht\u00eb; t\u2019i p\u00ebrqafojm\u00eb; t\u2019i falim dashuri. P\u00ebr t\u00eb ngrohur zemrat e vetmuara duhet pun\u00eb, por duhet ditur se nuk ka gj\u00eb t\u00eb paarritshme.<\/p>\n
Si thoni sikur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb s\u00eb bashku ta largojm\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrimin ton\u00eb dhe t\u00eb personave rreth nesh nga virtualiteti dhe t\u2019ia shtojm\u00eb at\u00eb realitetit? Natyra dhe bota jan\u00eb plot me ngjyra dhe mezi presin t\u00eb eksplorohen nga ne. Gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb sadopak sjelljen ton\u00eb. Q\u00eb sot, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur.<\/p>\n
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Mjafton t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh p\u00ebrreth teje q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh se sa ka ndryshuar gjith\u00e7ka. Dikur dilje dhe njer\u00ebzit i shihje t\u00eb b\u00ebnin muhabet p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb sh\u00ebtitjeve t\u00eb tyre. Sot i sheh secilin me celularin e vet\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb, t\u00eb zhytur n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tyre virtuale. Dikur nj\u00eb mik m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cTeknologjia ka p\u00ebr t\u2019i \u00e7mendur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11131,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n