Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pretendojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ziliqar\u00eb kilometra larg, por zilia mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e maskuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb kaq t\u00eb mir\u00eb, sa q\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb kemi burimin e saj pran\u00eb nesh, pa pasur iden\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Zilia \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e zakonshme n\u00eb qeniet njer\u00ebzore, kur tjetri po b\u00ebn di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mir\u00eb, jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e p\u00ebrpunojn\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur ajo \u201ce mir\u00eb\u201d paraqet nj\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsim t\u00eb madh mbi jet\u00ebn e atij q\u00eb e b\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Ne tentojm\u00eb t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se zilia vjen nga ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb zem\u00ebruar me ne apo ata q\u00eb nuk na p\u00eblqejn\u00eb shum\u00eb, por zilia vjen edhe nga ata njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb af\u00ebr nesh. Natyrisht ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb g\u00ebzohen p\u00ebr rezultatet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, ata gjithashtu b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7mos p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb. Por ka edhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse na duan, ndiejn\u00eb zili p\u00ebr ne.<\/p>\n
Jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e d\u00ebmshme p\u00ebr ne, por as nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e favorshme p\u00ebr personin q\u00eb ndjen zilin\u00eb. Nj\u00eb person ziliqar mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb penges\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb frym\u00ebzojn\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien.<\/p>\n
Kur nj\u00eb person nuk d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb mira ose t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ai, mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet penges\u00eb dhe shpesh p\u00ebrdor m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb na penguar q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb lumtur: duke na dekurajuar t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb di\u00e7ka, duke kontaktuar njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebr t\u00eb na d\u00ebmtuar, duke dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebshilla q\u00eb na pengojn\u00eb t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb n\u00eb q\u00ebllimet tona, duke g\u00ebnjyer, duke ekzagjeruar, duke u p\u00ebrpjekur p\u00ebr t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, duke devijuar p\u00ebrpjekjet, duke diskredituar etj. etj<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb person ziliqar nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb mat\u00eb veten, edhe n\u00ebse nuk mund t\u00eb zbuloj\u00eb veten, edhe para vetes, shum\u00eb her\u00eb ai do t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb sabotuar jet\u00ebn e atij personi q\u00eb zgjon zilin\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb pranosh zilin\u00eb e nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb cilin e duam, sesa urrejtjen e armikut.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb person ziliqar duhet t\u00eb rifitoj\u00eb besimin tek vetja, t\u00eb reflektoj\u00eb mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos shikoj\u00eb sukseset e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, por p\u00ebrkundrazi, ta kuptoj\u00eb se nuk ka kufizime, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb ndihmon t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb merr di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr veten, q\u00eb suksesi i t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb burim admirimi dhe frym\u00ebzimi. Nuk ka asgj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund ta arrijm\u00eb, me meritat tona, pa d\u00ebmtuar ask\u00ebnd dhe ata q\u00eb afrohen atje ku d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb t\u00eb jemi, ata na m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se ka nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme. Pra, para se t\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb zili, ta admirojm\u00eb dhe m\u00ebsojm\u00eb nga ai person. \/ MeB<\/p>\n
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Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pretendojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ziliqar\u00eb kilometra larg, por zilia mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e maskuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb kaq t\u00eb mir\u00eb, sa q\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb kemi burimin e saj pran\u00eb nesh, pa pasur iden\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Zilia \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e zakonshme n\u00eb qeniet njer\u00ebzore, kur tjetri po b\u00ebn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3561,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n