{"id":10323,"date":"2019-04-29T21:10:00","date_gmt":"2019-04-29T19:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=10323"},"modified":"2019-04-29T21:10:00","modified_gmt":"2019-04-29T19:10:00","slug":"si-ta-kuptosh-ne-eshte-dashuri-apo-thjesht-nje-flake-kashte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redaktori.com\/?p=10323","title":{"rendered":"Si ta kuptosh n\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri, apo thjesht nj\u00eb flak\u00eb kashte?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eb n\u00eb fund ju keni takuar nj\u00eb person q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen.<\/p>\n<p>Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia funksionon, ai \/ ajo duket t\u00eb jet\u00eb i duhuri, nga shum\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb gjitha sinjalet duket t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb pranishme: fluturat n\u00eb stomak, bota shfaqet plot ngjyra, gj\u00ebrat negative duket se nuk kan\u00eb m\u00eb pesh\u00eb, \u00e7do gj\u00eb ndjen drit\u00ebn dhe energjia b\u00ebhet e pap\u00ebrmbajtshme.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb duket t\u00eb jet\u00eb dashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nj\u00eb flak\u00eb kashte, gati p\u00ebr t\u2019u shuar q\u00eb me problemin e par\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00eb posht\u00eb jan\u00eb treguesit e nevojsh\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fillim ngjajn\u00eb shum\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn n\u00eb fillim, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e kollajt\u00eb t\u2019i dallosh.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb dyja p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb procese psikologjike t\u00eb ngjashme ku personi i dashuruar p\u00ebrjeton t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat efekte me nj\u00eb substanc\u00eb droge, n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb sjelljen.<\/p>\n<p>Dallimi mes dashuris\u00eb dhe flak\u00ebs s\u00eb kasht\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb thell\u00ebsia e investimit emocional.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Flaka e kasht\u00ebs shpesh p\u00ebrfshin dimensionin e seksualitetit dhe aspektit t\u00eb jasht\u00ebm, dashuria vepron n\u00eb n\u00ebnshtresat e nevojave tona, aq sa v\u00eb n\u00eb loj\u00eb vet\u00eb thelbin e personit.<\/p>\n<p>Imagjinoni veten n\u00eb 5 vjet<\/p>\n<p>Variabli i koh\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mjet i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>A mendoni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb afat t\u00eb gjat\u00eb? A shihni veten me at\u00eb person edhe pas 5 vjet\u00ebsh?<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrdorni imagjinat\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb projektuar veten n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse ai \/ ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn tuaj, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb personi i duhur.<\/p>\n<p>A ndiheni vetvetja?<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb dallim i madh midis dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb thjesht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja e siguris\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Personi q\u00eb reflekton dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb sigurt dhe n\u00eb vendin e duhur pik\u00ebrisht ashtu si\u00e7 jeni.<\/p>\n<p>Ju nuk do t\u00eb keni m\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni sikur, ju do t\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb lir\u00eb t\u00eb tregoni veten me pikat e forta dhe dob\u00ebsit\u00eb sepse nuk do t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb nga gjykimi.<\/p>\n<p>Krah\u00ebt e tij\/saj, do t\u00eb jen\u00eb vendi ku ndiheni m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt.<\/p>\n<p>Vler\u00ebsoni historin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeni p\u00ebr t\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar n\u00ebse e doni me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb flak\u00ebn e re, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheni n\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn q\u00eb keni ndaj dinamik\u00ebs s\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies tuaj.<\/p>\n<p>A e doni m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si jeni s\u00eb bashku? A e doni at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mes jush? Do t\u00eb d\u00ebshironit t\u00eb jetonit me partnerin, p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse p\u00ebrgjigja \u00ebsht\u00eb po, ju po p\u00ebrjetoni dashuri p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien dhe kjo gjithashtu konfirmon dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb person. \/ MeB<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eb n\u00eb fund ju keni takuar nj\u00eb person q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia funksionon, ai \/ ajo duket t\u00eb jet\u00eb i duhuri, nga shum\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje. 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